Complicated situation..., What should I do!? Options

[ficklenesswhatev...]

Okay, there's this guy that my friend knows, and I talk to him over AIM. He seemed really nice and stuff so I talked to him a lot, we got along. I started to like him, but he was really into this girl Stephanie who didn't like him at all. She had a boyfriend, but she kept telling him she liked him. Meanwhile, the friend that introduced me to him knew I liked him so she told him bad stuff about Stephanie and good stuff about me. Now he likes me but is all depressed and stuff and cuts. He's really dependant on me, like if I dont call or get on AIM whenever he wants he says he'll kill himself. I don't like him anymore because he's freaking me out, and he's telling me he's in love with me. (We haven't even met, and he's saying he loves me.) I've been avoiding him because he really really freaks me out, but today I had to talk to him. I told him that I couldn't have him put a guild-trip on me whenever he didn't get something he wanted. And he put another guilt trip on me. I told him to stop, because I don't wanna hang around or be friends with people who are constantaly making me feel bad. I signed off saying I might do something drastic. I think he meant commit suicide or something, but I wanna tell someone he cuts. Our school district has a program that you can call annonamusly and tell people about that kind of thing....but his parents know, and aren't doing anything about it. Should I get the school district involved?

Sorry if that took forever to read..but it's really complacated.

[--x who0ps]

whoaa your friend needs some serious help.
yes, tell the school district.
and what do you mean you`ve never met him ? o_o?
get away from his as much as possible. maybe like blocking him on your bl or something. seriously. he`s jst trying to get attention. drama king.

[dahding]

haha, ur friend's a douche. who cares. let him kill himself. i won't miss him. and he's not gonna. it's over a little wittle crush. big whoop. oh wells.

[KiRbYg0t2MuChSuG...]

you should tell the district. someone needs to help him

[(>")>]

Do you know what this reminded me of...that song by eminem "stan" try watching the music video (this is part of the topic..not going off-topic..read on)

stan.. hes like addicted eminem in the video...like your friend whos a lil addicted to you...i think he kinda needs help cuz hes going insane from a crush...its just a crush you know...so is he Cutting himself because of you?...i think you should kinda tell the district...thats what i would do...but its ur choice...
but this is kinda a sad story...

[*Programmer*]

kids got issues.....break up with him because it's not healthy for you

[Chii]

he needs help...but not because of "cutting" himself which i highly doubt he does. all he's doing is trying to guilt you into liking him more and when you do, he's going to control you. i've been there, stay away from guys like that. everything he probably told you are lies, and it's easy for him to trick you because you've never met!!! he peobably gave you that bullsh*t about how his parents don't care, he's depressed, you're his only friend, and blah blah blah

i hate it when people throw around "i love you" to trap their victims

this is what you do:
1.) look at your buddy list and delete him
2.) go to your preferences in your buddy list and on privacy and click that "allow only users on my buddy list" under the "who can contact me" thing
3.) that loser is gone and can't make up a new screenname to contact you

Do you know what this reminded me of...that song by eminem "stan" try watching the music video (this is part of the topic..not going off-topic..read on)

stan.. hes like addicted eminem in the video...like your friend whos a lil addicted to you...i think he kinda needs help cuz hes going insane from a crush...its just a crush you know...so is he Cutting himself because of you?...i think you should kinda tell the district...thats what i would do...but its ur choice...
but this is kinda a sad story...

those are rare situations, and plus eminem is famous. psycho people love celebrities

[(>")>]

up there^^^^^^^

(this is what you do:
1.) look at your buddy list and delete him
2.) go to your preferences in your buddy list and on privacy and click that "allow only users on my buddy list" under the "who can contact me" thing
3.) that loser is gone and can't make up a new screenname to contact you)


very..very...veryy good idea...

(sorry for double posting)

[EmmalieV]

yeah , get counselors involved.

[Stupidxaimee]

Yes you shuold go tell the school district because your friend seriously needed help. See if you didn't and he died, then you would feel guilty for not telling so yeah.

[yukichan]

u should tell the district..if the parents rnt helping theres something wrong with the family too..even if u dont want to talk to him u should try to get him to listen to u and make him better...u might be the only one he listens to...

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

yea...get him help. he needs some serious help. psychiatrist or something. counsler might help. get him help. he needs it.

[ficklenesswhatev...]

I told him that I didn't want to hang around with people who try to make me feel bad when they don't get what they want...so he said we will 'take a break' from talking to each other. I told him "until further notice". I don't really plan on noticing him....

Thanks guys...this helps a lot. I've been thinking about it foreverrr. I don't want to call the hotline or whatever until no one's home...and tonight no one will be. I am gonna call then...I'll repost or something after that...

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

yes you should tell the school board district whatever...that can get realli serious if you don't do something about it...cause you don't have to feel guilty if he did something...cause if he ended up doin something and you didn't do nething about it then you would feel guilty...you would actually think your the reason why he died...I kno a guy who used to do that but he was always lyin but if he already is cuttin himself...than I think you should do something...if this guys name is Seth please juss stop talkin to him...cause he does that to everybody...but if it's not juss forget it and talk to someone..

[subzero]

so, you contact the district and they take action?
does this mean he goes to your school?

[xj_liana_tx]

call... he sounds like a threat, not only to himself, but to you too.

[MeanBastard]

Let him kill himself. It's thje only solution.

[Ombra]

i say you get far far away from him. hes looking for attention. now if he cut because of his past or he was in deep depression then i would say do something different because you should never leave a sucidal person alone but still thats not the case. so i believe you should report him to the school disterict. any family that doesnt care that hes cutting himself needs to be shot. sorry but thats just freaking wrong. asscracks. good luck with your next crushes, dont let a man rule you.

-meg

[ficklenesswhatev...]

Uugh. I called the hotline or whatever, and it turns out it's for "crime". I'm thinking about telling my school counceler...

No, he doesn't go to my school. He goes to another school in my district.

[Ombra]

tell the school councler or write an e-mail or letter to his school counsler, or you could alway call the school and ask to remane unnamed.

[Aesirus]

Okay, there's this guy that my friend knows, and I talk to him over AIM. He seemed really nice and stuff so I talked to him a lot, we got along. I started to like him, but he was really into this girl Stephanie who didn't like him at all. She had a boyfriend, but she kept telling him she liked him. Meanwhile, the friend that introduced me to him knew I liked him so she told him bad stuff about Stephanie and good stuff about me. Now he likes me but is all depressed and stuff and cuts. He's really dependant on me, like if I dont call or get on AIM whenever he wants he says he'll kill himself. I don't like him anymore because he's freaking me out, and he's telling me he's in love with me. (We haven't even met, and he's saying he loves me.) I've been avoiding him because he really really freaks me out, but today I had to talk to him. I told him that I couldn't have him put a guild-trip on me whenever he didn't get something he wanted. And he put another guilt trip on me. I told him to stop, because I don't wanna hang around or be friends with people who are constantaly making me feel bad. I signed off saying I might do something drastic. I think he meant commit suicide or something, but I wanna tell someone he cuts. Our school district has a program that you can call annonamusly and tell people about that kind of thing....but his parents know, and aren't doing anything about it. Should I get the school district involved?

Sorry if that took forever to read..but it's really complacated.

Using THE DISTRICT is a great way to ruin his life after he ruined yours. Go for it.

[ficklenesswhatev...]

Eh. The district didn't work...I am dreading this, but I just might have to get of my ass and tell the actual counceler. *shivers* Ugh, confrontation.

[justalanna]

Don't be afraid to tell a school counselor. Tell them you'd like to be anonymous in telling this story, but you need to get that kid some help. You don't want anything bad happening to him. After that, don't worry about it anymore, you won't have to deal with it.

[ficklenesswhatev...]

He called...I had my mum say I wasn't home...Ugh. Why can't he just get the message already!?

[CUTEBUNNY160]

i say tell cause this dude needs help.

[my_sunshine]

this happened to me before. i used to be talking to this 'online dude' and he was really sweet and suicidal and he told me that he loved me. but, it got kind of creepy seeing that we never met. then i realized that he was doing this to other girls too. i wonder .. ARE WE TALKING ABOUT THE SAME GUY?!?!?! 0_o;;;;;;

anyways, i think you have either 2 choices: comfort him or ignore him. i`d try to comfort him and try to give him advice. (which you have done) however, if he still continues to be suicidal .. BLOCK HIM AND RUN AWAY!

[swe3ttemptasian]

Yeah, you should get the school district to help him. His parents don't care?

[ficklenesswhatev...]

Ugh...I don't want to...I'm too afraid something bad will happen..

[Shattered_Hope]

he needs help
tell the school district.