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Will I be single FOREVER!!, pathetic and perpetually single..
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:31 PM
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Ok, I'm turning 15 in a bit more than a week...I have NEVER had a boyfriend...not even a day long elementary school boyfriend..whats wrong with me, is it because I'm smart, is it because I'm quiet?

I feel so left out and that is not a good feeling..
I feel like I'm the only one, what do guys like...and why can't you like smart girls!!
are we intimidating? I don't know why, cry.gif help me sad.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:41 PM
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don't worry! someday there will be a person who's going to appreciate your smartnes...=]
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:41 PM
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Wait.....wait for the right person, it's better to have one Good perfect boyfriend than to have multiple crappy ones who are just for show
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:44 PM
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you just haven't met the right guy yet... happy.gif don't worry....you'll meet that special someone someday. laugh.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:46 PM
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aww sweetie. don't worry. i had only one boyfriend just for a day; but he doesn't count.. becuase it's not really like anything..
Your guy will come. Just be patient _smile.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:46 PM
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well have u heard of the phrase "there is always that one person out there for you" well thats what you should referr to. Dont worry you will bump into a boy that likes you for the way u are and for your smartness... and its nott hat your smart maybe that your too quiet or shy?? _unsure.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:47 PM
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just wait. don't rush into things. its okay hun. happy.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 09:48 PM
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ill go out with you! wink.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 10:11 PM
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dont worry every body ends up with somebody and you look pretty so thats not a dount =D
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 10:13 PM
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i am just like you the smart and quiet....except i am turning 14
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 10:14 PM
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you'll always find someone when you're not looking for one...

that's always happened to me...usually, actually in all cases, i was looking at one guy but got another guy tongue.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 10:17 PM
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dont worry about it, i kno some ppl who haven't had boyfriends until they were in in college(kinda pathetic when your that old but anyways..) your not alone in the world.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 11:13 PM
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Don't worry about it! Just wait and be patient. Someone will come to you. There are a lot of people out there that are probably older than you and haven't had a bf yet.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 11:20 PM
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With an attitude like that, you might be rolleyes.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 11:42 PM
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Don't worry, the right guy will come along. I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 16, so there's nothing to worry about.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 11:57 PM
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QUOTE(The 1 and only JJ @ Mar 10 2005, 4:48 PM)
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lol..
wait for the right guy..dont rush things...there is always a guy in the world waiting for u...
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 11:59 PM
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some people start off earlier than others, it doesnt mean they are ahead of u. So what if ur 15 and u dont have a boyfriend yet. Some of my friends still dont have gf's yet haha, its sad if u think about it, but its just not that important to them right now. 15 is nothing to worry about okay?

Just enjoy life while u can, try not to make ur life about boys yet haha...the opposite sex carry alot of drama and problems with em =]
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 12:04 AM
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Ok.. 95% of my friends have no gfs.. only I and 1 or 2 friends of mine do.. so.. im almost 15.. so yeah... no need to stress out
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 12:46 AM
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aw it might be that your in the wrong place maybe.
but just you wait til you meet that first guy.
it was a huge distraction to my school studies. watchout.
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 12:51 AM
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Well...I've never had a boyfriend either. It doesn't really bother me, you should just do what comes naturally. For now, just worry about school, friends and family. Guys shouldn't be your top priority.
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 12:52 AM
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wait for the guy...but im here with ya...except that im a boy...so no gf yet...meh i dont care...as long as the ONE comes...haha...yea
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 01:09 AM
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QUOTE(xBeBeKissezx @ Mar 10 2005, 10:17 PM)
dont worry about it, i kno some ppl who haven't had boyfriends until they were in in college(kinda pathetic when your that old but anyways..) your not alone in the world.
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Oh beetlejuice...

Why would it be pathetic?

Child, pathetic is standardizing what age a girl should have a boyfriend.
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 01:46 AM
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Don't worry; don't rush into it. Me and my ex rushed into and needless to say, it didn't work out. It was huge distraction to my studies...and my grades plumetted. Trust me...the right one will come for you ^^
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 02:50 AM
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don't worry...i know girls who're 17 and haven't had a boyfriend yet. there's no rush. i'm sure you'll find someone. and being smart is a good thing. just relax, things will be fine. _smile.gif
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 08:27 AM
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I know exactly how you feel, I'm only 13 but I feel the same way you do.

And everyone keeps telling me that I just have to wait for a perfect guy to pop up, BUT I DONT WANNA WAIT!

So I really don't have any advice for you.. sorry. cry.gif
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 08:40 AM
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QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Mar 10 2005, 9:46 PM)
aww sweetie. don't worry. i had only one boyfriend just for a day; but he doesn't count.. becuase it's not really like anything..
Your guy will come. Just be patient  _smile.gif
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l agree!

There is nothing wrong in waiting as long as its worth it.

Your young, smart and beautiful. You just have to wait for him.

You will gonna meet alot of people as you go on through life.

Maybe he's somewhere out there just waiting for you to notice him.

Why not look around and see a familiar smiling face staring at you.

Maybe its him or maybe not tongue.gif
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 10:33 PM
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when i was 15 i had never had a boyfriend either and it was the same way with my best friend and we are attractive girls. dont worry it is normal, it may seem as though everyone your age has had a boyfriend but it is also normal not even date until you are out of highschool...so calm down!!
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 12:59 AM
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i'm pretty pathetic too. non-existent love life and everything. guys have liked me, but i guess i am too shy. it's okay though. love is patient... & i'm patient for my first to come.

aw you will have a bf one day. smartness is admirable. quietness adds mystery. & you're not ugly.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 03:50 AM
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its ok..................like alex always says "dun wurrry bout it" <3 lol i freaking count how many times he says that in one day

but yea...guys r jus retarted n shallown go for those "pretty" girls. WELL...im a straight A student. .....n apparently some guys like that. =) trust me..........they MAY be the fewer...but they ARE the best of the bunch........n besides. nerds r HOT :p........

<3 much love. n good luck
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 03:55 AM
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you'll find someone sometime. what's so bad about being single though? i'm almost 16 and i've never had a bf, not in elementary school, middle school, or hs.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 04:22 AM
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i think thats good. You haven't had to deal w/ </3 breaks'... etc etc. But there's always someone there for you.. just wait
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 11:21 AM
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^ i agree with swe3ttemptasian. sometimes not having a bf is good, i mean you don't have to go through all the stress and stuff.
just be patient. you'll find him
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 01:42 PM
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my first boyfriend was at sixteen. its ok. he will come along and wen he does he will be a pretty good boyfriend cuz it sounds like ur the kind of girl who wants a serious relationship
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 01:44 PM
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you'll be fine, i promise.

read bridget jones' diary and be grateful you donthave to deal with that shit.

we guys are jerks, promise
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 01:45 PM
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Just go out more, but keep waiting, you'll never know when the right guy is right there.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 05:53 PM
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heh.. imagine being 16 w/o ever having a boyfriend. it makes me feel really really really left out. and it could be that you're quiet.

i just have the tendancy to put guys down.. but if you've gone through what i've gone through you'd understand too..
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 07:57 PM
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Don't worry about it. Most guys are too scared of rejection to go after a girl they aren't sure likes them. Also most guys at this age are loking for an easy girl so they can get some. Forget all the jerks. Find a guy you like and make frieends with him. Eventually it might turn into something more.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 08:03 PM
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screw boys. seriously. they suck anyways.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 09:05 PM
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QUOTE(michelina~kudelka @ Mar 10 2005, 9:31 PM)
Ok, I'm turning 15 in a bit more than a week...I have NEVER had a boyfriend...not even a day long elementary school boyfriend..whats wrong with me, is it because I'm smart, is it because I'm quiet?

I feel so left out and that is not a good feeling..
I feel like I'm the only one, what do guys like...and why can't you like smart girls!!
are we intimidating? I don't know why,  cry.gif   help me sad.gif
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haha i know how you feel. everyone at my school and i mean EVERYONE is hooking up and sometimes i just feel left out. i kinda want a boyfriend, but then i think i want one just for the sake of having one. and that isnt good.

just be patient =) you're also very pretty ^^ so just wait for the right guy to come
 
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