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 Mar 12 2005, 01:40 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving  Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152  |
my 16 year old friend wants to date a 23year old. (she actually has one to date, its not just afantasy)
i wanna be supportive, but it doenst seem righ tto me. should i give her advice, or just let her roll with it? |
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Mar 12 2005, 01:48 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
if she wants advice, give it to her, if she doesn't back off, it's her path, not urs
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Mar 12 2005, 01:59 PM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
i say tell her that you`re unsure about it, but also say that it`s her choice and you`re just giving her advice. hopefully she won`tget angry >_<;;
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Mar 12 2005, 03:54 PM
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support her but also let her noe yur not sure it's the right thing2 do
 if she starts 2 argue or anythin let it go tho-- it's her decision overall--  good luck wit dat
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Mar 12 2005, 03:57 PM
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It's ok to give her your opinion. If she doesn't like it, then just back off and let her experience it on her own.
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Mar 12 2005, 05:20 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
^Agreed. Tell her your opinion and if she gets upset well.. I guess if the consequences are bad, she'll be kicking herself in the ass for not having listened.
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Mar 12 2005, 05:39 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
give her your opinion....but support her even if she wants to date this guy.
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Mar 12 2005, 05:40 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
Tell her your opinion.
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Mar 12 2005, 08:40 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
let her know how u feel. not good to bottle up ur ideas and feelings if ur looking out for the best. besides, thats what friends are for. when u won't listen to reason, u need a friend to smack u in the face with reality.
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Mar 12 2005, 10:08 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
well...since she has a 23 year old to date...then let her. but make sure you and your friends check out the guy first, you know, make sure he's a good guy.
it shouldn't be that bad...it's not like she has a 23 year old guy fetish... yes, be supportive but pay attention to her subtle changes and make sure the relationship is normal. you should know her pretty well so if all of a sudden she's a sex fiend or something, then try to get her out of the relationship |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Mar 12 2005, 1:48 PM) if she wants advice, give it to her, if she doesn't back off, it's her path, not urs  WORD... it may hurt just by leaving it alone, but i also know a friend whos only 13 and is dating a 18 yr old.. well idk if thats much a diff. but i think its best to back off if she doesnt listen... |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:12 PM
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why dont you go out with her to get her mind off the 23yr old pedophile... jk.. or unless you do want to go out with her
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