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 Feb 22 2005, 02:54 PM
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Okay, well Ive been starting to like this guy and the other day my best friend instant messages me like Do you like him? I told her a little. She freaked out. Shes like oh boy but I like him too omgg! she got mad at me for a while. Now shes not talking to me. I told her I don't really like him but she's still all pissy about it. Better yet, this isn't the first time it's happened. I don't know what to do...I appologize and it doesnt work. I'm trying not to talk to the guy either but nothings working out. I NEEEEED HELLPP! :(
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Feb 22 2005, 03:04 PM
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Your friend isn't exactly being a friend over the matter. If she really was your friend she'd understand that you're a girl and that you've got feelings and if you end up liking the same guy it's not the end of the world. The worst thing that could happen would be if one of you were lying, which obviously isn't the case...so you should be proud of actually letting her know regardless of how she personally feels. Honesty is the key to success in any relationship and/or friendship.
If she continues to put you down and not respect your feelings, then I would part ways...at least for a while. |
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Feb 22 2005, 03:43 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
^yes, I agree..but I think that if you two are really good friends, then definitely save your relationship with her, rather than go after some boy.
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Feb 22 2005, 03:46 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
u really gotta talk to her... something similar happend wit me and my friend last year.. eventually she'll get over it, i think. but you shud talk to her and try to explain even more and if she doesn't listen to u and doesn't get over it... try to ferget bout it and move on, hopefully she'll do that same...if she don't, don't care bout what she thinks anymore.. i dont think you'll have that much problems wit it though. i hope she moves on!
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Feb 22 2005, 03:52 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
QUOTE(ilauqh @ Feb 22 2005, 3:46 PM) u really gotta talk to her... something similar happend wit me and my friend last year.. eventually she'll get over it, i think. but you shud talk to her and try to explain even more and if she doesn't listen to u and doesn't get over it... try to ferget bout it and move on, hopefully she'll do that same...if she don't, don't care bout what she thinks anymore.. i dont think you'll have that much problems wit it though. i hope she moves on!  yeah she'll move on and forget about him |
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Feb 22 2005, 03:57 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
on eof you has to back down, talk it out and decide
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Feb 22 2005, 05:15 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
it's not your fault you like him....sometimes your feelings has a mind of its own..she doesn't have any right to be mad at all because it's not like she's dating him or has any claim on him. You don't have to put up with any of her mood swings or w/e. If she can't respect your feelings for this guy and be selfish like the way that she's acting now...I think your little friendship should take a break.
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Feb 22 2005, 06:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
No offense but your friend sounds like shes being a total bitch about this. Who cares if she's mad at you (if you appologied and shes still mad then that's just gay.) .. Do what your heart says!
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Feb 22 2005, 09:43 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
talk to her...if things dont work out then i guess get new friends...that kinda happened to my friends and now my group of friends r splitted into 2 groups..its kinda sad..hopefully things will work out between u two..
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Feb 22 2005, 09:52 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
tell your friend to get over herself. just cos you like someone she does, she throws a hissy fit? tell her you cant help who you like, and if she doesnt accept it it, then you dont really need to be around a person with that kind of attitude do you ?
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Feb 22 2005, 11:09 PM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
Tell your friend it's not worth destroying a friendship for a guy that might not even matter in the long run.
=/. |
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Feb 23 2005, 12:02 AM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
well i in that situation to
but i'm the guy and 3 girls thinking that i like them, keeping AIMing me and talk with me and when they see me they act as if tho i like them A LOT. girls this day =P the true is i don't like any of thoz 3! |
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Feb 23 2005, 06:00 AM
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 I will rise up Group: Member Posts: 112 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,037 |
She sounds like she's being immature about it... just punch her in the face... errrr.. i mean... take some time to let her cool off
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Feb 23 2005, 06:31 AM
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 please love me when im gone Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,374 |
well...if u just like the guy and not love him...u should give him up for another since ur friend likes him already....its not worth loseing a friend...trust me...i noe
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Feb 23 2005, 05:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,794 |
well theirs alot of other guys and if your friend likes him more then just give him to her its now worth fightin over and losing a friend.
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Feb 23 2005, 09:19 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
i had sex when i was 84
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Feb 23 2005, 10:16 PM
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^ irrelevant
well, ask her if she would really spare your friendship over a guy. |
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