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 Feb 21 2005, 10:29 PM
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 i need an sn change.  Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746  |
Ya. I have this friend, his name is Andrew. He's friends with Jesse and recently he likes my friend, Lindy.
She liked him, or so did the person who told me she did thought. I told him and i kind of bugged him to ask her out. and well she rejected him. and now he's mad at me. and is blaming the whole thing on me. I'm kinda frustrated and upset and i do kind of feel that it is entirely my fault. Is it? |
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Feb 21 2005, 10:31 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Well.. some part of it is. You just wanted to make your friend happy but it didn't quite go as well as you planned. Hope you work things out with Andrew.
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Feb 21 2005, 10:32 PM
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not really. so maybe u had mislead info. meh. big whoop. he's getting angry over nothing. go out for a smoothie and forget about it all.
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Feb 21 2005, 10:43 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well...it kinda is...you kinda bugged him to ask this girl out because this person told you she liked him. If it wasn't for you....he wouldn't have gotten rejected. And to tell you the truth....I think his ego got hurt...Just go to him and tell him you're sorry....he might not forgive you then but he will after a while.
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Feb 21 2005, 10:44 PM
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 mmm....beer.... Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
 that's life i say it's good he got rejected. maybe now he won't like her and can find some other chick 
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Feb 21 2005, 10:47 PM
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i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Feb 21 2005, 10:43 PM) well...it kinda is...you kinda bugged him to ask this girl out because this person told you she liked him. If it wasn't for you....he wouldn't have gotten rejected. And to tell you the truth....I think his ego got hurt...Just go to him and tell him you're sorry....he might not forgive you then but he will after a while.  i did we talked for like hours. he forgave me, but i just feel its not good enough. |
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Feb 22 2005, 04:19 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ One talk won't make him forgive you completely. It takes time to build trust again. Maybe you can do something sweet for him, just to show that you care.
And yes, I think it was your fault. You chose to believe the rumor. ... but since it's all over anyway, forget about it. We all make mistakes. 
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Feb 22 2005, 09:07 AM
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it is not your fault. he followed your advice, it was his own choice. tell him, "then next time don't listen to me. just because she rejected you, doesn't mean you can put it all on me." i dunno. here's a flower.
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Feb 22 2005, 10:33 AM
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^^
yeah but its partially your fault but don't worry. he's the one who made the choice in the end to do it...but just apologize and talk to him. it'll take time, but i'm sure things will be fine. 
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Feb 22 2005, 11:59 AM
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well...you shouldn't interfere...you should just let him ask her out when he feels like it...but tey can't blame you for the lies you have been hearing....
But, if your friend does like him, there is probably a reason why she can't say yes |
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Feb 23 2005, 11:00 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
well.. it sorta is your fault, but he was the one that actually made the final decision. but he shouldnt really be mad cause its jst apart of life.. life has setbacks.
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