Does he really like me..., or he's just playing with my mind? |
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 Feb 19 2005, 09:43 AM
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It's about the same guy I like. It bothers me a lot because... I just don't get how he's feeling.
A moment ago he completely ignored me like I'm nothing, and after that moment he talks to me, he chases me down the stairs just to say hi. We have so much eye contact and I always catch him looking at me. <-- note that that has been going on since months till now. He told me he likes nobody but why would he bother to do all that if he doesnt like me???  Why is he being so hot and cold to me...?? There was also this time he caught me chatting with this guy and we were laughing at this joke..he looked at me and walked away real quick. Is he being jealous or something?? Is it just me or him being oversenstive? Oh god I need help 
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Feb 19 2005, 09:45 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
he could be thinking that you've stopped liking him and sometimes gets jealous over it because some guys think that have a girl like them is cool. but i dont know...he might like you but is too shy to admit it.
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Feb 19 2005, 09:49 AM
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Talk to him about it if it's bothering you which I can see it IS bothering you. If you usually talk to him about anything, talking straight up to him shouldn't be a problem also.
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Feb 19 2005, 09:51 AM
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i think he likes u, u should talk to him, ask him why hes behaving this way
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Feb 19 2005, 09:52 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
he probably likes you.
we do this, espcially if the girl is out of our league. are you out of his league? |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:56 AM
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I think he likes you. He's just scared you might turn him down and see him only as a friend....but you won't really know unless you talk to him about it.
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Feb 19 2005, 01:59 PM
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guys work in mysterious ways. haha ask him.
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Feb 19 2005, 02:08 PM
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 MY PARADiiSE <333 Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,415 |
he might really like you, but too shy to admit it.
probably. and... maybe... iono. ask him? or u can tell him how u feel. |
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Feb 19 2005, 02:11 PM
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What kinda person is he? Is he a "playa" or is he like a shy person? Talk to him or hang out with him more
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Feb 19 2005, 03:35 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Feb 19 2005, 5:56 AM) I think he likes you. He's just scared you might turn him down and see him only as a friend....but you won't really know unless you talk to him about it.  i agree...ask him...thats the only way u can find out for sure... |
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Feb 19 2005, 04:51 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
aah that's with me too! just not really... that hot or cold.
 hard to explain... and i guess, you just never really know until you ask him (hey i wouldnt so i wouldnt ask you to either  )
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Feb 19 2005, 08:20 PM
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QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Feb 19 2005, 10:52 PM) he probably likes you. we do this, espcially if the girl is out of our league. are you out of his league? Is that actually true or what? I think...most of you are in the US right? Well I'm not and I don't think there's any 'social pyramid' typo stuff here... we're kinda equal-ish. |
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Feb 19 2005, 09:30 PM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE What kinda person is he? Is he a "playa" or is he like a shy person? That's really important. If he's usually shy, then he definately likes you. But if he's a playa, watch out. |
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Feb 19 2005, 09:32 PM
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be strait forward its the onli way
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Feb 19 2005, 10:20 PM
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QUOTE(K!$$ @ Feb 20 2005, 10:30 AM) That's really important. If he's usually shy, then he definately likes you. But if he's a playa, watch out. He's really shy. I can't believe he can be so shy. |
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Feb 19 2005, 10:41 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(MarchHare2UrAlice @ Feb 19 2005, 6:52 AM) he probably likes you. we do this, espcially if the girl is out of our league. are you out of his league? ^ That sounds correct. But wait, the girl might not be out of the guy's league, but he might feel that way... Hmm.. But anyway, yea it seems like he's just shy (which everyone stated)... If there's so much eye contact, you know that he likes you.  Remember that guys and girls who are shy don't like to admit to the other person's face that they like them. I know for sure I can't say it to the person's face that I liked them... And I know in the past I liked someone but told people I didn't like anyone. Shy peopel like to appear mysterious.. I know because I used to be one of them.
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Feb 19 2005, 11:02 PM
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he probably is jealous that you like someone else....he wants to feel loved
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Feb 20 2005, 03:03 AM
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you should ask him if he really likes you because it helps and yeah.. you should just ask him and see what happens
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Feb 20 2005, 03:22 AM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 20 2005, 11:41 AM) ^ That sounds correct. But wait, the girl might not be out of the guy's league, but he might feel that way... Hmm. Yeah that's what I'm thinking... We used to get the same grades in Science (like exactly the same) and once he got this lower one and he looked so dissapointed when I asked him...but generally I think he's smarter though he might not think cause I participate a LOT in sports when he does one/two major ones. ...which I dont see how does that make me out of his league 
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Feb 20 2005, 04:18 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Awww..sounds like he likes you.
 But ask him about.. haha he seems shy though
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Feb 20 2005, 12:53 PM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
i think he likes you, maybe hes just too shy to tell you like most guys...
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Feb 20 2005, 02:48 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
well, does HE know YOU like HiM. if not you should tell him, believe me if you tell him he`ll think higher of you &yeah. just get to know him better, establish a closer relationship.
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Feb 20 2005, 04:45 PM
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hmm yeah it appears that he likes you. do something about it perhaps? talk to him more, or just ask him or something. good luck.
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Feb 20 2005, 05:14 PM
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Im a guy myself so i know this... guys really don't like to get turned down...especially if its someone that we really like... so when it comes to that person we make our move very slowly and don't really reveal our true intentions... I once really like a girl, we were pretty good friends and hang out alot... but i liked her more then a friend, when i actually made my move she told me "i like you as a friend...but i just can't picture you as something more..."(something like that.....)... <- Thats our greatest fear in the world... and most guys just can't really deal with that... so thats why hes probably not making a move to show you how he feels.... If you really like him it would really help if you gave him some hints or just talk to him, maybe not as direct as just telling him that you like him...but give him some strong hints... that might get him to lossen up and perhaps show you a bit of how he feels...
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Feb 20 2005, 05:57 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
shy people will NOT make the first move. WILL NOT. ever. nononono.
you talk to him about it, cause if he's shy he will not be saying anything. i know, i'm shy 
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Feb 21 2005, 08:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
Thanks.
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