This girl.., my boyfriend ex Options

[Fatality]

Alright. This girl named, let's call her Jamie, still has a very large crush on her ex who is my boyfriend. She also has a boyfriend whom she has cheated on 3 or more times but continuously tells him.."I Love You.." which is crap because she doesn't. She willingly admits to my boyfriend she still has feelings for him and that he is better than her current boyfriend. I confronted her on this. I;m a 5'6 "goth" girl who has broken 6 kids nose at my current school. She know's this. She's afraid. She lies. Well, Today I find out she's telling everyone the "details" about her relationship with my boyfriend. I'm not happy..

Instead of me getting suspended again..
What should I do?

I've tried the "tell her boyfriend she cheated" thing.
He believed her.
I've fought with her in the hall.
Got in trouble.
I slammed her face into a locker,
BUT only after she drug her nails over my face..

What can I do without resorting to violence.

P.S.-I never start these. She's always hitting me. -.-

[dahding]

oh come on. just break her damn arm and laugh like a maniacal f***. who caresss. jesus. and who cares about how many ppl's noses u've broken.


or tell all of the truth to ur bf. tell him to get her to back off. shtuff like that. and if ur bf still likes her, break it off.

[to-devastate]

^ agreed. Talk to your boyfriend about how you're feeling. Tell him you're uncomfortable with her because she still likes him and tell him the truth. Or.. tell someone? I don't know.

[yukichan]

oh come on. just break her damn arm and laugh like a maniacal f***. who caresss. jesus. and who cares about how many ppl's noses u've broken.
or tell all of the truth to ur bf. tell him to get her to back off. shtuff like that. and if ur bf still likes her, break it off.

i agree...tell ur bf about it..

[FireArrow]

Ok.. dont kick her ass IN school.. kick her ass OUTSIDE of school, just dont kill her...

[EmmalieV]

exactly they cant do anythign if its not on school property.

[*suddenly she*]

learn how to grapple.. joint locks. if she takes it too far, and there are visible injuries on you, put her in a joint lock. don't hurt her or injure her, so there's no blame on you. but make her know that if she even tries for your guy, then you'll actually break her arm the next time.

um.. if i wasn't going to use violence..

write her a nice note, spelling it out nicely and clearly that you don't appreciate her stupidity. if it doesn't work, write a harsher note with the same motives, and involve whatever might wake her up. it might be brutal, but what has to be done, needs to be done.

same with dahding, if your guy likes her, leave.

i'd hate to go to your school. no offense, but i've given a boy a bloody jaw because he was insulting a friend of mine and nothing happened to me. maybe it's because all the teachers love me. or because i'm on staff.

this is a bit off subject, but you sound like a really cool person.

[rainnydaiis]

I just say you talk your boyfriend. If the problem continues knock her ass back to the 18th century.... Outside of school

[heyyfrankie]

i guess all you can do is just tell her no.
but if she is REALLY pissing you off, dont' break her nose but hurt her!

good luck!

[Fatality]

Funny thing in this case.
My boyfriend hates her but he won't tell her to her godd@mn face and it makes me angry. She threatning to press charges against me now. I supposidly invaded her privacy. I even had to talk to the lovely officee in the office who loves me. She got in more trouble with that, but still possible charges.

And I can't even beat her @ss after school. She can take it back to school because the argument/fight started there verbally and went to a higher level somewhere else.

I told her off today.
She cried.
But she still doesn't get the point.
I'm getting slightly fed up with her ridiculous-self-centered-b!tchyness

But, yeah. My boyfriend hates her. She hates me. But likes him. Sooo. It's quite an odd day..everyday.

[Shattered_Hope]

if talking to her doesn't work...then talk to your b/f. Maybe he can get her to leave you and your b/f alone.

[SuiE]

Ok.. dont kick her ass IN school.. kick her ass OUTSIDE of school, just dont kill her...

haha i agree with that.. but since you cant.. i suppose you should just.. hmMm.. OO I NOE! talk shit bout her and wait till she comes to you and starts the fight.. so you wont get blamed.. iernOo... i usualii just f**k up the person and tell them "beter not bring this to the school or ill jump your ass everyday.. blah blah blah"... hmM.. good luck.. and since your boiifriend hates her you shouldnt realliii worrie about anything happening between them.. just trust your boiii...

[kyuubi319]

Jesus.. kudos to you for being so self-contained. I wouldn't do that..
Well.. don't listen to me because I'm the wrong person to ask for advice, for the most part, but i think you should rip her arm off, shove it up her ass and out her throat.

[misoshiru]

get your bf to tell her to eff off.

[justalanna]

Without violence, the best way.. tell your boyfriend how you feel and that you don't want to lose him because of this girl etc. Tell him everything you try (talking, physical, etc) isn't working and that he needs to tell her he's not interested and he's moved on. That's the only way she'll probably let up of this ongoing drama. I hope things work out. Good luck. =)