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 Feb 22 2005, 11:46 AM
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 lovesick+  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104  |
[frend'z wit benefits]
watcha think about them? |
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Feb 22 2005, 11:51 AM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
xactly what do u mean by benefits?
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Feb 22 2005, 11:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i don't really like it b/c it could affect relationships with them and others...but it's their life
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Feb 22 2005, 12:05 PM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
QUOTE(snak3y3z1001 @ Feb 22 2005, 11:51 AM) xactly what do u mean by benefits?  anything except sex. |
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Feb 22 2005, 12:48 PM
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it includes sex. believe me.
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Feb 22 2005, 01:01 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
yup... well i think that as long as your confident that you can do it with out destroying what you have already.... why not?
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Feb 22 2005, 01:04 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
dear child, use the search menu
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...424&hl=benefits and i think friends with benefits are stupid. affects relationships way too much. |
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Feb 22 2005, 02:50 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
^haha..I think the whole thing can ruin relationships, so it's better to just stay friends.
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Feb 22 2005, 04:31 PM
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 *.'.'._gillie_.'.'.* Group: Member Posts: 563 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,217 |
it can ruin relationships if u let it ruin them but either way sum1 is gonna develop feelins for the other person no matter wat..trust me
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Feb 22 2005, 05:28 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I'm not exactly fond of it. One or the other individual will develope feelings and those feelings might not be returned. There's a chance that someone will get hurt....
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Feb 22 2005, 09:14 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(kyootE_krn_bebe @ Feb 22 2005, 11:05 AM) anything except sex. friends with benefits is where you do everything (including sex) but you are only friends. i like to call them fcuk buddies 
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Feb 22 2005, 09:16 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I don't like it- it can ruin relationships because someone is going to develop feelings for the other and will end up hurt.
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May 1 2005, 08:09 PM
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I personally think it's stupid. It's inevitable to develop feelings for the person.
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May 5 2005, 12:57 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,911 |
 oh great topic. Well, friends with benefits to me is just basically casual dating and certain "fun" that should mean pretty much nothing. Thus, the benefits part. That does not necessarily mean you're having sex. I think having a friend with benefits is ok as long as you make it known that it's JUST casual and nothing more. I'm speaking from experience of course.  but f**k buddies, I do not approve of. It's just unclean. 
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May 5 2005, 02:13 PM
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 HI IM aLLi =] Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,012 |
i dont like friends with benefits because you might get too attached to them and they might not like you back
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May 5 2005, 05:19 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
theyre okay. for a while at least. then u get attached :[
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May 5 2005, 05:48 PM
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they never work out........partly cuz one person usually ends up haveing real feelings for the other.........then it just gets complicated!
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May 6 2005, 08:57 AM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
it can ruin them but i think its fine. if the two people want to do it then let them do it
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May 6 2005, 09:13 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
the benefits are sex otherwise you guys are just friends.
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May 6 2005, 09:36 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if it's friends with benefits might as well be bf and gf
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May 6 2005, 10:37 AM
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 sweet but sour Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 |
i dont believe in "friends with benefits". i think its stupid. its basically fcuk buddies or friends who are in a kindof relationship. why whould you want to kid yourself into a fake relationship, its like your walking into a trap and you know it, yet your still doing it. i think its a waste of time, you could take that time and go find someone who is actually interested in being with you and eventually it'll be a good relationship. plus, i believe you should share your body carefully. if ya have a boyfriend and you have a fcuk buddy, shame on you. i don't believe in cheating either. its stupid, nasty, and very rude. but thats just my 2 cents.
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May 6 2005, 09:35 PM
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I'm not really sure what your asking o_O
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May 7 2005, 01:03 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i think its stupid. its kind of like, "oh i can't go out with you guys today cuz my makeout buddy is coming over"
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May 7 2005, 08:15 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
^haha. i dont like them. to me, its just seems so... wrong.
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May 7 2005, 08:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,476 |
not a good idea.. cuz either way ull get screwed over.. i will never understand friends with benefits n wha real benefit u get outta it.. i dont like the feelin of gettin used..
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May 7 2005, 08:57 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(aNg3LBaBi3 @ May 6 2005, 10:37 AM) plus, i believe you should share your body carefully. please tell me how i can "share my body carefully"? |
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May 8 2005, 05:43 PM
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Friends with benefits is really risky. It all depends on the person i tried it and ended up with my feelings hurt .
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May 8 2005, 07:31 PM
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never works!
my friend did that and she ended up broken hearted. you either commit or u dont theres no inbetween! |
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May 19 2005, 05:32 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I think its stupid. Thats why you have a bf/gf.
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May 20 2005, 10:30 AM
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STOP THE WAR Group: Member Posts: 298 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,182 |
QUOTE(kimmie2204 @ May 5 2005, 2:48 PM) they never work out........partly cuz one person usually ends up haveing real feelings for the other.........then it just gets complicated! reali tru. it sux and creates unneeded drama. |
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