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 Feb 22 2005, 10:51 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,059  |
so im sure alot of girls are in the same situation being that it is not uncommon. i like this guy who i met this year, nice and funny, he became my friend and we talk alot. he had a girlfriend but they recently split up for unknown reasons, or maybe because she almost got him expelled from school. the point is, i get really shy around him and i dunno what to do for him not to actually notice this. but the real thing is i wanna tell him what i feel, but im afraid cuz i can obviously get rejected. what should i do, tell him or not tell him. and if i dont tell him, then when would be the correct time?
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Feb 22 2005, 10:53 PM
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 chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
talk to him more often...hang out with him sometimes....if he's interested he will make the first move
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Feb 22 2005, 11:05 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
Get to know him more, create a more comfortable atmosphere between the two of you until you overcome your fear of talking to him and you become pretty good friends with him. Then, if he starts to show romantic interest, you tell him.
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Feb 23 2005, 04:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
^I agree with them. Just really get to know him. I'm like really shy around my bf (strange I know... ) But now we are hanging out more and I'm not shy at all. It only took like a week for the "shy-ness" to go away
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 23 2005, 08:43 PM
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yeah just try to get to know him more, that way you feel more comfortable. its up to you whether you want to spill or not depending on how brave you and just how much you like him.
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Feb 23 2005, 08:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,594 |
have you ever watch reality television? if ya have
than have you watched "wanna come inside?" use that or something, watch them and how they do it. or i would talk alot and make them laugh a lot, have fun make stuff funny, sometimes guys think its cute when smart girls get mistakes |
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Feb 23 2005, 09:01 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
I'd tell the guy I like that I like them.. But that's just how I like to get things done...
You should tell him, cause then you might NOT get rejected. Try to get him to like you a little atleast and then tell him. |
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 23 2005, 09:03 PM
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get to know the guy the rest will follow....
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Feb 23 2005, 09:24 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
try to get to know him more and then if you want to then tell him how you feel..
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| *salcha* |
Feb 23 2005, 10:23 PM
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you'll know when the correct time is, cuz obviously you're not ready.
make a more comfortable environment, get to know each other a little better. |
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Feb 23 2005, 10:32 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
get to better know him and make the move when u think its right..good luck..
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Feb 23 2005, 10:32 PM
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I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
sorry my comps acting weird..
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Mar 1 2005, 09:03 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
what you can do:
1. get to know him better. 2. make a move 3. write a love letter. 4. talk to him 5. tell him how you feel.. 6. be there for him since he just got out of a relationship.. 7. make eye contact and drop hints..he might get the message and approached you. 
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Mar 1 2005, 09:32 PM
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 soUp Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,754 |
im like in the same situation right now. i want to tell him but then i back off cause i dont have the nerve to tell him straight up... sigh. i dont know.
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