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 Feb 27 2005, 06:17 PM
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 *.'.'._gillie_.'.'.*  Group: Member Posts: 563 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,217  |
wow i think i have made a topic on this friend of mine a bunch of times... well.. yea..lets call her Yan.... Yan recently got into a fight with one girl she use to be a friend with.. matter of fact she would call her instead of me or my other friend if anything happened... n me n my friend knew Yan longer than this gurl.. but w/e well Yan's ex friend is a part of a gang and i seriously dont like her hangin out on the street cuz since her b/f moved there, all the ppl from the gang are hanging out there and i dont want her to get hurt or beat up cuz i kno how they are.. i dunno she has middle child syndrom..did i spell that right..oh well..do any of u have a friend u wanna help so badly but wont listen to u??
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Feb 27 2005, 06:22 PM
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 Philly Girl 4-life Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,772 |
I think you should talk to Yan, and tell her your afraid she'll get hurt, and (I think i understood) If Yan's BF hangs around with/near the gang Talk to him bout hangin somewhere else, if all else fails, tell someone with Authority, I'd rather be a snitch then see my friend dead...
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Feb 27 2005, 06:34 PM
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well..i'm sorta confused about the whole situation, and the ex-friend, and bf, and gang...being..somewhere...
but try doing whatever you can to try and stop her from hanging out with those ppl...and if that doesn't work, do what potmonkeyjd suggested and tell the authorities...it'd be better than having her get hurt.. |
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Feb 27 2005, 06:37 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
why don't you just use her real name? it would make it alot easier!
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Feb 27 2005, 06:44 PM
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You should talk to her...
I was the ignorant friend whom everyone tried to help and I wouldn't listen. =[ But im cool now. ^^ |
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Feb 27 2005, 08:37 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(potmonkeyjd @ Feb 27 2005, 1:22 PM) I think you should talk to Yan, and tell her your afraid she'll get hurt, and (I think i understood) If Yan's BF hangs around with/near the gang Talk to him bout hangin somewhere else, if all else fails, tell someone with Authority, I'd rather be a snitch then see my friend dead...  yup i agree..talk to her and maybe she might understand..maybe shes having problems so thats y shes acting like that..u should go and talk to her and c if something is bothering her.. |
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Feb 28 2005, 04:33 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ I agree too.
What you can do is invite Yan to spend time with you guys whenever it's possible for her to be hanging in "bad places". If she enjoys herself, she might decide to start spending more time with you and your friends rather than in the streets or whatever. |
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Feb 28 2005, 05:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
tell her how you feel since you care about her so much & if she actually cares about what you think, she might consider that it's dangerous out there.
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Feb 28 2005, 06:42 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
if you care for her and are concern about her...just tell her that they're a bad influence on her and stuff like that..
 I'm not really sure...I mean for one...I'm not in this situation right now... 
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