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 Feb 20 2005, 12:42 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else!  Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752  |
i really like this boy in my school, but i dont know if he likes me, and my friends are telling me to move on. and i really want to too, but its really hard for me to move on. what should i do to help me get over him, oh yeah hes my friend..
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Feb 20 2005, 12:45 PM
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someone can't FORCE you to move on...it really depends on you, you could move on eventually or stay lilking him
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Feb 20 2005, 12:46 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
well you can't just move on when you want to...its takes time..=/
you can't just give up on a guy if he doesn't like you..thne theres no meaning moved to relationships |
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Feb 20 2005, 01:29 PM
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there are quite a number of ways..
like check out other guys... hang out with ur girls.. if all else fails, just let time do it's thang |
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Feb 20 2005, 01:36 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
that is a hard one... :-/
i guess you will just have to try to find someone else that you like. or you could try to tell him how you feel and see if he really does like you. but then if he does and y'all get together and break up, it could ruin your friendship...  i guess it is your choice...sorry! 
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Feb 20 2005, 02:50 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
sometimes you cant move on, for a very long time. the best way to do it is find out how he feels, &to let him know how you feel. cos part of the not being able to move on is when he doesnt know how you feel. believe me, im very experienced in not being able to move on. just tell him how you feel. i dont know if its just me but when i like someone i flirt a lot and i tell them straight up that i like them. if they dont like me back then its easier to get over them, but if its someone your like in practically love with. its harder and takes longer
tell him how you feel, that you like him |
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Feb 20 2005, 02:58 PM
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 Vyna Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,332 |
Time will change this..but keep in mind that you are in total control of your feelings..There is another guy out there waiting for you so think about that!
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Feb 20 2005, 05:33 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
start checking out other guys ?
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Feb 20 2005, 06:23 PM
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there are no shortcuts to moving on, just try to be happy on what you are feeling now
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Feb 20 2005, 07:21 PM
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..The only way to get over someone is to completely want to get over someone. I see people (including myself) begging to let go of someone, but we linger on songs and photos and memories that really just hook us back on.
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Feb 20 2005, 07:24 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
pfft. i find it completely stupid to allow someone else to control ur feelings. there's always some subconscious crap about how u still like him. like my friend's like, "omg, i'm over him." "oh really?" "well, i don't want to like him."
pfft. 
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 20 2005, 07:26 PM
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^agreed
do what you want for yourself don't let your friends choose for you ...sh*t.....your the one that's suppose to say ok imma try to get over him...not them.... |
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Feb 20 2005, 07:38 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Moving on is your decision not your friends' to make. It takes time for someone to truly move on..But...why move on? if you don't even know his feelings for you? I mean it's not like you know he doesnt like you? Why don't you tell him how you feel? boyfriends are developed from friendship. Just because you tell him how you feel doesn't mean that it would ruin the friendship....however there's always a chance that it will...if you like him that much then take a risk.
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Feb 20 2005, 09:43 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^i agree
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Feb 21 2005, 12:19 AM
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yeah its up to you to move on if you want to...but saying that you do, just try to keep your mind busy and off of him. try looking at all the other guys around and whatnot.
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Feb 21 2005, 12:57 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Hmm... well you can't automatically assume that he doesn't have feelings for you..
But you should gradually try to notice other guys.. Trying to push him away and trying to focus on the bad things about him most likely WON'T help... Try to find a new guy to like.. that usually works..  Because if you find someone else you like, then it's easier to move on. But take it one step at a time, no need to rush.
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