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 Mar 12 2005, 09:34 PM
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 insanitys contagious.  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707  |
SO , I was at my basically "boyfriends " house its in quotes because its not offical yet. Yea I was with him , my best friends uncle , my other friend and the uncles friend
with me? ok. Now I was with the guy (joel) My friend was with the uncles friend ("bob") and the unlce was just there on the computer and my best friend isnt there because shes in NJ and whatever. so we were all in the bed under the covers and he decided that he wanted to have sex , now im a virgin and he didnt have a condom and he was like comeon just a little bit I was like no no no ,and no finally he got up then i thinkhe went to wash his hands. Afterwards he asked if i was mad at him im like yeah because I told you no and you kept on insisting hes like no next time when you tell me no Ill let go of you right away. Should I forgive him?? I think i should ...idk. |
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Mar 12 2005, 09:36 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
i think you should..guys just get horny
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Mar 12 2005, 09:37 PM
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BasicALLY all guys r like that..I think he shulda listened to you when u said no the first time But guys r just like that they try n try till they succeed lol Everyone deserves a second chance u shuld forgive him and he did say he wuld not do that anymore idk do what u want lol
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Mar 12 2005, 09:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
sometimes when guys get in the mood, it's hard for them to take the word no. As long as you're firm in telling him no, I think you should forgive him this time.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Yeah, like everyone else said. Forgive him this time, since it's probably the first time he asked you, and plus, all guys are like that.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:52 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again
before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom??  
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Mar 12 2005, 09:56 PM
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 you kissed my bliss away Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,695 |
I think you should forgive him because this IS the first time and he has recognized his mistake and admitted it ..juss make shur it doesnt happen again
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Mar 12 2005, 09:59 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Everyone deserves a second chance...but that doesn't always mean that he'll change. It could happen again..and what could happen you don't know....so..it's up to you.
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Mar 12 2005, 10:02 PM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 12 2005, 10:52 PM) ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom??  yeah thats another thing but I dont think he knows im a virgin...and i could tell he was really horny but yeah im not sure cause I know hes a freak and thats the onlii thing I dont like about him. |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:07 PM
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QUOTE ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom?? COMPLETELY agree!! yes.. not all guys are like that.. and plus.. he's not ur "boyfriend" yet. |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:14 PM
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QUOTE(bravodancer04 @ Mar 12 2005, 9:36 PM) i think you should..guys just get horny lol yeh 
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Mar 12 2005, 10:24 PM
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 cookies=love Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,467 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 12 2005, 9:52 PM) ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom?? yes. yes yes yes. thank u. |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:29 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Ok, contrary to everyone else, I wouldn't forgive him. You aren't even official and he wants sex from you? No- it only suggests that he only wants to get with you for sex. Even if they are horny, they should still respect your wishes, and even if he says that he'll stop next time, you can't really know....
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Mar 13 2005, 01:10 AM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Mar 12 2005, 7:29 PM) Ok, contrary to everyone else, I wouldn't forgive him. You aren't even official and he wants sex from you? No- it only suggests that he only wants to get with you for sex. Even if they are horny, they should still respect your wishes, and even if he says that he'll stop next time, you can't really know.... Agreed. |
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Mar 13 2005, 01:14 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
You should forgive him, if he only said it once. If he keeps on saying that. Don't forgive him. SO that's the choice of my opinion.
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Mar 13 2005, 09:08 AM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
yeah , well its a hard decision.
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Mar 13 2005, 09:20 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
yeah i think you should...
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Mar 13 2005, 09:28 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
yeah guys are just horny =/
although insisting was rude and everything..thats good that you said no. and its good that he didn't go further anyway. Atleast he respects you and next time said he'll let go right away. I don't know..I think you should just forgive him =/ |
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Mar 13 2005, 09:54 AM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
it's not his fault that his hormones are raging
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Mar 13 2005, 02:01 PM
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QUOTE(swe3ttemptasian @ Mar 13 2005, 10:54 AM) it's not his fault that his hormones are raging ^^^..hey you got that from me and I got that from Dr.DoLittle...hehe...I love that cameleon!!... 
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Mar 13 2005, 02:09 PM
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to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
lol yeah I got it from you!! =]
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Mar 13 2005, 02:11 PM
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QUOTE(malimars @ Mar 12 2005, 9:37 PM) BasicALLY all guys r like that..I think he shulda listened to you when u said no the first time But guys r just like that they try n try till they succeed lol Everyone deserves a second chance u shuld forgive him and he did say he wuld not do that anymore idk do what u want lol Guys do try and they dont give up usually........ It depends did he apologize for insisting? If he did I think u should forgive him but if he doesnt understand that it offended you then you shouldnt. |
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Mar 13 2005, 02:17 PM
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yea, just forgive him. Its hard for guys to control their urges, cuz most of them just get real horny and stuff. As long as he didnt force it and like rape you or something. But if u said no, and then said it a couple more times and he let go, then theres no harm in that. Just forgive him
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Mar 13 2005, 02:30 PM
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i'd be upset for awhile...you guys aren't really 'official' yet either...i'd forgive him but not right away.
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Mar 13 2005, 03:32 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 12 2005, 4:52 PM) ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom?? i agree..hes not a boyfriend yet and hes doing that?gosh... |
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Mar 13 2005, 03:44 PM
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 iiiiii'm a cucumber! Group: Member Posts: 202 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,556 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 12 2005, 9:52 PM) ALL GUYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT why are girls saying that they are like that?? don't let anyone f*ck around with you and make you believe it's okay because they promise they'll never do it again before, when me and my boyfriend would have sex it would hurt me a lot and when i told him to stop he'd stop right away even though he was really horny...i'm not saying that all great men are like him but people should have self control and respect i don't think you should forgive him because of the fact that he's not even your boyfriend yet and he wants to have sex and/or mess around already...that usually means that's all he wants you for...he should've made a commitment to you first i think it's kind of gross because other people were around...did he really expect to have sex with those people there and without a condom?? THANKYOU!! I completely agree. |
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