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there's this girl... that's hated by our whole grade. she's friendless, and a loner. yeah, >< but she's weird. okay, she's not really weird... she just scares me. like, she talks to EVERYONE.. when nobody ever replies back.. sometimes she even talks to herself. everywhere i go, most people talk about her.. like bad things. >< i'm only in one class with her, so i wouldn't know. she seems nice.. >< but scary at the same time...
anyways, the point is.. i felt really bad somehow. like today, i was supposed to go to the office to get a paper slip for a new go-card.. anyways, i saw her talking to the counselor.. and she was CRYING.. >< i couldn't believe it.. she was crying so bad.. and the counselor saw me with my friends.. cuz they talk too loud.. >=( so she closed the door.. okay, i was eavedropping, but i heard nothing. ><" i just felt really awful.. guilty? pitiful..? i dunno. so, how do i make her life better? ><" anyone know? if you were her, what would you want? i'm clueless on these things.. -sigh- |
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Feb 22 2005, 07:16 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Treat others like how you want to be treated....Think about it
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Feb 22 2005, 07:25 PM
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^ i agree
well you can't really judge her by what others say, yeah ok she might be weird sometimes but who knows maybe when you get to know her better she isn't such a bad person at all |
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Feb 22 2005, 08:20 PM
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this makes me think of the horrible things people have done to other people in the "girl vs girl" thread in the girl's locker room...people just don't think of what happens to their victim(s) afterwards and brag about their "accomplishment"
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Feb 22 2005, 09:10 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
why don't you try talking to her or try to become her friend? that will surely brighten her day!
 or you could try to give her compliments. that will make her feel good about herself. and if you hear people making fun of her, tell them to stop. just try. 
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Feb 22 2005, 09:37 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Feb 22 2005, 2:16 PM) Treat others like how you want to be treated....Think about it  i agree..stand up in what u believe in...even if not everyone agrees with u..do what u think is right..not what others think...talk to her..she might not be that "weird" is u think she is.... |
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Feb 22 2005, 09:45 PM
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nobody insults her in her face. they whisper about it.. i just hear it a lot. anyways, the only class i have with her is physical education.. and we're mostly running and doing sports.. right now we're doing basketball.. so.. i'll try to talk to her after we're done running.. thanks.. =)
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Feb 22 2005, 09:50 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
be friends with her. &f**k everyone else who thinks shes weird
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Feb 22 2005, 10:44 PM
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QUOTE(Wishful_Dream @ Feb 22 2005, 6:45 PM) nobody insults her in her face. they whisper about it.. i just hear it a lot. hmm good for you on wanting to do something cause thats one of the worst things to go through....i did at one point, and it sucks. just be sincerely friendly with her. she'll appreciate it.
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Feb 23 2005, 02:51 AM
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 i <3 giraffes & hamsters Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,830 |
well, i used to be a loner person back in elementary so, i guess that if i were back in my elementary year, i`d want a friend. wait umm let`s kinda rephrase that. if you were you and i was "the girl", i`d want you to ask me if i was okay. well, like, not with your friends, more like you and me alone. that way, you don`t pressure me/thegirl. yeah, that`s what i`d want ..
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Feb 23 2005, 04:46 AM
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If i was that girl, i think i'd b dead by now.
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Feb 23 2005, 04:50 AM
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 I will rise up Group: Member Posts: 112 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,037 |
yeah.... try to be her friend... you might find that she's actually really nice
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Feb 23 2005, 07:26 AM
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QUOTE(my_sunshine @ Feb 22 2005, 11:51 PM) well, i used to be a loner person back in elementary so, i guess that if i were back in my elementary year, i`d want a friend. wait umm let`s kinda rephrase that. if you were you and i was "the girl", i`d want you to ask me if i was okay. well, like, not with your friends, more like you and me alone. that way, you don`t pressure me/thegirl. yeah, that`s what i`d want .. i'm in high school.. grade.. eight.. anyways, uhmm i'll try to befriend her then.. thanks. |
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Feb 23 2005, 07:29 AM
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QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 22 2005, 10:44 PM) hmm good for you on wanting to do something cause thats one of the worst things to go through....i did at one point, and it sucks. just be sincerely friendly with her. she'll appreciate it. yeah...someone like that needs a friend.....otherwise there just gonna "crack" one day......school can be harsh....try and become her friend.... |
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Feb 23 2005, 08:27 AM
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awww i feel bad for the poor girl.. there's this girl in my grade and is pretty like the girl in your school but she`ll talk back to people when people say things in her face. >< they do terrible stuff to her for instance, put gum in her hair
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