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 Mar 2 2005, 12:44 AM
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How should i approach my girl now? We've been together for maybe a month now. But last week, people saw me with another girl, of which we hadta do a class project together cuz teacher assigned partners, and so some of her friends thot i was cheating on her. And so i apologized and everything and we're fine on terms, but everything seems all..."shifted". I am only 13 :) but still want to make things right, yeah?
So should i just go as it was before that, or what?.... |
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Mar 2 2005, 03:24 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Wait.. why did you apologize when you weren't even cheating on her?
Anyway, she probably still has this ^ in mind.. it's hard for things to go back to normal after a girl finds out she's been cheated on. Or so other people say. Do sweet things for her.  A rose is nice.. 
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Mar 2 2005, 03:31 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
um persoanlly, I found boys who gave me things back in jr high kinda embarrasing. Thats just me. And uh..no offense, but please remember u are thirteen. if shes gonna be a drama queen about it, just be friends with her. Remember that 10 years from now, this little incident will mean nothing. Unless she hacks off ur penis for it. J/k but seriously, if she wants to be weird, tell her to ask the chik urself. People always want to cause drama or beleive that there is drama in places there isnt, ESPECIALLY in jr high but worse in high school. I wouldnt sweat it.
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Mar 2 2005, 05:38 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
u apologized for nothing? wtf. dumbass. now she thinks u actually did go behind her back with some girl. u screwed urself over buddy. sucks to be u now.
cause its like, she thinks u went behind her back and cheated on her cause her friends said so. u apologized for it. therefore, she thinks, that ur admitting ur fault, and that u actually did go behind her back. u apologized because u didn't want some trouble to start. and there in lies the problem: improper communication skills budday. u should've like, told her firmly, but romantically and sweetly that u aren't going behind her back and that she is the only love that u have. u should've said how u would never hurt her like that and that she is the one true love for u. or some goopy crap like that. and if she's gonna listen to a few words from other ppl and then doubt if ur loyal or not, then she's not loyal, not trusting, and not worthy of a gf. no trust in a relationship: dead relationship foo'. hope that helps. laters. - dustin a.k.a. dahding |
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Mar 2 2005, 08:55 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Mar 2 2005, 5:38 PM) u apologized for nothing? wtf. dumbass. now she thinks u actually did go behind her back with some girl. u screwed urself over buddy. sucks to be u now.  exactly (and the rest of what he said)...you should've just said that you weren't cheating and acted normal... |
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Mar 2 2005, 10:04 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
she's overreacting, you have to tell her that and prove to her that you weren't cheating on her... if she doesn't believe you that means she doesn't have any trust in you.. and you deserve better.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
just go up to her & tell her that you didn't cheat on her, just tell her what exactly happened that day & that your friends were wrong. you don't need to be the one saying sorry because you weren't cheating on her, she's the one that needs to do it, because she's assuming & listening shiet from other people. the only truth is from you.
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Mar 2 2005, 10:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
QUOTE if shes gonna be a drama queen about it, just be friends with her. Remember that 10 years from now, this little incident will mean nothing. i agree. truly madly deeply.. (i wonder if that was the order) but yeah.. i agree.. |
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Mar 3 2005, 12:52 AM
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" i've been meaning to talk to you about the incident that happened between me and my project partner. thats just it. there was no incident. we are just partneres, and people just jumped to conclusions. you are the only one for me and i hope i can satisfy you by letting you know that. "
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Mar 3 2005, 03:01 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
if everythings fine than leave it at that.
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Mar 3 2005, 03:33 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
^yeah exactly if things are fine keep it that way but also she might think you are cheating on her since you apologized to her. ehh my advice do something very special dor her.
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