Why do girls always fall for the bestfriends ex? |
  |
 Feb 18 2005, 06:48 PM
Post
#1
|
|
 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420  |
Ah, I'm one of those cases. My bestfriend liked this guy for awhile. He liked her back. Well as the story goes she got sick of him and finally disconnected all contacts. He still likes her but is toned down. I'm the best friend and of course I talk to him about her, help him. I was up with him till 1 just making sure he was ok. I care for him alot. But matter of fact he says "he cant handle me" and we've had big blow outs but its gotten better.
My question -Forget? or Continue liking (Maybe my day will come)? |
|
|
|
| *Programmer* |
Feb 18 2005, 06:50 PM
Post
#2
|
|
Guest |
just don't do it...
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 06:53 PM
Post
#3
|
|
 No Nose =[ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,291 |
Hm, toughie. I think you should keep going, but don't let him think that you'll always be waiting for him until he finally wants to be with you. You know? =P
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 06:56 PM
Post
#4
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
Yeah that was my orignal plan.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 08:04 PM
Post
#5
|
|
 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i don't think you should do it because it could ruin your friendship with your friend.
 but it is your decision.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 08:05 PM
Post
#6
|
|
 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
what? i don't undertand your question...
your best friend liked this guy, she doesn't like him anymore but she still likes her and you're trying to help him? what's the problem? you said you care about him...do you like him? you never said that you did...so i don't know but with the topic question...girls don't always fall for their best friend's ex...because that's just wrong. best friends are supposed to stick together and not let some guy come in between you two, especially an ex. even if you do talk to your best friend about it and she okays it, she will still hold a secret grudge against it. she will never truly approve or accept it so you should probably wait for another guy. besides, he did say that he couldn't handle you, why continue pursuing him? |
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 10:05 PM
Post
#7
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
I'm sorry about my topic post, its mainly something I have w/ friends... but nevermind that. And also yeah, it doesnt affect my friend at all Shes moved on. For the confusion I do like him.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 10:11 PM
Post
#8
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
yes yes yes!! you should!!! you shouldn't let him go.. but if he doesn't like you back, move on. but to your answer.. yes!!! you should!! just because ur BEST friend doesn't like him anymore.. and that he's ur best friend's ex.. doesn't mean anything!!
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 18 2005, 11:03 PM
Post
#9
|
|
 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you shouldn't give up liking him.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 19 2005, 03:13 AM
Post
#10
|
|
 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i've never fallen for my bestfriend's ex.
and maybe you should talk to her about it first and see what she thinks about the possibility of you and her ex being together. |
|
|
|
|
Feb 19 2005, 04:29 PM
Post
#11
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
She really doesnt care. thats my point, its all fine with her.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 19 2005, 06:31 PM
Post
#12
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
hmm... ill go ask my BEST FRIENDS to see WHY she LIKES MY EX!!!!!!!!!!
uhhhhgggggg!!!!!!!! okokokok i know i dont have the right to say this whatsoever... but DONT DO IT. i told my best friend i was fine with it n all that...thats what i told my ex too. but seriously. it bugs me.. alot.... its just soo akward for me. ... i dont want to be selfish and tell them how i really feell.... but then.... its soooo retarted>>< uhhhhggg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont wanna think abt this poop. 
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 19 2005, 07:21 PM
Post
#13
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
first talk to him about his feelings...then you talk to your friend about your feelings
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 20 2005, 12:01 AM
Post
#14
|
|
 iuvenesco Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
eep, not a good situation
|
|
|
|
|
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: