this guy :), what should I do |
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 Mar 4 2005, 11:21 PM
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There is this one guy at my school that I'm starting to like. After school I went over to his house and we played truth or dare and i asked him who he liked ova and ova again...and none of them was me
 But he did put his arm around me a few times lol that was the highlight of the visit lol  he'll look at me in the eye and everything makes me wanna be with him...what should I do?? Not fully sure if I like him...but I think I'm starting too...even tho I don't really want 2...dunno if that made any sense.. |
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Mar 4 2005, 11:31 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
1. give up and move on.
2. stop being so annoying. "who do u like?" "nobody." "who do u like??" "nobody." "who do u likeeee???" "NOBODY, NOT U, SO SHADDAP!" 3. ur not sure, so don't start anything yet. 4. don't ask him out if ur not sure, that'll create an unstable relationship. 5. i want soda. pick one or whatever. advice/choices. |
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Mar 4 2005, 11:37 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
Ehm. o_O.
Get to be friends with him first? And don't ask him so many times..cause it will sound obvious to him that you like him.. |
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Mar 4 2005, 11:42 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
you're too desperate by repeating questions.
"putting his arm over you" doesn't mean anything... it could be just a friendly gesture. but... just try talking to him; being his friend. take it from then on. |
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Mar 4 2005, 11:47 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
umm...why don't you not make it so obvious that you like him...and be so irritating like that? No offense..but asking him that over and over will annoy him. The only thing you can do is wait...get to know him more...and get a more thorough feel with your emotions...don't do anything stupid until you're sure you at least like this guy.
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Mar 5 2005, 12:12 AM
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uhh...lets try making it so that you kinda flirt...not...force...yea..
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Mar 5 2005, 12:31 AM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
get to know him more.
my friend does that too me too. He puts his arm around me and stuff. Totally hate it  but I just hit him  and he stops. It's just jokingly.. so I know he doesn't like me.Maybe he's shy to tell you in his face? Who knows.. |
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Mar 5 2005, 02:11 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 4 2005, 11:31 PM) 1. give up and move on. 2. stop being so annoying. "who do u like?" "nobody." "who do u like??" "nobody." "who do u likeeee???" "NOBODY, NOT U, SO SHADDAP!" 3. ur not sure, so don't start anything yet. 4. don't ask him out if ur not sure, that'll create an unstable relationship. 5. i want soda. pick one or whatever. advice/choices.  Agreed. I want juice. Orange Juice. Lets trade dahding, I'll give you soda for orange juice. Deal? 
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Mar 5 2005, 02:31 AM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
0.0... Hmm I must be reading signs wrong then... I thought the girl asking over and over who I liked didnt like me...
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Mar 5 2005, 03:36 AM
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i started liking a guy a while ago
yesterday afterschool i got a friend to tell him that day online we had a talk n i was heartbroken. cuz even tho he said " i never said i didn't like u"..he never said he did. so i assumed he didn't...n prepared for heartbreak today.. just a few minuts ago. he said "k..so the thing is....i do like u.....n i cud've like prevented u from doin all this depressed thing...and i feel bad for doin it" those were his exact words. i knew i had a chance. i went for it. n it WORKED! *cough* first time i told a guy i liked him. |
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Mar 5 2005, 10:48 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Mar 5 2005, 4:36 PM) i started liking a guy a while ago yesterday afterschool i got a friend to tell him that day online we had a talk n i was heartbroken. cuz even tho he said " i never said i didn't like u"..he never said he did. so i assumed he didn't...n prepared for heartbreak today.. just a few minuts ago. he said "k..so the thing is....i do like u.....n i cud've like prevented u from doin all this depressed thing...and i feel bad for doin it" those were his exact words. i knew i had a chance. i went for it. n it WORKED! *cough* first time i told a guy i liked him. Wow.. I admire your courage. I really do. 
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Mar 5 2005, 11:03 AM
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Try hanging out with him & talking to him more. Maybe once you become better friends something could happen.
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Mar 5 2005, 12:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,432 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 4 2005, 10:31 PM) 1. give up and move on. 2. stop being so annoying. "who do u like?" "nobody." "who do u like??" "nobody." "who do u likeeee???" "NOBODY, NOT U, SO SHADDAP!" 3. ur not sure, so don't start anything yet. 4. don't ask him out if ur not sure, that'll create an unstable relationship. 5. i want soda. pick one or whatever. advice/choices. Haha a lot of u sed don't be so annoying...but it wasnt really like that. He would ask me questions like who's the hottest guy in school, who would u most be likely to go out with...so I asked him in return the same questions. lol. Trust me...I'm not that annoying ;) |
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Mar 5 2005, 02:23 PM
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 skills to pay the bills... Group: Member Posts: 417 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,204 |
Well, first of all. Stop asking him who he likes. And if he asks you who you like, tell the truth and say him.
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Mar 5 2005, 02:27 PM
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Get over it.
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Mar 5 2005, 04:26 PM
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QUOTE(Spud @ Mar 5 2005, 1:23 PM) Well, first of all. Stop asking him who he likes. And if he asks you who you like, tell the truth and say him. Like I said...I'm not sure...so I didnt tell him Anyway, I've got all the answers I need. People dont have to post anymore unless they want to Thanx |
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Mar 6 2005, 02:01 AM
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 iMmA reAl gUrL Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,191 |
I think hes makin up al those other girls that he sayin he likes just to lie and take up his turn...if he really likes you hell ask you out sometime and say hi usually...unless your justt 'plain old friends'
Hes probably just not sayin he likes you cuz if he asked you who you like would u just straight out say u of course who else....hes prob embarassed.... just chill youll find the perfect guy sometime |
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Mar 6 2005, 06:56 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 4 2005, 8:31 PM) 1. give up and move on. 2. stop being so annoying. "who do u like?" "nobody." "who do u like??" "nobody." "who do u likeeee???" "NOBODY, NOT U, SO SHADDAP!" 3. ur not sure, so don't start anything yet. 4. don't ask him out if ur not sure, that'll create an unstable relationship. 5. i want soda. pick one or whatever. advice/choices. dustin you make me laugh.  just thought i'd say that. anyways, good luck on what you're going to do. 
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Mar 6 2005, 07:05 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Either you move on or grow some balls and tell him you like him. if u dont tell him, it will go nowhere and it will be a waste of ur time.
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Mar 6 2005, 08:44 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
aznhunnie6o1: I HAVE ORANGE JUICE! i'll trade.
alice: yayy, so proud of u. steph: yayy, i made u laugh. tee hee. smyleefaceangel: don't u wink at me foo'. nah, jp. or am i.. |
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Mar 6 2005, 09:20 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 5 2005, 12:31 AM) 1. give up and move on. 2. stop being so annoying. "who do u like?" "nobody." "who do u like??" "nobody." "who do u likeeee???" "NOBODY, NOT U, SO SHADDAP!" 3. ur not sure, so don't start anything yet. 4. don't ask him out if ur not sure, that'll create an unstable relationship. 5. i want soda. pick one or whatever. advice/choices. Imao0o. I agree from 1-4 |
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Mar 6 2005, 09:41 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 4 2005, 6:31 PM) 5. i want soda. pick one or whatever. advice/choices. huh..lol... hmm u shouldnt ask him a lot...its just going to annoy him...maybe u should just ask him if u want to know so much... |
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Mar 8 2005, 06:44 PM
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QUOTE(nekochan1018 @ Mar 6 2005, 8:41 PM) huh..lol... hmm u shouldnt ask him a lot...its just going to annoy him...maybe u should just ask him if u want to know so much... have u been readin anything I wrote??  lol I think I already answered all ur questions
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Mar 8 2005, 06:56 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
you can like someone without them liking you back..you know? like just because they may not like you doesn't mean you have to give up or anything...maybe when he didn't mention you he was shy? eh i dont know
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Mar 8 2005, 07:45 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
if he likes you and you are over at his house, it is not likely that he is going to say that he likes you. =/ he is probably embrassed. =|
he might like you or he might now. just ask him and tell him how you feel. |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:35 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
its prolly not real so dont get ur hopes too high
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Mar 8 2005, 10:04 PM
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 iuvenesco Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
don't probe him with too many questions. it'll only irk him
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Mar 8 2005, 10:10 PM
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don't pressure him with those kind of questions...what if he does like you and then he got turned off because you repeatedly ask him those kind of questions?
anyways...if he likes you, he'll say so -some day- and if he doesn't...he won't say so, -end of story- harsh but truedon't you feel that love is sometimes simple and complex? |
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