is it cheating?, hmm.... Options

[s0pnayish]

I have a friend who I love to death, but the only thing I don't like about her is that though she has an awesome boyfriend who loves her very much, she flirts shamelessly with other guys when he's not around. I mean, she doesn't kiss them or anything [at least when I'm not around], but it's just hardcore flirting, like her grabbing other guys' butts, hugging/holding each other as if they're going out, and having their arms around each other as if they're together when they walk around. Her boyfriend is like a big brother to me, but I dunno. Should I say something about it to him, or leave it up to my friend to tell him?

[blondiebombshell]

just tell him to watch out for her

[*mishyerr*]

You love her to death? Why would you tell her boyfriend, instead of bringing it to her. You only do both you and your friend wrong if you tell him. That is unnecessary, unless it becomes a point where it is 'hardcore cheating.' I suggest you talk to the girl, first, and if she refuses or denies it, than talk to her boyfriend as a last resort.

[nevernothere]

Oh man, don't tell him.. don't be a narc unless it's absolutely neccessary.

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

whoa grabbing guys asses... well if the bf is cool wiht it.. as long as its nothing (the grabbing) too serious

[dani41790]

i think you should talk to your friend. its wrong what shes doing

[rOckThISshYt]

Hmmm... Well, I wouldn't consider it cheating, but I still do think it's wrong. I mean, unless he's cool with it. But I doubt he knows and I doubt he'd be cool with it. I wouldn't tell him just because I don't personally think it's your place to do so. I don't think there really is too much to do.....

[butterflikisSez1...]

i'd consider it cheating i mean i guess you could compliment them but you got to draw the line. Touching them like that i would think would be cheating. Unless your really good friends with a lot of guys and just give hugs. I would see that as an acception.

[perfectxflaw23]

I would tell the boyfriend. I don't approve of doing stuff like that.

[_sarcastic_]

confront her about it, if she's being stubborn about it then i guess telling her bf is the last resort

[runforfun529]

Give your friend the same speech you did to us, maybe it will help her understand how bad she is acting.

[--x who0ps]

Give your friend the same speech you did to us, maybe it will help her understand how bad she is acting.

ditto.

[mouse_3k]

I think it is. She needs to stop if she wants to keep her bf cause he might be the jealous type and someone might end up being dead once he finds out

[shortiiex]

i don't think you should talk to him, you should talk to her

[Shattered_Hope]

pretty much yeah...it's cheating...I think you should talk to him..because she's the one that's cheating on him.....Since he is your friend and as far as anyone knows..she doesn't deserve this guy..if she's gonna go around grabbing guys a**es.

[Chii]

i think it's cheating because you mentioned that she does it when he's not around

so, since she does it when he's not there, she knows it's not something she's supposed to be doing and that's the only time she does it...you should really tell him, because you don't know what happens when you're not there...

[c0oki3_m0n$tah]

if u really "love her to death" then u should talk to your friend first about it.

[3ssx]

i think you should tell him. she only does it when hes not around right?. its probably considered cheating... i dunno.

[EmmalieV]

Dont tell him anything , just tell her to stop.

[sammehmyst]

woah.. stop there. telling the boyfriend first equals this:

-you tell the b/f
-what you saw wasn't really true
-your boyfriend dumps your best friend
-your best friend wasn't really cheating..


talk to your friend first. see what's really going on.

[vampireduster]

tell her to stop, he doesnt need to know and also you could loose the friendship

[misoshiru]

i agree with mish (mishyerr). you should talk to her about it first.

[f0nx]

ugh...evil girls

[kryzcoak47luv666]

I'd consider it cheating, I mean a little flirting here and there is all gravy, but when it gets to that much thats out of line, but its all in how they agree in there relationship, if he's cool with it then thats fine then I guess, but you should tell him to watch her more, don't give any reason just tell him that.

nevernothere's right don't be a narc unless it becomes necessary, try to stay out of it as much as possible, remind her she has a bf

[miss barnes]

i dont think its CHEATING but, homegirl does need to slow her roll. thats uncalled for. hugs are ok but, not holding and touching asses

[kimmie2204]

i dont think thats cheating at all.......but she is starting to cross the line.......if i were you i would tell your girlfriend that she needs to kool it.........cuz touching other guys asses is not kool......specially if she has a great bf! if nothing changes then i would tell her bf wats goin on and have him confront her about it! cuz if he's like a big brother to you.......he deserves way better than that.........i mean some people can't help but flirt but grabin guys butts is a little too far!

[aznangel4eva]

ugh...i was in the same situation not too long ago....-n- I made the mistake of confronting the guy...heh...big mistake...

nehoozers...

why don't you talk to her first? there is a chance(like w/ my situation) that she honest to goodness doesn't kno wht shes doin....maybe even ask her how she would feel if her bf was doin wht shes doing to other chicks....

^^hope this helped!