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X-Zeifer
post Feb 23 2005, 07:05 PM
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i feel akward toward this girl i like cause people tell me that she likes me even tho she has a bf. Me and her are friends and she always tells me she loves him and we always talk i feel like her back-up bf like if they break up she'll go out with me im just feeling so akward and i dont really talk to her cause her bf thinks were starting to get with each other...umm yeah it's just so akward what should i do just not talk to her so that her bf wont get mad?
 
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post Feb 23 2005, 07:15 PM
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first of all, you have the right to talk to anyone you want, even if they're already "taken".
the question is: Do you like her back? Do you even know if she truly likes you?
you shouldn't take other peoples' words for it.
find out for yourself before you get humiliated inside.
if you always feel like her "back up bf", then confront her.
tell her you feel awkward.
good luck.
 
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post Feb 23 2005, 07:23 PM
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yup...many other girls out there bro no need to be a back up
 
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post Feb 23 2005, 07:37 PM
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in movie i saw a lot of situation like that, the guy that like the girl and alway hang out together and the girl have a bf. Do you like her? because according to the movie the girl alway go with the guye like you. You should just continue to talk to her, if you actually enjoy doing so, and forget about her bf.
 
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post Feb 23 2005, 09:10 PM
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Talk to her about it. Like ask her if she likes you and junk. If talking to her makes you happy.. then you shouldn't stop talking to her... Her boyfriend.. well I dunno about that part....
 
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post Feb 23 2005, 09:27 PM
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Hm. Well, think about it this way. What if you ended up dating the girl and she did it to another guy. What your lover does for you is what she/he will do to you. That is something I learned and will never forget. I don't know what you should do in your current situation, though. It sounds like you are her rebound when she needs you. I suggest you guys simmer the feelings down or something.
 
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post Feb 23 2005, 10:34 PM
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talk to her if you want, but make sure you`re not flirting or anything.
 
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post Feb 24 2005, 11:15 AM
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heres like a situation like yours

watch the notebook and you'll kinda see the similiarities. laugh.gif
its a good movie too especially its so romantic, its a chick flick shifty.gif.
my gosh, so many people having this problem _smile.gif but its so good
to help or do the right thing. well i always use this motto and some girl
posted up on her info on AIM.

There well always be a guy for every girl.
 
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post Feb 24 2005, 02:34 PM
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Ask her what she really wants.
And tell her that you're not willing to be a back-up boyfriend for her.
 
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post Feb 24 2005, 06:20 PM
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if you like her, just be her bf when they break up (i think they will soon), i mean i don't care about being backup (not really), as long as i really like the guy
 
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post Feb 25 2005, 02:50 PM
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you gotta make ur intentions clear buddy
 
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post Feb 25 2005, 07:19 PM
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Back off. Her boyfriend will get jealous & will get into a fight with you. So yeah, back off 'til they break up or something.
 
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post Feb 25 2005, 09:01 PM
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QUOTE(mishyerr @ Feb 23 2005, 9:27 PM)
Hm. Well, think about it this way. What if you ended up dating the girl and she did it to another guy. What your lover does for you is what she/he will do to you. That is something I learned and will never forget. I don't know what you should do in your current situation, though. It sounds like you are her rebound when she needs you. I suggest you guys simmer the feelings down or something.
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thats true cuz if shes like that now and ends up dating you, who knows if shes seeing someone else behind your back? just give it some time and if its not really meant to be, leave it be becuz its a waste of your time and probably hers.
 
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post Feb 26 2005, 04:03 PM
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umm...she already has a boyfriend...I hope you leave them alone and move on... ermm.gif
 
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post Feb 26 2005, 05:11 PM
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if you know she likes you for sure .. then try to talk to her & say you don`t want to ruin her relationship just because you two have feelings for each other. talk about it to her and see if you guys can come up with a solution yourselves ..

if she doesn`t like you .. then back off. she`s already in a relationship

if she likes you & her boyfriend .. ehh, pretty much nothing you can do. it`s her choice
 
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post Feb 26 2005, 05:15 PM
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Did you ever happen to win a spelling bee contest?
 
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post Feb 26 2005, 05:26 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 26 2005, 5:15 PM)
Did you ever happen to win a spelling bee contest?
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hmm, actually yes i did

edit // dude i've seen you before you go to tappan zee high school i think
 
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post Feb 26 2005, 08:11 PM
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it sounds to me like you are the re-bound guy. that must be a sucky feeling. crazy.gif

drop her like she's hawt! wink.gif

it will probably be very hard but being the re-bound boyfriend is not a good position. =/
 
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