help please its a girl thing, guys Options

[lillostblomde14]

ok my boyfriend and i hae been dating for 1 year 2 months and since like 3/4 months ago he started playin this game n he joined the team on the game and in this game u can use a head phone 2 talk...so wen he joined he still called me all the time n stuff then all the guys started making fun of him 4 having a g/f and always callin he and they told him he was wipped..since they started teasing him he has totally changed he always places him game he plays from the the minute he gets home till he goes 2 bed...his moods have change he gets mad reali easy now and he is always gettin mad at me and always turnign things so it looks like its my fault we use to hang out everyday after skool now we only hang out once a week and we use to talk on the phone all the time and be with each other on the weekends but now all he does is place him game he doesnt even bother showing his emotions anymore....i love him so0o0o much and i never wanna lose him but hes making me like im nothin and when i try to tell him he gets all mad and say im the 1 thats changed.. so wat do you think can you guys please let me no so i no wat 2 do and no y hes doing this please and thank you!!

[dahding]

1. ur boyfriend sounds like the epitome of dork.
2. ur boyfriends a douche. dump his ass.
3. tell me, how the hell do u manage to type like that?
4. if u really wanna hold onto him, talk to him about it.

[laur3nw]

That was confusing...
Well, have you talked to him about it? He shouldn't be intimidated by his friends if he really liked you. Sorry if that sounded mean, but it's the truth.

[--x who0ps]

although you love him, im pretty sure the love isnt being returned. dump him.
if he really loved you, he`d put you before his friends.
if he really loved you, he`d spend time with you.
if he really loved you, he wouldnt blame you for what he did.

& if you guys were meant for each other, you would know how to communicate through the toughest of times.

[yukichan]

although you love him, im pretty sure the love isnt being returned. dump him.
if he really loved you, he`d put you before his friends.
if he really loved you, he`d spend time with you.
if he really loved you, he wouldnt blame you for what he did.

& if you guys were meant for each other, you would know how to communicate through the toughest of times.

i agree...
it sounds like he doesnt likes u...

[Just_Dream]

Wow.. you should breakl up with him. I agree, if he truly liked (or even loved) you, he DEFINITELY would NOT put his friends before you. Not to mention that the guys on his "team" are probably JUST internet friends to him. He needs a reality check. pb[He's taking you for granted.[/b] Leave him and see what will happen. The fact that he didn't break up with you means that somehow, someway, he's still holding on.. even if it's just a tiny bit.

Gaming should not affect his social life. My boyfriend is an extreme gamer at times (he played FFXI, now WoW-World of Warcraft, Halo 2, etc) with all 3 gaming systems (GC, PS2, XBOX, GB SP, and in 2 weeks he'll get PSP), but he still makes time for me. Although I do get angry at him, I realized that gaming is in his nature. I can't fully stop him, but at the same time I told myself I wouldn't contribute to his gaming lol. But in the end I ended up buying him a game And yea..

I know you want to stay with him; by the way you're telling us your story, I can tell that you want him to change back to the way he was and actually acknowledge the fact that you're there. TELL him how you feel. If he gets angry at you, break up with him. I know it WILL BE HARD TO DO THAT, but it's best that you do. Go find a guy who can treat you right and make you top priority over any game, any day. You deserve at least that much, despite however long you've been dating this low-life that you're currently with.

[dahding]

Wow.. you should breakl up with him. I agree, if he truly liked (or even loved) you, he DEFINITELY would NOT put his friends before you. Not to mention that the guys on his "team" are probably JUST internet friends to him. He needs a reality check. pb[He's taking you for granted.[/b] Leave him and see what will happen. The fact that he didn't break up with you means that somehow, someway, he's still holding on.. even if it's just a tiny bit.

Gaming should not affect his social life. My boyfriend is an extreme gamer at times (he played FFXI, now WoW-World of Warcraft, Halo 2, etc) with all 3 gaming systems (GC, PS2, XBOX, GB SP, and in 2 weeks he'll get PSP), but he still makes time for me. Although I do get angry at him, I realized that gaming is in his nature. I can't fully stop him, but at the same time I told myself I wouldn't contribute to his gaming lol. But in the end I ended up buying him a game And yea..

I know you want to stay with him; by the way you're telling us your story, I can tell that you want him to change back to the way he was and actually acknowledge the fact that you're there. TELL him how you feel. If he gets angry at you, break up with him. I know it WILL BE HARD TO DO THAT, but it's best that you do. Go find a guy who can treat you right and make you top priority over any game, any day. You deserve at least that much, despite however long you've been dating this low-life that you're currently with.

ur bf plays WoW? god. that game costs a shizaload. like, 40 bucks just for the game. and 20 bucks per month cause of all the updates. that's crazy.

such wise words christina. i can see it now...guru christina. or something like that.

i want cookies..

[silver-rain]

Yeah, like everyone said, break up with him. If he truly cared about you, you would be more important than any game or friends. My boyfriend also plays video games, but he also makes time for me and realizes that I'm more important than any game.
Talk with him, and if he yells, break it off. I can sense that you want to stay with him, but if he's making you feel like you're nothing, he doesn't deserve you.

[tinababy143]

i dont think you should break up with him..i think you should talk to him about whats going on and meet in the middle somewhere..he should play his game half the time and spend half the time with you..i do have to say tho..if he changed the way he acted because of his friends making fun of him..that is pretty messed up..but like i said, i dont think you should break up with him..every relationship has its ups and downs and i see them as obstacles to overcome..if you guys really love each other, you will work it out

[EmmalieV]

you made a topic on this =(

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

awWwwzZz..sorry sweetie that sounds soOo sad...I'm sorry!!!...well I think you that you should talk to him and explain how you feel about him changing!!!...hope that helps!!--->

[xx silhouetted]

i wouldn't say break up with him yet. try to work it out. talk to him and tell him how you feel. if he gets mad tell him to shut the f**k up and let you finish. tell him he's got a week to get his priorities straight (meaning you over the game) or your gone. give him the choice. that way, if he doesn't do it, then he doesn't care about you much less LOVE you. it will then be HIS fault the relationship failed, you have a reason to dislike him, and get over him quicker.