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post Mar 10 2005, 03:23 AM
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What where some of your reasons you have evr broken up for?
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 03:36 AM
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I've only broken up once.
The reason was logical, he lived over 1,000 miles away, after moving with his family. We tried to have a long distance relationship, but that never worked out.

I've been broken up with a few times:
1.) 'It just wasn't the right time.'
2.) 'You won't quit smoking for me.'

There were a few others too, but eh, none I can actually remember.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 07:01 AM
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she was too immature in a relationship, like a jhs kid. not trusting, wayyy too clingy. everytime there was something wrong, like, the smallest things on earth, she'd tell EVVVVEERRRYYYYBODY else and then have everyone else find me, bitch at me, and then expect me to fix everything now now now. and she'd be like, "why aren't u caring?" i asked her why she couldn't just tell me directly. her reason: "i dunno." she never called me. why? "i don't like using the phone."

oh please. mad.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 08:45 AM
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I've only had one relationship. He broke up with me.
Because...
"Nothing's happening."

And now... 1 year after the breakup, I only just got over him, and that's because I learnt that he was just playing around with me.
He said to my guy friend...
"I wasn't serious when I went out with her."

Nice eh? Well at least now I'm finally over him.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 12:32 PM
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well sometimes... they break up with me because im too much of a girl to do it first..

1. He moved to boston
2. He said things werent working out ( and they werent )

^ but now he wants me back haha. hes funny.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 12:58 PM
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because wshe couldnt talk to me to my face. we cant have a relationship via text
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 03:28 PM
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I only had one relationship. He broke up with me about eight months ago after a 4 1/2 month relationship because things weren't working out and nothing was happening. I just got over him a few days ago..
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 04:24 PM
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My reasoning for breaking up with people is logical. He just wasn't the person that I thought he was, or he changed for the worst. Or if I just really didn't like the guy, I'd just tell him things wouldn't work out between us.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 04:25 PM
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I never was in a real relationship..
but some reasons i heard around was: it's not working out; its not you. it's me; and i need some space.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 04:40 PM
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Nothing to do in the damn relationship. She said she would call, she never did. All that crap, we would never hold hands, never kiss, occasional hugs and thats it. I realised something was really wrong when in her info it said "I love him... he just lives too far away" Wtf...
Now, shes making me feel bad by reminiscing all the memories we used to have in the beggining, she supposedly wants to get back with me, but I refuse.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 05:38 PM
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i didn't like the guy. He bored me whistling.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 05:55 PM
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My ex cause wayyy too much drama..And he was bitchy anyways..
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 06:03 PM
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I've only had one previous relationship, other than the one I'm in now. He broke up with me, his reason? Because he liked flirting with other girls and were interested in other girls and didn't want a girlfriend at the time... pfft jerk. But the real reason was probably because nothing was happening, we didn't hold hands, hug, kiss that often.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 07:24 PM
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broken up wiht people... been broken

my reasons:
i just didnt like him.
he cheated on me.

his reason:
i wuldnt have sex with him.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 08:00 PM
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I only had one "real" relationship. My ex broke up with me in November of 2004 after going out for one whole month.

His reasons are:
-I'm too clingy to him.
-He didn't like the hand holding stuff while I did
-He just wasn't ready for a relationship with a girl
-We were too different and things won't work out if we stayed together
-He didn't care about the relationship while I did
-He never saw me as his girlfriend, while I saw him as my boyfriend
-He only asked me out because he knew I liked him, not because he liked me back. And he wasn't serious when he asked me out. I wasn't supposed to say yes.

Pffft...now that I'm over him, I wonder how on Earth did I ever fell for a jerk like him pinch.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 08:29 PM
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I've only ever been in one relationship.

We broke off on a nice note. I think it was because we were sort of slowly drifting apart and doing less and less with each other and it looked like he wasn't going to say anything, so I took the action and sat him down and talked about it. We both decided we should break up and we did.

I'm glad we're not bitter about it.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 08:31 PM
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one..he was just annoying..
for another...didn't mean to say yes..i just didn't know what to say..
and another..it was just to awkawrd =/ i saw him more as a friend
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 01:46 AM
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Ah, I forgot..

i had been dating this guy, Mark for about three months..
Don't know why I put up with him that long:
A) He was into heavy drugs (cocaine, heroine)
B) Always wanted to use MY money for HIS drugs.
C) Got pissy at me when I lectured him.
D) Didn't have any ambition to quit entirely.

The good things about him that I kinda miss:
A) He did put minimal effort into quitting (he started going to a clinic)
B) He was absolutely gorgeous.
C) He loved to be affectionate
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 02:09 AM
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i found someone else..
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 02:49 AM
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i ended up realizing i didn't really feel the same way about him as he did about me.
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 03:27 AM
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im not sure why he broke up with me...he just said that he didnt like me anymore...my friend told me later that he broke up with me because i didnt get his jokes...i was like huh.gif blink.gif
 
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post Mar 11 2005, 07:49 AM
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he said : "You're too mature for me"

::shrugs:: a week since. getting over his immaturity is kinda easier than I thought.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 03:55 PM
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I've only been in one relationship...
go figure he cheated on me with my "best friend"....
sadly I'm still not over him...
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:37 PM
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It was a mutual breakup, with the reaons being

1.) we got bored, considering neither of us has cars and could never go anywhere
2.) lack of communication, we ran out of things to say
3.) stupid fights, usually over someone of the other sex that threatened our relationship, or seemed to
4.) he didn't want to fall in love just yet
5.) we both flirt way too much and enjoy it
6.) he never opened up about his feelings, even though he sucked at covering them up
7.) other people were more fun and interesting to be around

even after it all, i still miss him..he was really good at the hugging, kissing, cuddling, just being there for you part. that mattered

oh well.
 
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post Mar 18 2005, 04:38 PM
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i was too imature... my ex wore cat ears >_> and she called me imature?
 

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