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 Mar 1 2005, 11:15 AM
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Hello. I am terribly sorry to bother you with this problem. But no one will help me here so I am asking here. This is my last resort (Papa Roach song, btw.)
Anyway. Of course, I like this dude. (Yes this is how all the "give me advice" topics start.) I want him to like me. (Aha! Another cliche in this topic.) BUT.. We are just casual team members (ACB.. whoo hoo!) and we rarely talk. But I know his personality and I like it (so don't give me anything about me being shallow.) I somehow feel I have a chance with this one. But I have to get closer in order to snatch him. (That sounded terrible and suggestive, didn't it?) Any ideas? (Of course you have some, you intelligent people.) BTW.. He's in the grade higher above me (tricky tricky now.) But the somewhat good thing about this is I know two people who could maybe help me. But I don't know them that much either. It's alright if you can't think of anything to help me. I'm sure I'll be able to figure this out (but it would be nice...) |
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Mar 1 2005, 11:53 AM
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 music lover Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,999 |
maybe talk to him more, cause he might not really know youand it will give you a chance to get to know him better. Then you two can hang out somewhere, as friends and not as a date, so this won't put pressure on him to go.
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Mar 1 2005, 04:17 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
i playfully push and tap to get their attention
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Mar 1 2005, 05:41 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well one way to get a guy to notice you is to stand out..then he will maybe start thinking about approaching you....and grade doesn't matter. Make eye contact with him...have common traits..and he will start to look your way.
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Mar 1 2005, 05:47 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
i think you should just start to make conversations with him. they dont have to be huge conversations but anything you feel like talking about. start to make eye contact too thats always a bonus. but after you start talking more you'll both feel more comfortable and then you start to hang out and it all goes on from there!
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Mar 1 2005, 06:43 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
communication is always best. get to know him better, too. and don`t forget to BE YOURSELF!
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