Guys are confusing., what should i dooooo?? Options

[y0urelectrikk]

Ok, so heres the deal. There's this dude that I've liked for idk 2 years? & just a few weeks ago He asked me out I was so happy.

But anyway.. I'm not sure if he even likes me. He acts really cool around me, but It just seems weird, because I know He cheated on a few people in the past. Maybe his whole "cool person" thing is just an act? & we were supposed to go to the movies on friday but then he called at like the last minute and said he couldnt go. No reason or anything. I'm suspicious. And I hate when he says he'll call but he never does, grrr. But hes just sooo damn hot!!! & I really like him.. If only I had some kind of sign to know if he even likes me (w/out plain asking him).

On the other hand, my other guy friend used to like me last year, but I didnt like him =\ And i've talked to him a lot recently. He's just really cool & I know hes a great friend. (also very hot.. lol) He calls me a lot & when he says he'll call later, he actually does (even If it's 2 in the morning!) But I dont think he likes me anymore, he tells me about someone he likes but wont tell me a name, then I asked him on the phone and he said he was kidding about the whole thing (i dont think he is.) I think I might like him.

Ahh so confused... What should I do????

EDIT

Thanks guys for your help. I had a talk with my boyfriend. Things are more clear now. I'm not so suspicious anymore. Turns out he couldnt go to the movies cause he's grounded for having bad grades. (Which I can believe.. hes not exactly the brightest light bulb in the pack, if you know what I mean..)

[perfectxflaw23]

Even though you're not sure if your friend likes you anymore, I'd say try him. You know that he's a great person and he wouldn't do that, why not try? Maybe once he sees that you're interested now, he might remember some old feelings.

[ilauqh]

i dont think u shud go out wit the guy are now anymore.. 1. bc you are not even sure he likes you. 2. because you might like someone else... i think that even if the guy that liked u last year doesn't like you anymore.. u shud tell him, there's still a chance! good luck wit everything

[Shattered_Hope]

I don't think you should stay with the guy you're with now....because he doesn't seem to be putting the effort in the relationship....I think you should break it off...and tell the guy that liked you last year your feelings about him.

[demolished]

he is having fun keeping your hopes up and down, that's what he loves to do .. even though he's cool but he has a bit mean heart.

Do you realli trust him ? Does he tell you something tru when it's not ? if i were you, just leave him cuz ... what's da point being w/ him when he just a liar ? All he does is to entertain you w/ lies ....... WOW A GREAT FRIEND HE IS !

[y0urelectrikk]

thanks for your advice guys..

Good points!

[Chii]

i actually think that you should stick with your current guy. you can't just bounce around from guy to guy just because of his past. relationships are built on trust, give him a chance but don't let your feelings become too deep yet...if he continues to be a jerk, then leave him. don't go for your friend asap, make sure you truly like him, don't like him as a backup or just to have a boyfriend.

[starlette]

Id say give him a chance, but dont get your hopes up hun. Boys are dumb. My byofriend even tells me this. They get power trips when girls go after them. So be careful. Me personally, any guy that couldnt at least gimme a call, turned out to be a terrible bf all around. I mean sure, if youre expecting 3 calls a day, tone it down, but if you are making all the phone calls, its a sign that hes not willing to contribute to yall relationship. That means hesnot someone you wanna be around. So I say give him a week or two, and be honest with him. Tell him what you want and how you feel. And if he really cares for you he will at least try to keep you around. If not, hes a dork. A loser. Talk to this other guy, and see where that could take you. Just make sure he knows ur not using him as a transition guy or something. I say play it cool for the next week or so. Sounds like you know what you want, and are just havin a little trouble knowing where to look. :D

[EmmalieV]

test them both out your not commited if you go out on a date you know , its just a date so maybe their real personality will shine through.

[minimcgrath]

ive learned from past relationships that u need good comunication and if u u dont have that (for ex.: your friends tell u what he says or what he doesnt like would ur doing or did) then is not going to work. So u need to ask him what the hell he is doing when hes not around u and and no much or some random cr*p with a simple answer. Then dump him if he acts like this.

[Oranite]

Relationships are just confusing in general not just guys or girls, Sometimes when you like someone they do not like you back and sometimes they like you, you don't like them back.. its oh so confusing...but i guess thats how life is....

[aznhunnie6o1]

Leave the guy your with now. Give the other guy clues on likeing him like "i like a guy with a name that starts with a (first letter of his name goes here)" and "his first period class is (his first period class goes here)" ect ect. Thats what I did with my current boyfriend... I made him guess that I liked him.

[topsyturvy]

he is having fun keeping your hopes up and down, that's what he loves to do .. even though he's cool but he has a bit mean heart.

^ Leave this current guy. First of all, guys who play mind games are hard to understand. Second, you're not even sure if you want to stay in this relationship with him. You can't hang on to him just because he's hot.

On the other hand, your guy friend seems like best-friend material. Why not give it a shot? If he knows you really well, what can go wrong in the relationship?

Give the other guy clues on likeing him like "i like a guy with a name that starts with a (first letter of his name goes here)" and "his first period class is (his first period class goes here)" ect ect. Thats what I did with my current boyfriend... I made him guess that I liked him.

^ That's so sweet.

[misoshiru]

i actually think that you should stick with your current guy.  you can't just bounce around from guy to guy just because of his past.  relationships are built on trust, give him a chance but don't let your feelings become too deep yet...if he continues to be a jerk, then leave him.  don't go for your friend asap, make sure you truly like him, don't like him as a backup or just to have a boyfriend.

exactly how i'd put it