makin out Options

[pixiedust309]

ive never made out before. ive kissed but nothing past that. my boyfriend says he hasnt either..so how are we supposed to make out if its gonna the first time for both of us.. any advice??

[xj_liana_tx]

don't.. just.. give pecks on the lips

[lovescream]

Isn't making out just kissing continously, but with more passion?

[Ombra]

hmm.. well it was like this for my first boyfriend too. first it was the just the little peck on the lips. but then i got daring. lol. i did open mouth kissing, then i became a rebel *jp* lol. i started sucking on his bottom lip for a second or just nipping playfully at his lip. then i figured one day, heck lets do this thing im on a sugar rush an im not scared. i stuck my tongue in his mouth and rubbed it up against his, after that it all flows. your hormones will take over, just do what you think is right.

Go with the flow.

[sportschick1]

Thats what fun about it. Learning "How" to do it. It involves a lotof kissing which you shouldn't mind and plus loads of fun

[redderstarr]

just do it, who cares. since he doesn't know how either, he won't know if you're a good or bad kisser. so just do it.

[*salcha*]

only if you want to/ready.
i have never kissed/made out/gotten a bf before.

[LeSLiE]

Uhm, I first made out with my boyfriend last weekend. It's quite fun..
He started too... It felt way different than I thought it would. Just go with the flow and do what you see on T.V.

[HoodieObsessed]

lol,ya go with the flow...if you know him well enough to kiss him I'm sure you won't mind if you practice on him a bit lol....jsut kiss till you get it, haha...I donno why I find this so funny...I sjut do...

[the_crox]

go alone in a dark dark room.
then play some funky funky music.
then go close close to your bf.

you'll wake up the next day naked and lost.

[aznhunnie6o1]

There are countless topics on "makin" out. There's a SEARCH BAR for a reason...

[bad_girl]

dont.. when it has to come, it comes.

[perfectxflaw23]

It's not like just because it's your first time you can't do it. There is no way to tell you how to do it. Just start with a peck, give him a few, then open your mouth a bit and see how he likes it. Go slow, watch how wet your mouth is.. and make sure you have fresh breath. Preferable do this before you eat. Don't force it or go to fast.

[Fatality]

Just let it flow.
It will work with you when you start.

And when your "experienced"
Put pop-rocks in your mouth.

It's interesting..yet fun.
Also it taste's good.

Sorry that was random. I'm done. ^.^

[*stephinika*]

It's not like just because it's your first time you can't do it. There is no way to tell you how to do it. Just start with a peck, give him a few, then open your mouth a bit and see how he likes it. Go slow, watch how wet your mouth is.. and make sure you have fresh breath. Preferable do this before you eat. Don't force it or go to fast.

agreed. just take it slow, and be relaxed. you'll be fine.

[someflipguy]

This shouldnt be a planned event. When you know its the right time, you will know what to do. These things come natural, just take it slow and go with the flow. You won't know the right moment until that moment has passed and you guys have done it.

[racoons > you]

just do what comes natural. everyone has a first time, and we all get through it. and if its a little awkward, persevere, you'll figure out what you both like/feel comfortable with

[EmmalieV]

making out is never planned out..let it flow naturally.

[3ssx]

lots o' kissing. yes. close-ness.
it'll just.. come to you.

[shortiiex]

watch kissy movies...i never kissed but i learn
you put your tongue in his mouth...
exchange saliva....
play with each other's tongue..
keep exploring....

[tarachangsays]

dont.. when it has to come, it comes.

yupp. just let it flow. when it happens, it'll happen, but make sure you both are ready for it.

[Jasminluvsu]

The most important thing to remember: When you want to French kiss a guy, first start off with some nice, slow closed-mouth kisses, then some open-mouthed no-tongue kisses. This gets your lips warmed up and lets you get into the joy and closeness of kissing. So relax and take your time before moving on to anything involving your tongue. It's really important to go slow and ease into it when you're going to French kiss.

Once you're ready to start using your tongue, it's best to give the boy you're kissing a signal that you're going to do it. Do this by opening your mouth a little bit and maybe darting your tongue out just a bit. Give his lips a tiny lick with your tongue, just a bit, so that he knows what's coming up. If he's into French kissing you, he'll probably open his lips a little and maybe lick your lips back a bit. This is good! It means you have a "green light" to keep on going.

It's nice to just do this kind of light tonguing for a bit. It can be very exciting to tease each other's lips with your tongues, sharing each other's breath. Whatever you do, do NOT shove your tongue right into his mouth! That will feel gross to him (guys rate it the number one thing girls do to turn them off while kissing) and it's way too aggressive. If he gets over-excited and puts his tongue way in your mouth, gently pull back from the kiss for a second and start again, doing your light tongue touches so he gets the message he needs to take it slower.

When you want to get a little deeper into French kissing, all you have to do is just extend your tongue a little more into your mouth. Basically you'll be doing exactly what you've been doing, but just deeper. Use a little more of your tongue, and let the kisses last a little longer. The key to a great French kiss is to keep your mouth nice and soft, and to be really gentle and relaxed.

While you're French kissing, it may help to think of your and his tongue dancing together. Keep them moving in light, smooth movements. Lick the inside of the boy's lips, run your tongue over his gums on top of his teeth and below, pull your tongue away and slip it back gently. Make little circles around the tip of his tongue with your tongue. Do what feels natural. Remember French kissing is about cooperation. It's all about your tongues fluttering around together in a sensual dance. It's not one person shoving their tongue further into the other's person's mouth!

If you're kissing a boy who has more experience at French kissing than you do, you may find you're keeping your tongue a bit back and he has his tongue in your mouth more. That's okay, but try to relax and get more equal movement (you tongue tasting and exploring his mouth AND his tasting yours) as you go along. Just keep your mouth soft and open and relax so you can fully enjoy all the kissing that's going on!

When you really like what the boy kissing you is doing, if a movement he makes feels good, encourage him by giving a little moan. He'll know you like it and do more of it! You can judge how he likes the kissing by the sounds he makes too. If he makes a groan when you do a certain thing with your tongue, you can be sure he likes it.

[Jasminluvsu]

i was bored

[angel-roh]

^ You didn't need to double post.


Anyways, it was our first time too, but we went for it. And it was okay, but felt weird cause he had braces, but I didn't care.

[gossipgirl]

juz push him on the bed
while u're kissing.
and use a sexy voice
to say:
baby, do u wanna try sth exited?
.....
lolz
Love ya*muah

[kpgrl4eva]

hahaha, well my first make-out.....my bf (ex).......already knew how to so it was easier for me, i just went with the flow. he kissed me on the lips, i kissed back, and just kissed then some how he opened my mouth with his mouth and stuck his tongue in and just started to move it around...so did i..

minty

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well look at the movies maybe that can help...and juss see what yu can do...I have a boyfriend whose experience soO he leads and I follow...and it's soOo sweet how he leads me through it and I'm not embarassed... ..soOo cute...soOo I can't realli help..