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 Mar 4 2005, 08:45 PM
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my gut reaction: yes!! think about it...you get to forget death, pain, sadness, it would just be so much easier to live on lik ethat
but now i guess memories are worth to keep. it doesnt matter if they're bad memories or not, im sure that along with those memories, there were a lot of good ones too. besides, the more bad experiences you go through, the more you'll be able to enjoy good future experiences. 
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Mar 4 2005, 08:47 PM
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 insanitys contagious.  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
no because tough situations onlii make you stronger.
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Mar 4 2005, 08:48 PM
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QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 4 2005, 8:47 PM) no because tough situations onlii make you stronger.  exactly what I was gonna say! |
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Mar 4 2005, 08:53 PM
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A lot.... actually all of them I would love anything more but to erase them. After thinking about it, all the bad memories I have... that huge bank I have deposited full of bad memories, I honestly know that they have shaped me into this person that I am today. I think without some of those memories I would be less of a person I am and still that little 7 year old kid I was before.. I've gone through some Major Shit but losing all those memories... its like losing the person that you have become.
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Mar 4 2005, 08:54 PM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
A lot.... actually all of them I would love anything more but to erase them. After thinking about it, all the bad memories I have... that huge bank I have deposited full of bad memories, I honestly know that they have shaped me into this person that I am today. I think without some of those memories I would be less of a person I am and still that little 7 year old kid I was before.. I've gone through some Major Shit but losing all those memories... its like losing the person that you have become.
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Mar 4 2005, 08:59 PM
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it depends on how bad the bad memory was.
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Mar 4 2005, 09:01 PM
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Not EVERY bad memory.. maybe most of the bad memories. There's a selected few that help me realize my mistake(s) and grow/learn from it. I mean, if I was perfect and never did anything wrong, life would be boring. Although sometimes I wish things didn't happen, I'm glad that some did because I wouldn't have what I have right now if it weren't for those selected few bad memories... :]
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Mar 4 2005, 09:02 PM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(njgurl412 @ Mar 4 2005, 8:59 PM) it depends on how bad the bad memory was. if you could erase every bad memory Meaning.... EVERY bad memory... all of those bad boys-.- |
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Mar 4 2005, 09:03 PM
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embarrising moments, yes
but other bad moments help you become a stronger person. if i had never experienced a major let down before, where would i be now.. |
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Mar 4 2005, 09:04 PM
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no. a lot of my bad memories involve when i have screwed something up, and i've learned from it, so if they were erased... i might make another stupid mistake.
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Mar 4 2005, 09:05 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
the bad memories are there to helpyou remember the good memories.
so no, i wouldn't. just has how a utopia would drive one insane, wiping your bad memories would make the good memories go away. |
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Mar 4 2005, 09:07 PM
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Im tempted so badly to say yes... but honestly, no. If i hadnt had my bad memories... then those experiences wouldnt be able to help me get stronger when the future comes. it hurts... some memories... but they shouldnt be forgotten, because the people that were hurt/killed (if that happens to be your bad memory) dont deserve to be forgotten, regardless of how it makes one feel.
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Mar 4 2005, 09:13 PM
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the idea seems tempting but in reality, all your experiences make you the person you are today, whether those experiences were bad or good. besides, you learn from you mistakes, every embarrassing moment, every breakup, etc. etc.
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Mar 4 2005, 09:15 PM
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haha, all our answers are about the same
i agree with you all. |
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Mar 4 2005, 09:17 PM
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no cause i learn from the bad memories
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Mar 4 2005, 09:23 PM
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this reminds me of what momiji said in furuba... that he was happy for his bad memories and that he was glad to have them because he mother was there even though she hate him... ill find it and post it later
[edit] QUOTE But you know, there's something I believe. I want to try and live my life carrying all of my memories with me. And even if those memories are painful, even if they do nothing but hurt me, I want to keep them. Even those memories I wish I sometimes could forget. As long as I can keep carying them with me...as long as I can keep holding on...then someday, someday... I'll be strong enough that those memories don't hurt me anymore, and I'll be glad that I have them. That's what I believe. With all my heart. That's why all my memories are precious to me. I don't think it would be okay to forget a single one. And that's why, the truth is, I didn't really want mama to forget about me. I did. What I wanted was for her to hold on. But I guess that was selfish of me aww... i cried when i watched that...stupid mother  ...
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Mar 4 2005, 09:29 PM
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I would, but most of the times, bad memories may have changed your life for the better and taught you something. Ya know?
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Mar 4 2005, 09:31 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
i would ... i think erasing them will make me feel much better
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Mar 4 2005, 09:36 PM
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i still believe everything happens for a reason.
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Mar 4 2005, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(Gir @ Mar 4 2005, 9:36 PM) i still believe everything happens for a reason. ^ i defffinitely agree |
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Mar 4 2005, 09:48 PM
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nah.... they're too cool to be erased.
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Mar 4 2005, 10:00 PM
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^ oh, you like suffering? -.-
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Mar 4 2005, 11:22 PM
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nah.. bad memories.. they're wat made me the person i am today, stronger, wiser.. etc. and they happen for a reason =) everything does
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Mar 4 2005, 11:26 PM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
Nope. Because it's bad memories that teach us a lesson, teach us to be better people. If all our lives were perfect and nothing went wrong, we would all be selfish and lazy.
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Mar 4 2005, 11:28 PM
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yes, I think I would. I don't like remembering those memories, even if they're supposed to make you "stronger." I would be a happier person.
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Mar 4 2005, 11:30 PM
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No way...without those bad memories and experiences i wouldn't be the person i am now. They are just as important as the good memories
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Mar 5 2005, 12:14 AM
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i want to, but i dont want to.
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Mar 5 2005, 10:58 AM
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Nope. Because I would have nothing to laugh at myself anymore.
Bad memories are necessary for a person's growth too, not only good ones. |
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Mar 5 2005, 11:20 AM
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 the crip killa. Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,628 |
just a couple...not all
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Mar 5 2005, 01:47 PM
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no i wouldn't
memories and our responses to them make us who were are plus we only learn by experience if we forgot it....it could happen again~ |
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Mar 5 2005, 01:48 PM
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they help you grow stronger. and if you erase every bad memory there wouldn't be any GOOD memory because.. well tech. it's just memories.
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Mar 5 2005, 01:49 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
no because you learn from mistakes & they make you stronger.
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Mar 5 2005, 01:50 PM
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.. i would erase partial
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Mar 5 2005, 01:51 PM
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i think at first i want to erase the bad stuff. but then what would i have to learn from? i've been lucky and havent had many bad experiences. but those i have had i learned from them and im stronger!
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Mar 5 2005, 01:52 PM
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QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 4 2005, 3:47 PM) no because tough situations onlii make you stronger. ya i agree....with every problem u face u get smarter and if something like that happens in the future then i would know what to do... |
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Mar 5 2005, 01:52 PM
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Maybe..i dont kno..but it would be kind of nice
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Mar 6 2005, 01:58 PM
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I know this sounds stupid, but
No I wouldn't. Those memories have made me stronger, and smarter.. <-- 400th post |
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Mar 6 2005, 02:01 PM
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As said many timez before..What doesnt kill you only makes u stronger//Learn from your mistakes..so no i wouldnt..
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Mar 6 2005, 02:10 PM
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thats a tough question...i'd say something about how they make me stronger and whatnot but i have no idea if thats true...i can see myself saying yes, then regretting that answer right after so i'll say no.
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Mar 6 2005, 06:20 PM
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I would. Without a doubt
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Mar 6 2005, 09:42 PM
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Haven't you seen Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind? I say, no. Things happen for a reason. Because you have bad memories, you'll be sure not to let history repeat itself.
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Mar 7 2005, 12:21 AM
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QUOTE It doesn't happen very often, so it was glorious to be in love, (even if, bugger, it was unrequited). The exhilaration, the feeling of euphoria and hope was worth the pain. No. |
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Mar 7 2005, 04:28 AM
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no i wouldnt. my bad memories help me learn and grow stronger.
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Mar 7 2005, 05:05 AM
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I think I would erase some of the bad memories but not all.
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Mar 7 2005, 08:23 AM
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I would probably consider it, but in the end, I would keep all of my bad memories. Without them I would be a different person altogether. Actions change us, whether they are good or bad.
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Apr 6 2005, 07:36 AM
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I would want to but the learning process are sometime base on a bad memory. Thanks how u learn not to make the same mistakes again.
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Apr 6 2005, 07:38 AM
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No, because then my truly happy memories wouldn't seem to stand out so much. If they're all happy and special, then that makes none of them happy and special.
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Apr 6 2005, 07:43 AM
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Yes, especially the day i found out that my dad said he hated me!
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Apr 6 2005, 07:43 AM
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no. tey've helped me grow and made me who i am, as muchas the happy memories
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Apr 6 2005, 08:29 AM
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i would but my friend here says no cuz u would never know what bad is.................................lol
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Apr 6 2005, 08:48 AM
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If I could erase every bad memory.....would I??
[COLOR=purple]Not all of them. They do make you stronger. The one memory I would partly erase, would be of me and my ex boyfriend  Just the bad parts. Other than that I woul dkeep all my memories. Good and bad 
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Apr 6 2005, 10:50 AM
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I really don't like some of my memories. I really want to forget them... But with bad experiences it helps you grow stronger right?
Hmmm, I guess I should keep them because those memories make up what I am.
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Apr 6 2005, 11:24 AM
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QUOTE(Nicole0402 @ Apr 6 2005, 8:48 AM) If I could erase every bad memory.....would I?? [COLOR=purple]Not all of them. They do make you stronger. The one memory I would partly erase, would be of me and my ex boyfriend Just the bad parts. Other than that I woul dkeep all my memories. Good and bad i said every bad memory ;x |
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Apr 6 2005, 11:24 AM
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Am, no cos some of my bad memories were bad at the time but seem better as time goes on. When i was 3 i jumped of a couch thinking that i was a wrestler and got my eyelid caught on a corner table. It ripped and I needed three stitches. I was bleeding soooooo badly. But now it makes me happy knowing that i hurt myself 4 the sport i luv!!!
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Apr 6 2005, 11:51 AM
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i kinda would.
But the world would feel pretty gay.... and that would be a good thing??? Lol |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:13 PM
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no. because after you got all the bad ones ereased....
the good ones won't seem so good anymore. 
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Apr 6 2005, 01:17 PM
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Some are just too bad..
So yes .. |
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Apr 6 2005, 01:26 PM
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QUOTE no. because after you got all the bad ones ereased.... the good ones won't seem so good anymore. ^ agree. i learn from the bad mistakes and things that i make. so i don't think i'll ever erase the bad memories. |
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Apr 6 2005, 02:58 PM
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no because out of every bad memory comes a good memory, so erasing the bad ones will eventually erase the good ones.
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Apr 6 2005, 04:12 PM
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Bad memories? No. If you had to go through all of that "bad stuff," and end up not even remembering it...that would really suck.
Bad memories make you realize that it is over. Bad memories make you stronger. |
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Apr 6 2005, 04:16 PM
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I dont think I would either. but good question.
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Apr 6 2005, 04:22 PM
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you should keep every memory taht you have. everyone makes decisions based on memories. if you didnt have the bad memories...youd just repeat the situation instead of approaching something differently
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Apr 6 2005, 04:28 PM
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no, because then i wouldn't have the experience.
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Apr 6 2005, 05:42 PM
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no ..becuz all of the bad memories i have had only made me stronger and better in some way ..even if i cant see it now .. =)
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Apr 6 2005, 05:44 PM
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i would but what if every moment is a bad moment?
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Apr 6 2005, 05:47 PM
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ya... a couple of memories are...ehh... distubing... regrettable.... i was so dum as a kid... ya i would erase some..
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Apr 6 2005, 08:15 PM
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no i wouldnt. because memories teach you things. if you couldnt remember when you burned your hand on the stove, you would keep burning yourself. if you couldn't remember what happened when a friend jumped off a bridge, you might have done that too.
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Apr 6 2005, 08:18 PM
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No.
Even though it is painful, it really does help you grow as a person. A lot in your life would be different if you didn't remember the shitty times. For me, that moment was when my plane took off from Arizona to move to Mass. I sometimes wished to just forget all the hut I was feeling that day and all my friends that I had to leave. Altho it would spare me a lot of pain and tears, it really helped me grow. |
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Apr 6 2005, 08:24 PM
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mastakes are meant for teaching you a leson, so no. but maybe the moments where you turn diffrent shages of pink, yes.
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Apr 6 2005, 08:54 PM
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No, because I learned from my bad mistakes.
But maybe because I dwell on the past way too much. |
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Apr 6 2005, 08:56 PM
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no. i wouldn't be able to learn from my mistakes .. or you know, get stronger. -.-
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Apr 6 2005, 09:12 PM
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I wouldn't because I have learned a lot from things that have happened to me, good and bad. I think we would be rather naive if we didn't have bad memories, we would have no sense of reality.
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Apr 6 2005, 09:14 PM
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The obvious choice is to erase it.
But then. Without the bad memories, how could we even tell if a memory is good? And bad memories is what made you. |
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Apr 6 2005, 09:16 PM
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i would- espicially the embarrasing ones.
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Apr 6 2005, 09:16 PM
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i wouldnt erase all of them...only the useless ones that did nothing but make me miserable...
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Apr 6 2005, 10:01 PM
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QUOTE(DoPeY_aLaN @ Apr 6 2005, 12:13 PM) no. because after you got all the bad ones ereased.... the good ones won't seem so good anymore. that's true. this is interesting. i probably should have made it into a poll. |
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Apr 30 2005, 10:08 AM
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somewhat yes and somewhat no. like with family fights i would
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Apr 30 2005, 10:33 AM
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no, u learn from those memories, and u become stronger as a person. i mean sure, bad memories are tough, but if they didnt exist everyone would be all happy and giddy, 24/7
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Apr 30 2005, 10:39 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Vampire Duster-Is there a certain reason you keep bringing back topics for pretty much pointless replies?
Anyways, have any of you seen Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?! Watch it and THEN reply saying you want to erase your bad memories...You won't want to. |
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Apr 30 2005, 10:42 AM
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i wouldnt, because all those memories, have brang to where i am today. and i wouldnt want to forget any of it.
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Apr 30 2005, 11:28 AM
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Hell no. They make me as strong as I am today. I have wished it before but now I relize that those really help me through things. I mean, there are things I wish didn't happen. But I don't want to forget them.
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Apr 30 2005, 11:33 AM
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i've actually been perfected erasing my emberrassing/bad memories to he point where when i start to think about them and get sad i get dizzy and just forget what i was thinking about. It takes a while though lmao, you have to just clear your head shake around a little bit when you start thinking about things like that <3
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Apr 30 2005, 12:09 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
If I could, I would erase only some of them, but I would also choose to keep some, so I could learn from them.
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Apr 30 2005, 03:17 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
No. My bad memories are what brought me to where I'm at now. I'm stronger relationship wise too. =]
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Apr 30 2005, 03:19 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(x3__iGiVEup @ Apr 30 2005, 8:42 AM) i wouldnt, because all those memories, have brang to where i am today. and i wouldnt want to forget any of it. *cough*brang isn't a word *cough* 
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Apr 30 2005, 03:20 PM
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it would be really nice if we could keep those lessons learned from mistakes, the ones that help ups grow, but erase the memory itself. only keep the realizations. but then that wud be kina trippy, i mean knowing you realized something but then not remembering where it came from..?
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Apr 30 2005, 03:32 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
as much as i would L-O-V-E so erase all the embarassment that has gone through in my life...i really dont think i would...because...i beleive that everything happens for a reason...and all them bad things that has happened to me....i just think it just makes me the person i am now...
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Apr 30 2005, 03:58 PM
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No, then you wouldn't learn from your mistakes. Then everybody would be happy and that's not good. How are you ever gonna get stronger (mentally) if you never look back on memories?
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Apr 30 2005, 03:59 PM
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Nope.
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Apr 30 2005, 04:43 PM
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Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Apr 30 2005, 4:19 PM) *cough*brang isn't a word *cough* Haha. I've seen some of your other posts. You rock. Just for the crazyjew person, it's braught. 
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Apr 30 2005, 04:46 PM
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no.
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Apr 30 2005, 08:22 PM
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yea my initial reaction was "YES OF COURSE I WANT TO KILL THEM"
but, nah |
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Apr 30 2005, 08:38 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
no...because you would super dumb if you erased all the bad things in the world because they makeup about 50% percent of your mind. and plus...it would be kinda creepy to live in a perfect world.
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Apr 30 2005, 08:41 PM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
YES.. CUZ THEN.. I'DE ME MUCHH HAPPIER.
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Apr 30 2005, 09:20 PM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
purple ponies (self-deleted 12/06)
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Apr 30 2005, 11:18 PM
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some of them. not all of them. because from those that i keep, i learned a valuble lesson that i wouldn`t want to forget.
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Apr 30 2005, 11:22 PM
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maybe SOME of them, but not all of them. you learn from your mistakes, right?
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May 1 2005, 02:31 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
SOMEONE and SOMEONE seeing PORN on internet secretly, but i was behind them (they didnt know i was behind them for less than a minute).......
someone is the person who is very close to me... i thought it was very nasty.... |
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May 1 2005, 02:43 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Not all, just some. Some of my bad memories led to some of my really good ones so i'd want to keep those
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May 1 2005, 03:51 AM
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 It's Tai. Group: Member Posts: 159 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,058 |
I would erase the loss of close ones and friends. I would change the past, like the things that i did wrong. But what people said to me, the judging, cussing the bitching and dissing. I'd keep it, they made me stronger, like everyone else said. Without these people, i wouldn't know some things about myself...so, I wouldn't really change alot.
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