How do u ask a girl 2 a dance, without being a stupid fool(like me) Options

[RaphieRyouga]

Yea i asked her in a card...the next day she said no and i almost killed myself(literally)

[Froshy]

doing things via e-mail, card, phone, etc is kinda weak. next time ask her face to face. and if she says no, no need to get all crazy depressed and suicidal...not trying to be mean or insensitive, sorry.

cheer up pal. there are other girls in the world.

edit::
you were probably aiming for a guy's opinion given that you wrote this in the guys' locker room. oops?

[sm0kinm0nky]

i ask in person lol thast prolly the best way cuase any other way would mean you're to shy or scared

[snak3y3z1001]

go up to her and ask ;)

[Xprezsion]

I'm a girl, but I snoop around here sometimes. Anyways, sorry to hear :(, next time you should ask in person because it's really special when a guy asks you to dance with them at the prom, party or dance. Goodluck, feel better!

[xtremeliquid]

go up to her and ask ;)

Yeah.

[snak3y3z1001]

o yea forgot to say. Dont be shy asking girls out. The worst thing that can happen is she saying no.

[heyyfrankie]

why would you almost kill yourself? why wouldn't you just ask her yourself? she probably said no because it was in a card. it would of meant more it is was in person.

[XaZnX07]

well you have to just have a funny comfortable conversation with her to start it off then you bring up the dance be really smmooth and then be like hey would you like to go to do the dance with me?

.:tony:.

[BOAmusics]

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cheer up, life isn't jsut about her, u can move out without her. JUST live and stay in school and get a good job then care avout love later.
CHEER UP!!
but it kinda hard to face her now
she will freaken tell everyone about it
CHEER UP!!!!
if she do she probably not the right one
CHEER UP!!!!!!!


this will happen to me too, when i ask a girl to the prom, i tell how it go later, if i dont i probably be dead =P

[raincloud]

say it face to face! girls like it. phone/email/im/notes/ect. doesnt give u the same special effect.

im sorry ur sad. dont be sad.

[KELLYYY]

I'm a girl and guys always ask me face to face. <- There's your answer.

[demolished]

If you got the guts, talk to her face. If your shy, ask your friend who is a girl to ask her out for you.

[ryfitaDF]

say "would you like to go to the dance?". i think that might do the trick

[liSerS x3]

i'm a girl. and if i was being asked to a dance, i'd like to be asked face to face. yeah, letters/e-mails/cards just isn't the same

if you go up to the girl and and say it to her face, it shows that you have courage =].

anyhow, cheer up. it's okay.

next time, try asking her face to face.

[Oranite]

i'm a girl. and if i was being asked to a dance, i'd like to be asked face to face. yeah, letters/e-mails/cards just isn't the same

if you go up to the girl and and say it to her face, it shows that you have courage =].

anyhow, cheer up. it's okay.

next time, try asking her face to face.

Yea... especially if you ask them face to face its alot harder for them to turn you down... unless she doesn't really know you at all...or she just doesn't like u...

[jaeman]

I ask in person.

Me: "Hey you know the dance, you wanna go with me?"
Her: "Yeah sure"
Me: "Ok, thanks"

Another scenario.

Me: "Hey you wanna go to the dance with me?"
Her: "No! Never!"
Me: "Fine, don't expect homework from me again"

[Mireh]

you: hey, you know that dance coming up?
her: yea, why?
you: who are you going with?
her:
--->a)oh, i'm going with _______
--->b) nobody
you:
--->a) Oh alright cool. I'm still looking for sombody to go with.
--->b) oh, do you want to go together then?


casuality is the key.

[jennyjenny]

Look them in the eye, and ask her.

[Sniter527]

hey! Don't kill urself over a girl. how would u have a chance to try agian if u do kill yourself man?

[badapplestix]

just get a buncha red roses

[Jinjjasanaee]

"hey, will you go to the dance with me?"

[ikayto]

that sucks, rejection is lame but hey at least you wont have any regets

[dahding]

man, grow a pair of balls, and ask her out face to face.

through a card, hah. i laugh.

[*videogamsta*]

ask her face to face

[*Statistik*]

Ask her in a sweet way..and express your feelings to make her interested in dancing with you

[*videogamsta*]

or try and find a nice time like in a good conversation to squeese that thought in! lol

[Derek4jc]

Get a nice stiff drink first lol

[sleepieeeXOXange...]

If you got the guts, talk to her face.  If your shy, ask your friend who is a girl to ask her out for you.

eh, i disagree with the asking-a-friend-thing. it means a lot more if you ask in person.

[lilJdawg]

You should go up to her face & straight up ask her. Don't kill yourself for that. it aint worth it homie g. if you don't have the confidence, build some up.

[iheartsimba]

aw, it really depends on the girl though. i think asking in person is better though...because then it takes away the awkwardness from communicating in a card..and then having to go on a date...you know?

anyway, soemthing simple. make sure you know her well enough though..
"would you like to goto the dance with me"
and stay away from pick up lines, unless you mean them as a joke or something...and be sweet!

[mcshieldsniper]

no guts, no glory; show her u have the guts to ask her to dance in person.

Personally, i dont really have a problem with girls, considering i have more friends that are females than males (but i hang out with my guy friends when they go to girl talks )

Steps to success:

1. ACT NORMAL (as if she was a guy, but keep in mind she is a girl)
i cant stress this enough. A lot of guys stammer or other nervous acts in front of girls. Some girls like this, some dont. But it's better if u dont, just in case. So act casual, dont make it a big deal.

2. Dont ask abruptly.
Go up to her, say something like "heyy" and then work your way into a conversation. When you feel that it's a good time, go like "heyy, you kno that dance? u going with someone already?" then either "kool, i dont have anyone to go with yet" if she does, and "so, you wanna go to the dance with me?"

Pretty simple

3. every girl is different
be careful wat you say too. She could be the kind that likes the hott guys, or the personality kind. i go for the personality kind cuz im not "hott"

and dont get too upset she said no, life's like this. Just remember this experience and move on. She's gone and face it.


good luck in the future

~stealthspy12

[RaphieRyouga]

well anyway at da dance our friends FORCED us to dance... yea that wuz pretty bad but we both had a laugh or two...plus i got to breakdance...okay one kick up and everyone went crazy yea to find out more go 2 MY XANGA

im hungry bye

[Jorge]

this one time when i asked this girl to the dance she was like o f'k yes & was literally screaming.

[krnfriscoballer]

well yeah im a grl im sorry about bein in the boys locker room but i like helping boys especially mai bf...well i think you should s=just get it over with but....but...u can tell her how you feell n encourage her comment her...thats what i would like...stare her down in the eye....act all cute and hot ..if she doesnt like you shed be all i have to do someting else...like this guy..this dork with glasses braces and a nerd..who is alwayz studying asked me out... im all like your a nice guy n all but umm.. i dont really have feelings for you like you do for me but..yea...what im saying is GET IT OVER WITH ALREADY!!!

call mae

[EmmalieV]

by asking..

[yukichan]

ask in person...its better that way..they cant really say no to ur face...and dont kill ur self over one girl...theres many other girls in the world...=)

[mouse_3k]

Yea i asked her in a card...the next day she said no  and i almost killed myself(literally) 

wow ur weird. ur suicidal cause a girl said no to ur invitation. thats so stupid...how about u get over it and move on

[*Programmer*]

wow ur weird. ur suicidal cause a girl said no to ur invitation. thats so stupid...how about u get over it and move on

uhhh dude get some help....no girl is worth you killing yourself ever....
Me = agrees with mouse_3k

[cLinT_wEStw0oD]

god...almost killing yourself over a no...get used to it youre gonna get alot more of them :)

[someflipguy]

Honestly, you just need to be straight with the girl. If she don't like you and she don't want to go with you then she will say NO. Don't get all angry and shit about it, I am sure there is a girl out there that will say yes.

[LoserLuvS]

anyways.....the truth is..it doesnt matter how you ask a girl...to a dance or out...if she really wants to... she'll say yes...not to be harsh or anything......

[wayne]

i say to myself "hey merman (thats what i call myself sometimes, lol) stop being a sissy, and ask her! or... no penguins!"

[fall3n_s0ul]

this is howd it goes . and it work out for me ..............
scene ; hallway .
she was right infrout of me . i hold her arm and made her turn around

me; you wanna go out to the dance with me ?
her; [ she blushes ] sure [ gives a smile ]
me; :hugs her:

thats how my story goes except i didn't show up at the dance and she totally hated me from that day on -___-. screwd

[largosama]

you can't act like it's a big deal

once did this:

"Go to the dance with me?"
"ok"
"cool"
"later"
"bye"

another time:

"<see first line above>"
"sure"

next day: I don't want to go anymore

just because you get a yes doesn't mean they won't change their mind

[L0V3Y0US]

don't be so down on yourself.. she'll probably give you another chance.. if not, she's messed up, that's all i gotta say good luck

this is howd it goes . and it work out for me ..............
scene ; hallway .
she was right infrout of me . i hold her arm and made her turn around

me; you wanna go out to the dance with me ?
her; [ she blushes ] sure [ gives a smile ]
me; :hugs her:

thats how my story goes except i didn't show up at the dance and she totally hated me from that day on -___-. screwd

be like him, but actually go to the dance, if you didn't what would be the use of asking anyways..? right?

[angelluves2rock]

u shuld go up nd ask face 2 face...card...she mightve been disappointed...gud luck next time!

[Eryi]

doing things via e-mail, card, phone, etc is kinda weak. next time ask her face to face. and if she says no, no need to get all crazy depressed and suicidal...not trying to be mean or insensitive, sorry.

cheer up pal. there are other girls in the world.

edit::
you were probably aiming for a guy's opinion given that you wrote this in the guys' locker room. oops?

Agreed. Ask her in person. and boy is this an old topic.

[xjunho3]

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