after a breakup, she doesnt talk to me anymore HELP!!! Options

[h0y_Kalbo]

aye i got a problem, about my life at school. see i use to date this girl right? than a few weeks like 2-or 4 she broke it off with me right. so we were only juss friends, than i started to remember the good times we had, and yeah we became good friends than sooner or later she thought i kepted staring at her like i was gonna rape her which im not. than we barely even talk to each other everytime, we go to opposite directions, she looks in the other way when i see her. she like moves somewhere else everytime i get near her when im tryin not to. i even try to to talk to her about subjects but she like juss says like "ok, whatever". what can i do to become friends again, i dont wanna be strangers, i juss wanna be friends.

[love-issosweet]

just say hi whenever you see her and eventually, she should start begin to talk to you and eventually after that...you guys could be great friends

[BOAmusics]

girl are like rabbit very shy
my friend and his girl friend broke up and hook back again like 3x
they get over it

just give her some gift and see like u again
girl are materialistic!!!!!!!

[smilz2dasun]

awww.... well i'm not really sure what she's thinking but maybe give her a little time for now? then maybe things will begin to look better for you and she'll get comfortable talking to you again...

[SimplicityGirl]

It takes time to be friends after breaking up...there's always the awkwardness factor in it. Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, and we haven't talked much either. It takes time, don't rush things, just let whatever happens happen naturally.

[my_sunshine]

okay, well this is what i learned from my experiences because i used to be in the same situation you are. anyways, when this happened to me, i didn`t do anything and me and my ex started to drift farther and farther apart. then, i realized that i should be more open. so, it was hard to act as if nothing happened, but it was worth it. it took awhile, but now we`re best friends. so, what i`m saying what you should do is that you should try to be friends again; don`t ignore it.

[Derek4jc]

talk to her about how you feel... tell her you want to be friends... and make sure she knows that it is important to you

[h0y_Kalbo]

oh thanks for the advice, i hope i can use it.

[xkimlaura]

"distance makes the heart grow fonder" me and my friend were so close it was unbelievable - eventually we grew sick of each other.. but then me and him took a break for a lil bit, and now i love him as much as he loves me =) space sometimes is the answer. she'll see how much she misses u.

[racoons > you]

like i was gonna rape her which im not.

well thats always good...

she probably just feels awkward... it will probably fade with time

[--x who0ps]

leave her alone for awhile and let her come to you

[The 1 and only J...]

i know how u feel. but all girls a differnt. cause with one of my ex's i just tried to get a little distance and then after awhile i started to talk to her. well yeah that worked better then the one when i just tried to talk to her as if we were still friends after the break up. and now that one girl thinks im like stalking her but i kind of live far away and i haven't even seen her in like 5 months. but yeah they are all differnt.

[Rachel]

you BROKE UP. she doesn't have to talk to you anymore

[kayiiem]

awww .. well this happened to me a couple of months ago. my ex didn't want anything to do with me after we broke up but i finally had the guts to ask him "why are u ignorin me" and he just didn't have a reason so now we're like best friends. so maybe u should go up to her and ask her why she's been ignorin u. like these other ppl have said don't ignore the situation do something about it.

[Mistrunner]

Hmm.. reminds me of the situation I'm currently in with my ex. We barely dated (actually, I don't even consider him my ex, since it could hardly be considered a relationship, but still) and now I avoid him. Why? He's incredibly annoying and I can't stand him.

So... I say confront her, and maybe you'll be good friends again. If not, then you need to move on.

[blah122986]

maybe its akward to her for u guyz to be friend dun notice her for a while...just let her come back to u "as friends" .when shes ready....she'll come..

[byonata]

if i were you, id confront her, and just tell her that I just wanted to be friends.. nothing more... but if she still for some reason doesn't talk to you, well then just get over her... u know theres always someone better out thurr...

my ex didn't talk to me fo like 6 month, then I called her juz to say hi .. then she started callin me and everythin... BUT she's the one who cheated on me, so I just took everything lightly and not pay too much attention on her//answer her every phone call... so yeah...

take everything easy... you dont want her to see you all frikin desperate just to be friends with her... she'll get big headed... you know you're fine without her... so be it... :D

billsta~

[Rachel]

It has been two months, I think that he has solved his problem. Don't bring back old topics to repeat everything that has been said.

[177emories]

if she doens't want to talk to you, you can't force it...

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

just write her a note n tell her how ur feeling. or write her a card or something. or just talk to her. u cant force her to talk to u. just let her know wats going on in ur mind.

[thaichic192]

My bf is in the same situation. He was w/ his ex for a while, and then she ignored him for maybe 3 months before they broke it off officially. She's dating his best friend and it's akward for me to just sit there while she's trying to kill him.

I suggest maybe you should just start little. Say hi or something when you walk past each other. If after a while and you're being nice to her yet she still doesn't want to really talk, maybe she just doesn't want to be your friend anymore. My bf's ex doesn't want anything to do w/ him. So yeah, it could be complicated.

[angelrevelation]

she's probably still awkward after the rape suspicion (haha that sounds funny...) just give her some space, and try again later. but still let her know you still want to be friends

[han1017]

sit her down and talk to her one on one.

tell her exactly how you feel

[shewasradiant]

time and space is all she needs. if shes not talking to you right now, then dont talk to her and dont make an effort to talk to her. she'll talk and be friends with you again when shes ready.

[loljuliana]

maybe you can try figuring out why she's acting like this. if you keep trying to talk to her, she'll just get more annoyed

[KELLYYY]

This topic is like, 2 months ago? I think he worked it out already. (:

[canny]

She doesn't talk to you? Give her some time

[Eryi]

I can tell why she broke up with you. jk jk. When you see her around just say hi, hello, whats up and etc.. make a converstation. Lol.

[__PASS10NAT3]

well.. u should take it easy for now.. maybe try talking to her.. dont avoid her even if shes avoidin you cuz one of you has to be the stronger one~ =)

[onemanshow]

i think.. for a change.. just act cool... like.. being nice to her's useless... why not just be cool.. u care, but just dun have to do these hi things.. like obviously she's on top of ya...

[gladz612]

well just make it clear to her that u jsut want to be friends and give her some time.. after all u guys just broke up not too long ago.. there def. is gonna be some weird feelings in between.. just give it some time let it cool down for a bit.. and make it very clear to her that u're willing to let her move on and so will u. it takes a little time.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

tell her how you feel. and maybe even ask her what happened and why she doesn`t talk to you. it`s good to let her know how you feel. who knows she might change.

[moo.]

ask her why shes avioding you, if you guys agreed to stay friends...
but the staring part is kinda freaky if you ask me

[multifaceted]

leave her alone. she needs time. then later try talking to her