cute boy , ugly problem, he confuzzles me Options

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

ok, he does N0T like me, but the way he acts makes me like him.

its the way he is that made me attracted to him, cos heres the story.

when we see eachother he`ll ask me for a kiss and a hug, and then he`ll hold my hand. when i have boyfriends he always asks me everyday if were still together, until we break up. when i go to my boyfriends houses he`ll always bother me about `if i kept my pants on` ( which yes i did, im not a dirty slut. lol ) and when i have things like lollipops and gum he takes it out of my mouf and puts it in his. like one day we were walking together and he had his arm around my shoulder and i was sucking on a lollipop and i told him if he wanted some so he grabbed it and popped it in his mouf. and he gave it back to me, then we like shared it

but he D0ES N0T like me, cos i already know this,


kind of pointless story but im bored and have nothing to do. (;

edit--/ yeahh he doesnt do this with other girls. just me, and he knows i used to like him cos we were sittin on the benches together talking about people we used to like and i looked right in his eyes and i said `you know i used to like you` ( he did cos my friend ran up to him and said my friend with the big butt likes you [ before we knew eachother really well ] ) and he looked away and was like yeah i know.

&usually im really really really good with relationships, but this dude it just weird. i think he just likes to flirt with me... but yeah

i repeat over and over, he doesnt like me.

[ashleyk1803]

haha yeah . i was in a situation once like that. If he doesn't like you, and you're starting to have feelings for him. Maybe spend less time around him, it sounds weird i Know, but... if he doesn't like you, then he's probably doing the same thing to other girls as well. Or you could just tell him to stop sending you mixed signals???

[pink_tootsie]

this is a very obvious situation, he likes you..

[Mireh]

well, do you like HIM?


i'm pretty sure he likes you, if he acts like that

[shortiiex]

aww..he seems so sweet...he defintly likes you

[DanielleMaria05]

It sounds to me like he likes you. Or, hes just like.. a really really good friend. I have really good friends that do that and I know they don't like me b/c they are girls who have boyfriends, (at least I don't think so)
You may want to talk to him. sounds to me like a crush, but he will say no if hes worried that you won't like him in return.

[shattered_dream]

lol yaw...i have a friend like this too! but meh, i enjoy flirting with him cause he's hot
by the way, you really look like one of my old friends Paulina back in MS! are you Spanish?

[angelrevelation]

thats the biggest flirt (the guy) i've ever heard of... i think he likes you if you don't want to like him then... i dunno stay away from him

[Shattered_Hope]

I think he likes you.

[tresa1992]

I think he really does like you.

I'm sure no guy naturally acts like that around girls.

I'm sure, I'm positive.

[yukichan]

this is a very obvious situation, he likes you..

yup or either hes flirting with u...

[syaoronsangel]

like one day we were walking together and he had his arm around my shoulder and i was sucking on a lollipop and i told him if he wanted some so he grabbed it and popped it in his mouf. and he gave it back to me, then we like shared it 

LOL he's weird. Yeah, mixed signals can be confusing.

[Wishful_Dream]

^i agree. It's mixed signals so it could be confusing.

Maybe he just likes to do that to you` =)

Maybe he even likes you without knowing it...

o_O I'm not quite sure. Ask him why he does that.

Or spend less time with him =P

[nightsong]

He wants to be the first to get in your pants.

xo, Pauline

[angelshortipnai]

i think he likes you... 'cause wow, wat a flirt hahaha

[toodlepops.]

i think he DOES like you. (;

[HelloSunshine]

I think he does like you, just afraid to admit it? hmmm...

[topsyturvy]

HE LIKES YOU!!

Or he thinks you still like him, so he's trying to lead you on. Sheesh, I hate when guys do that.

[steve_is_allxwan...]

heyy. i can see most girls are gona think he fancies you. but not really. he likes u a lot as a friend. i have a friend like that. he always kisses me on the cheek. and we share lollipops and he always asks me to sit next to him and he grabs my waist and that. but if YOU LIKE HIM.. you could get somewhere.. gud lukk

[misoshiru]

2 answers, he likes you, or what pauline said, he wants to get in your pants

[forgotten_farewe...]

sorry but i really think he likes you... maybe he was embarassed when you said that you USED to like him...maybe if you still like him then the feeling is mutual...

[mzawesome]

he likes you, you guys should just lay it out. hahha. its so sweet too hope that would happen to me.

[kyuubi319]

he likes you, it's sooo obvious ^^, he sounds like a cutiee~

[ilauqh]

maybe he's jus comfortable with you and knows that he can be like that around you because you don't care.. *dats the only thing that makes sense if he really doesn't like you*

[minus_perfection]

thats kinda weird though,he takes yur candy.lol.thats funny.

[HoodieObsessed]

I donno, he sounds like he likes you to me...either that or he's #1 a really good freind #2 a flirt #3 he knows that he can act that way aorund you cause you know each other so well that he knows you won't take it seriusly, or the wrong way, or #4 he likes you and doesn't know it

I know some of my ideas were stolen form some of the other ppl on this forum but I was too lazy to qoute, sry,

If you like him, you should tell him..either that or emply it..unless ofcourse you don't watn to like him..but oyu do anyway...than don't tell him and just, I donno, try not to be atracted to him.

I wish I had a freind like that maybe some day

[FoOd]

Hmm, well because you share lollipops, wouldn't that be a kiss? Indirect kissing though, but still you guys are sharing saliva

I don't know any guy who would do that with me.

Plus, you look pretty and I know you can snag him

[c0oki3_m0n$tah]

i agree with the other ppl who responded.. i don't think just a guy friend would lick a lollypop U licked?? also putting his arms around u and stuff?? it may be that he does like u and hes just telling ppl that he likes someone else. go for it. ask him..=]

[tofuburger]

he likes you.

[inlonelinessidie]

He's probably gay. I don't know, lol.

[bad_girl]

how do u kno he doesnt like u. if he doesnt.. he must b gay. maybe u should ask him why he's doing all this to u while he doesnt like u..

[kellyd42]

Ah! The exact thing happend to me! he always used to tell everyone that he didn't like me as a girlfriend kinda thing but me and him have been dating for 5 1/2 months so I bet the same thing is happening with you ya just need to wait a bit until he decided to finally admit he likes you hope all goes well!

[EmmalieV]

err maybe he does 0_o

[xLil SweetnezZx]

Maybe he does like you, but he wants to be friends???????
If your good friends just tell him his behavior confuses you and if he really doesn't like you just quit doing all that stuff.
>.< I think I have a 12-year old version of this problem

[lilphoenix]

He likes you. Period.

[d[- -]b]

yeahh you r pretty, i tink he duz like you. just dusnt want to admit it or sumtin ?

[jordanriane]

so what's the problem then?

you didn't really state what you wanted help with.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

oh crapp foreezy.

i just wanted to know if thats ever happened to any of your and what`d yu do about it ? sorry` bout that

[jordanriane]

It's happened before, I'm good friends with someone, and flirt with them and start to look them.. Eventually though I usually found someone else to occupy my thoughts.

[*salcha*]

maybe he's just being friendly and all
what a weird way though...

[someflipguy]

Two options...

He wants to get in your pants and your not willing.

or

He is Gay, cus what guy is foolish enough to turn down a girl, that he does all that stuff too?

[starlette]

okay, I had a guy that did the exact same kinda stuff with me. He used to steal my gum and everything! I thot I was the only one. But yeah. He used to pick me up and carry me around everywhere. I had the hugest crush on him forever and ever. He was so friggin hott and everyone loved him. He was very popular. But he always seemed to date other girls. But then like he took me to homecoming one year, and he took me to homecoming another year...and then I would go to his house and we would mess around and go cruising in his car for hours and watch the bball game and what not. All this stuff. Then one day like, after 3 years of this flirting thing, we just hooked up. It was weird. And we were together for a long time. SO maybe hes just a big flirt and really likes you and all that, just doesnt want any commitment from you. How can you really really really know someone doesnt like you. I sure know Nik (guy mentioned above) told people he didnt like, but then we hooked. So yeah. Just be patient. He sounds like fun!! i miss those days.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I think he likes you he's juss playin hard to get but I would get into another relationship and see what happens...and if he acts the same I would confront him!!!...I'd be like do you like me or what...cause if you do I want you to tell me then I don't want to spend my time thinking of you and I wanna learn to move on...I hope that helps...don't worry girl I kno what yur goin through!!...

[*Programmer*]

^sorry but that idea is one of the the most idiotic things i've heard all day....as for the question...girl confront him about it...ask him......don't be scared....be bold...... guys like that...we guys get shy around girls.....well most of us do anyway....espacially one's we really like....we end up doing dumb goofy things.... like for instance..... licking your lollipop...lmao.....

[danishcookiez]

maybe he just wants to be a really good, close friend. some guys are like that with their friends. but then again, he might like you. it all depends on how he acts with other girls though

[troubled_angel]

I have a friend like that, he does like me, he just doesn't want a relationship with anyone out here quite yet. Maybe you should just ask him why he does act like that

[No1_2_NoBody13]

Personly i think you should you ask him...he might just be playing hard to get...i have a friend like that but he also bites me and what you could say " hurt " me but when i say it hurt he always says sorry and that he was just playing around...but he has a girlfriend but i go to his house and hes always wanting us to make out...and as much as i reallly want to i dont cuz his girlfriend....so like i said just write him a note asking him if he likes you....no harm no foul...

[gossipgirl]

sometimes,
boys act as if he doesnt like u,
even he does.
Love ya*muah

[wincyyellow]

i face the same problem too...
i prefer he never treat me so good...