How do you flirt?, Boys Version Options

[shortiiex]

In have made a topic about this in the Girl's Locker Room, and this is my first topic in the Boy's Locker Room. I want to get a guys opinion..some answers are different in the Girl's Locker room.

[xitachix]

i do a mixture because im a "Nice
Guy" so i cant help talkign sweet to her and if were dateing id write her poems and such if shes into that to prove to her i love her ... i normaly tickle them or make jokes to get begginer attention i have a hard time on first meetings of girls im more of an if i get intro duced then im a better flirter but i have a hard timeon the first hello =P i guess me being myself if thats flirting cause i always tell jokes...

[emo_in_urpanties]

i'd hafta agree with ^him. getten tha girl ta laff is tha best way ta break tha ice. it comes naturally for me, (thas y i'm so studly) lol, jpjp. newayz, i'm a huge teaser, girls usually lyk ta b teased...most of them, not all tho.

[BOAmusics]

i totally don't know how to flirt
i i just try to be myself and don't know the different.

[shortiiex]

^ don't flirt is you are not are not even trying to the girl and be myself is when you just talk about your trueself and whatever your flirting lead you to

[auroradude]

BOAMusics are you really only 8 years old?

[demolished]

I never ever flirt a female. i THINK it's kind of foolish and stupid.

[Rayj]

I'm good with words, so i like to sweet talk my ladies.

[sammi rules you]

BOAMusics are you really only 8 years old?

holy shizzle.

aznxboredperson or whatever your username is, you used flirt in the wrong context..you can't flirt a person..you can flirt WITH a person..

[mactjhs]

i dunno, i just try to be myself usually, and maybe hint around with them, im pretty good at flirting sumtiems i think, but who knows?? haha and i make lyrics! so i can send them poems and stuff haha they think thats sweet! yessssss! lol

[aicilah999]

well i've seen this like.."pretty boy" at skool that everyone has a crush on him..im mad at him cuz i dont like those type of boys..but he just wants more girls to like him so he tries to "tease" me and i get "mad" and pretends that im falling for that guy but im not...

so i hate popular boys...bleh..they think they can win every girls heart cuz they're popular..

well too bad. i dont give. pssshhhhh

[snak3y3z1001]

dont exactly flirt. just go with the flow.

[Jinjjasanaee]

I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.

[TrUePaInX]

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noooo...it cant be...how u ppl get soo good at flirting...i mean...i have dis friend dat could just flirt right in front of me and my other friends

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[snak3y3z1001]

I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.

too much nauruto for you

[XEmotionxDamageX]

poetry :)

emo.chicks.dig.it

[hoogli]

i couldn't flirt even if i tried.

[heyyfrankie]

i tell her she is pretty. then they start talking.

[Derek4jc]

I'm really bad at it lol... I use the "become friends first" approach, and end up stuck there lol

[racoons > you]

um kinda mix of being obnoxious and beng myself... mind you there are those who would say thzatbeong obnoxious is me.. i dont like these people

[Ington]

I can't stop flirting.

But anyway, I flirt while being myself. Its an Ariel technique.

[mcshieldsniper]

i'd hafta agree with ^him.  getten tha girl ta laff is tha best way ta break tha ice.  it comes naturally for me, (thas y i'm so studly) lol, jpjp.  newayz, i'm a huge teaser, girls usually lyk ta b teased...most of them, not all tho.

same..im a nice guy naturally, so i just be myself, crack a few jokes, use sweet talk

i can flirt without even knowing it

~stealthspy12

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i sweet talk without even thinking about the next word that comes out of my mouth because everything i say is true and from the heart. So yes, sweet talk.

Also teasing and making fun of them when they do something ditsy or clumbsy or say something stupid, but theres a point where you gotta stop before they get mad at u or annoyed.

Sometimes physical contact is needed , so a poke here and poke there, a hug, a little shove, and sometimes "look u got osmething on ur shirt *flick* " haha

If i feel like letting the girl know that i like or love her, i will tell her, i use to write little poems or letters back when i get a letter but eh, now its just straight up 1 on 1 conversation , sometimes ill leave hints , like droppin a song on em or w/e .

I ask them questions about themselves, laugh at their jokes, talk to them when them, take care of their needs, and basically show em im boyfriend or lover material ....

Basically, i just act like myself.

No lines, no lies, just keepin it real =]

[dilutedheartx]

hang around them. let them lead you. and elad them sometimes too, so thye dont get sick of you.

[fucka]

im pretty good at it i just went to a movie with my gf and we did a french kiss

[michelina0kudelk...]

I'm a girl and I kinda wish you guys would be a bit more obvious...I'm so clueless as to what you guys are thinking...and about the harassment one which a surprising amount of you chose be kind with your harassment, don't be rude..

[*Xxswiftxx*]

Be urself....Dont try to act like somone else

[*salcha*]

i couldn't flirt even if i tried.

cmon now, you probably do...you just wouldnt notice lol

[aznmojo]

easy to flirt just by talking about hw in class then have them study with u then bam ur done.

[jaeman]

I'm always myself so I guess I'm myself when I flirt.

[someflipguy]

I agree with everything Vinh said! Touching, sweet talking, poems, emo shit...

But, I flirt without even knowing it, Im like why was that girl all acting weird with me all I asked her for was a soda. haha...

[CUTEBUNNY160]

i LOVE IT when guys are just themselves. they dont have to buy me stuff and be a sweet talker. i actually think thats a turn-off

[(>")>]

Being myself is the best way i can possibly act...in a funny yet weird and polite way.. confused?

[cLinT_wEStw0oD]

nobody on this planet can sweet talk better than me..

[Trolling]

I just be myself... No use putting up a fake front... Girls can see past that

[Teesa]

I agree with everything Vinh said!  Touching, sweet talking, poems, emo shit...

But, I flirt without even knowing it, Im like why was that girl all acting weird with me all I asked her for was a soda.  haha...

haha, we take everything you guys do seriously

[LQ_Darksoul]

I just walk up and bite them...If they don't think its funny, then they ain't my kinda gal.

[ex_multini]

"i just try to be myself"
how can u be urself when u're trying~
i think it's just fake to say i just try to be myself.
that's why i chose laugh all the time with them instead.
laughter, the best medicine.

[X-Zeifer]

I do whatever it takes "A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do" i tease her, use 1 or 2 pick up lines and it works out.. Most of the time.

[picaso_smile]

I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.

that's so cute!

I just walk up and bite them...If they don't think its funny, then they ain't my kinda gal.

I'm not sure how I'd react to the one. Possibly bite back???

I just be myself... No use putting up a fake front... Girls can see past that

Daaaamnn straight we can.

[LQ_Darksoul]

I'm not sure how I'd react to the one. Possibly bite back???

See...Now thats my kinda gal!!

[*Solipsist*]

Can't really say. I've never flirted before.
Against my religion you see.

- Solipsist

[magnificentmike]

I flirt by sweet talking, and saying things like "you're beautiful" and stuff like that.

[someflipguy]

haha, we take everything you guys do seriously

Well thats good to hear!

[ohh_so_elektrikk...]

sweet talking isnt everything. i dont like guys who sweet talk a lot... i just like a guy to make me laugh and not be serious all the time. serious guys, and guys that dont take jokes the right way are just a major turn off for me

[teaspoondesigns]

I tickle my girlfriend, hold her close, play with her hair, kiss her on the neck, face, etc... Hold her hand.... You know, you're missing quite a few things.

[Litt0_TeeZy]

I can't stop flirting. 

But anyway, I flirt while being myself. Its an Ariel technique. 

haha ariel. that's cute. yuppers. i think the best way to flirt is just to be yourself. don't force it. just do it ;D heehee.

[f0b_un1t]

i try to be myself becaus if they cant like me for me, then forget it- when looking for a girl, i want them to be comfortable with who i am- besides, nothing's worse than a girl liking you for what you're not right?

[alsex]

flirting depends on the given situation so i voted for other
the best flirting is complimenting, girls love compliments so thats how to initiate the conversation
if to have to use a pick up line this gets the girls to blush
if its true that you are what you eat, then i could be you by morning

[Elvis_IzBack]

I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.

believe me...this does work! its quoooootte

[Godsend]

technically i sexually harass my girls lol.... they dont mind... i think...

and fo those that jus try to be myselves, STOP LYING! u know u go into showoffy mode!

for me, i walk up to da girl and make her laugh... den i watch her walk away!

[fameONE]

My flirting is straight forward honesty but most girls don't take it seriously so they just think its adorable.

[x3 lets dance x3]

yeah.. i'm to afraid to go flirt or whatever.. guys are to mean if you dont wear the shortest skirt or the smallest shirt.. so yeah.

[Stuckie]

I think sweet talking is your best bet. Only one of two things can happen:

1) She takes you seriously.
2) She thinks you are lying to her, but she finds it adorable.

[skateforfree]

dont exactly flirt. just go with the flow.

same here i guess

pick up lines suck, haha

[HoodieObsessed]

i sweet talk without even thinking about the next word that comes out of my mouth because everything i say is true and from the heart. So yes, sweet talk.

Also teasing and making fun of them when they do something ditsy or clumbsy or say something stupid, but theres a point where you gotta stop before they get mad at u or annoyed.

Sometimes physical contact is needed , so a poke here and poke there, a hug, a little shove, and sometimes "look u got osmething on ur shirt *flick* " haha

If i feel like letting the girl know that i like or love her, i will tell her, i use to write little poems or letters back when i get a letter but eh, now its just straight up 1 on 1 conversation , sometimes ill leave hints , like droppin a song on em or w/e .

I ask them questions about themselves, laugh at their jokes, talk to them when them, take care of their needs, and basically show em im boyfriend or lover material ....

Basically, i just act like myself.

No lines, no lies, just keepin it real =]

wow, you sound awesome...youv'e won over my heart

I think sweet talking is your best bet. Only one of two things can happen:

1) She takes you seriously.
2) She thinks you are lying to her, but she finds it adorable.

or she finds it totally over romantic and thinks you are making it all up as well as sounding ridiculas

but ya...sweet talking is okay I guess, as long as it's not in too big quantities

i LOVE IT when guys are just themselves. they dont have to buy  me stuff and be a sweet talker. i actually think thats a turn-off

I kinda agree

[Eryi]

i make fun of the person. Lol.

[rnrn897]

i poke their guts out.
>:]

[magicfann]

lol exactly

[blah122986]

hmm i dun think i really flirt..but that could just be muh point of view haha..

[CrazyJellyBean]

I honestly' dont always know im flirting.. Say Im talking to a girl bla bla.. A friend comes up You like her?.. And Im like No why?...Because your flirting

[Joss-eh-lime]

i dont think "just be yourself" should be a catagorey,
becuase when you flirt, you are still yourself, with your own flirting style.

[scottypottyboi]

i be myself 100% but now and then i tr to be someone else so my gf wont think im hopeless ass sigh being yourself is very hard -_-

[SmackaBitch3000]

I just be myself. I don't come to them they come to me nuff said

i be myself 100% but now and then i tr to be someone else so my gf wont think im hopeless ass sigh being yourself is very hard -_-

lol man if she don't like u for who you are I highly suggest u find someone else anyways thats what I'd do if I were u.

p.s just bein real with ya

[Afrodisiac-aka-A...]

^ whatever rookie...





I just look them in the eye, lick my lips and gaze into her sea of emotion and i be like "Suck it"

[SmackaBitch3000]

^ whatever rookie...
I just look them in the eye, lick my lips and gaze into her sea of emotion and i be like "Suck it"

lol u just don't know antho but its alright *comforts antho*

[freeridefight]

I am always myself and everyone tells me im a big flirt most of the times its good and sometimes not

[x_curse_of_the_c...]

umm.......... i don't flirt but i guess just become friends first? i guess idk.

[imon]

I'd rather BE MYSELF.... but lately, I have given the boy I like... NOTES... TONS of NOTES! He reads them, and throughs them away :-( but hey... he reads them!!!!

[Mr. Slowjamz]

it depends ..... different girls ,different reactions , blah blah .....yawn im tired . as for me i have a big heart ....and im not an a** plus im a singer so most girls like that .

[RyanWasHere]

Personally, I go for the comedy approach, once you make a girl laugh, you've got one foot in the door, take it to a sweet talk after that, avoid pick-up lines by any means necessary unless you say them to be corny and funny to get a laugh.

And for the first couple dates, bring a friend, keep it casual, if things get awkward it's good to have someone else there to break up the silence, but after you get that first kiss or feel or w/e DO NOT I repeat DO NOT bring a friend to your next date make that one between just you 2.

[*Mercy*]

I harrass and stalk my women.

[shiftieeyedpnoi]

I offer them power levels.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Most guys that try to flirt with me usually like try to tickel me or like always have their hands on my legs or something.

[*IVIike*]

i just talk to em and make sure to compliment them on something

[Chicago]

being myself seems to do the trick,
but for other guys.. id suggest NOT being prude
telling her how you feel, complimenting her,
being "touchy-feely".. being yourself :]

[JonnyMoseley]

I am always myself sometimes i don't even like like the girls that i am hanging out with but then if i hear that they like me i ask them out on a date, and usualy they say yess. yeah, guys are simple, we like to be liked. if a girl likes us we will probably like them back if they are decent. i've had a few people that i would never be attracted to super flirt with me. i had to take them aside and tell them that i dont like them and they don't have a chance. it is kind of harsh but it is the only thing i can do to make them stop trying to get me.

[USCavalry]

I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.

that one made me laugh

i try to be as blunt as possible without being too blunt, if that's possible. i like to get to know the woman on a friend like level, coming on strong right away just isn't my thing. another reason not to go for it right away is that you don't know if you are even compatable, maybe you think she's hot or really nice or w/e but the truth is you don't know shit. sometimes i have to hold myself back cuz i'm so infatuated, like someone shot me in the ass with a cupid arrow.

[ldyxluvable]

ahhh` interesting .

[ReggieM]

how can guys say be themselves?? you know dam well that you're shy as heck or really pervy or even both.Im sure if guys acted the way they acted with thier close friends im sure many girls wouldnt like that. and i doubt you can flirt with a girl being shy.im shy but i just put that aside cuz i know its unattractive and makes me look stupid.

[BannanaQ]

i have no idea...most of the time when I flirt...i don't even notice it...my friend usually tells me after, "omfg dude, you were totally flirting with that girl...too bad you forgot to ask for her number" then i'm like, "FUUUCK!"

[perfezione]

I run my finger down my asscrack and then ask them to smell it. if all goes as planned we'll both be satisfied

[BannanaQ]

^LOL....genius!

[ReggieM]

^^thats not even funny....

[creole]

Give them a good joke. :) Be yourself. :/

[Tung]

I usually just drop my pants on "accident"