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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
i was poking around the boys locker room and someone said that buying condoms was embarassing...
so, have any of you bought condoms and was it embarassing for you? i've bought them plenty of times...it was really embarassing the first time and it still kind of is but it's not really a big deal anymore. at least i'm being safe and getting some ![]() please don't give me one of those "you're too young to be having sex" speeches ![]() |
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![]() kristin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 ![]() |
i haven't...but a lot of my firends have before as a "joke"...i can see why it would be though..possibly running into someone you know i guess?
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![]() oh sweet pestilence ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 ![]() |
Should this be in the girls locker room? I've never bought any so I wouldn't know.
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![]() kristin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 ![]() |
yeah..since theres one in the boyus aksing guys if htey were embarrised.
moved to girls lockeroom |
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![]() boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 ![]() |
must said it pretty embrassing
it like they know you gonna have sex and tehy will look at u weirdly but if u buy it for a good purpose and want to have save sex with some one u loove then embrassment won't be a problem. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 ![]() |
i had never experience buying a condom...b/c i am only 13...but i find it embrassing...even if i don't know anybody in the store
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![]() Oh babyy. :d ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 ![]() |
Can you slip on condoms like banana peels??
Sorry... Random. ![]() I haven't bought any condoms yet.. I'm too young to do the nasty... I'm only 13... |
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![]() ;) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,573 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,124 ![]() |
QUOTE(chii @ Feb 16 2005, 4:45 PM) i was poking around the boys locker room and someone said that buying condoms was embarassing... so, have any of you bought condoms and was it embarassing for you? i've bought them plenty of times...it was really embarassing the first time and it still kind of is but it's not really a big deal anymore. at least i'm being safe and getting some ![]() please don't give me one of those "you're too young to be having sex" speeches ![]() lol |
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![]() Yes, I do have an Abercrombie booty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 698 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,057 ![]() |
QUOTE(aznhunnie6o1 @ Feb 15 2005, 11:47 PM) Can you slip on condoms like banana peels?? Sorry... Random. ![]() I haven't bought any condoms yet.. I'm too young to do the nasty... I'm only 13... Haha. I actually did that in my health class. We slipped on a condom on a plastic banana. But yeh, other than that, I think it would be pretty embarassing. Even if it was just a gag gift for a friend, I'd still be embarrassed about it. I mean, you shouldn't be because it shows people that you're responsible, but still... |
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![]() This is all my luck, it's all I got. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 ![]() |
Im only 13 so i wouldn't know. Plus i think it would be embarassing. Who knows maybe when im older and im actually doing the "nasty" lol i dont think it would be as embarassing.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 ![]() |
i never bought one but yeah, i would be embarrassed.
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*stephinika* |
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hmm no i haven't but i wouldn't find it embarassing i don't think. *shrug*
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![]() YEAH! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,345 ![]() |
I don't think it's embarassing at all.
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![]() boo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 ![]() |
i don't buy condoms. but i guess it will be embarassing the first time.
// i always thought you were younger. =) |
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![]() Hi! I'm Dani :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 ![]() |
i never bought condoms before but i dont think it would be embarassing because theres nothing wrong with wanting to protect yourself
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![]() Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 ![]() |
Umm...thats the guys job i think. I wouldnt be embarassed tho..bc what is the cashier going to say to you?
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not embrassing for me they give them out free at my school's health clinic
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![]() tower over me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 ![]() |
well, if it's too embarassing you can always order them online.
i don't buy condoms though. i'm a little 12 year old. ![]() |
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![]() Another ditch in the road... you keep moving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 ![]() |
you dont necessarily have to get the from the store, most lub/pub bathrooms have condoms in;... bu ti spose theres the whole 'underage' think to contned with so nevermind... o just invalidated my whole post sigh
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Nope, never. My ex would be the one to get them.
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![]() aka babiebubblez03 :o) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,478 ![]() |
nah, it isn't that embarrassing. I had a bad moment once though... one of my friends was working that day and he checked us out. GAWD that was horrible. But no, it's not. Just as long as no one sees you ;)
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 ![]() |
I havent, and dont plan to in a while. but I know a bunch of guys buy them....and they dont even need them lol
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~*Pretty Girls Make Graves*~ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 93,989 ![]() |
I have never had to buy one...I think I would be embarressed to!!
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![]() I'm with Stupid. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 ![]() |
Premarital sex .. enough said.
I think the guys should be the ones carrying `em around. they're the ones putting them on. ![]() |
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im not sexually active.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,342 ![]() |
i'm 14 and never bought condoms... i think its nasty...
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,084 ![]() |
i wouldnt need one
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 ![]() |
It shouldn't be embarassing.
It should show pride; like you're showing that you like to be safe while doing it. Yeah, something like that. But I've never bought condoms. Uggh, I'm only in seventh grade. If I were to buy some I wouldn't feel embarassed. |
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![]() Live Your Own Party ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 ![]() |
well, i've only baught condoms once (and don't plan to again for a long time) but yeah.. it was really emberassing. i just looked like it was something normal and didn't make a big deal out of it. the cashier didn't seem to care. but, it's a plus for me cuz i look older than i really am so it's not like they thought some kid was just buying condoms. they probably thought someone around 16 or 17 was buying them.
i would expect guys to have pride in buying condoms. unless he baught like extra small or something like that. ![]() but, at least in PA, there's no legal age for having sex. you can have sex at the age of two. i guess. lol. you can't have sex with someone 18 or over if you're under 18 and you (obviously) can't rape anyone. but if it's all fair sex and both people are in agreement, it's not illegal. |
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
I dont buy them, I get them from my friends (I mean I could but I dont use condoms..its because i dont have sex so yah no worries)
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![]() BANNED ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 ![]() |
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![]() Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 ![]() |
Yeah..you're right, I think the thought of an STD would override your embarrassment
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 ![]() |
i dont think it is your being safe .. Ya know what i mean !
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![]() i've never wanted anything rationale. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 ![]() |
a.its not illegal for you to be having sex before 17, it's illegal for someone over the age of 18 to be having sex...thats about it i think
and b. i think its hillllarious buying condoms, i love how embarassed the clerks get |
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![]() muted imperfections <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 ![]() |
the first time i had to buy was kinda embarassing. i mean i went to the self-checkout lane so i wouldnt have to give it to the cashier. but, it was embarassing to take it off the rack. =P not only was it embarassing but at the same time i felt shame cuz of that whole stigma or double standards about girls. some guys think that if a girl buys a box of condoms that they're like a whore. thats messed up right? anyways, i had to buy it cuz my ex was too lazy to buy.
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QUOTE(chii @ Feb 15 2005, 10:45 PM) i was poking around the boys locker room and someone said that buying condoms was embarassing... so, have any of you bought condoms and was it embarassing for you? i've bought them plenty of times...it was really embarassing the first time and it still kind of is but it's not really a big deal anymore. at least i'm being safe and getting some ![]() please don't give me one of those "you're too young to be having sex" speeches ![]() there is an age on having sex? |
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
never bought any..
but im sure the first time it will be embarassing. |
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![]() kriz ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,105 ![]() |
no u should be proud..it's like saying "hey u, i'm gettin laid tonight n ur not MWUHAHAH!" lol sry but tha's how i think
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![]() to be loved by someone you love is.. everything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 ![]() |
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 ![]() |
I haven't yet and I probably never will, but I think I'd be pretty embarrassed.
I say that because I'm even embarrassed when I buy regular things like gum and school supplies and CDs. I get nervous around people, so yeah. I'm just applying that logic to this situation. |
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![]() she doesn't even know ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 501 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,065 ![]() |
i'm only 14. Just 4 years to go.... hmph!
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
neither am i a sexually active either. anyways, i would be embarrass cause you might get caught from your friends and they might make fun of you. of course it's embarrassing. once your school hears that you buys condoms...oooo trouble will grow.
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![]() .:gossipgirl:. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 156 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,300 ![]() |
that's not embarrassing...
i mean, that's juz like buying chewing gums! juz pay and go! Love ya*muah |
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![]() i heart u ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,430 ![]() |
hmm, well i think i'd be embarrassed to buy one my first time (i'm 14 by the way). but ya, i dont think it should be that bad......i do think it's more of a guys' job...haha, but it's safe for the girl to carry one around, just incase.........
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 ![]() |
I'm only 14 soOo I wouldn't kno nething about buying condoms..but I don't think it's embarassing unless the cash register person is like how much for these large size box of condoms...on the announcer thingy!!...
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![]() when we speak, we breathe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 ![]() |
I've never really been embaressed buying condoms.
I think the only weird part, is at certain stores, they have them locked up (this k-mart near where i lived with my parents house did) and you have to find someone to open it, and it ends up being some old man doing it. You feel akward, if anything. Other than that, it's not so bad. Try buying a pregnancy test with your boyfriend, and not getting embaressed ;\ |
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![]() i've never wanted anything rationale. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 ![]() |
ugh im tired of all the people replying to this topic with this "omg i've never had sex so no, i have never been embaressed"
-well then get the f**k out! i make my boyfriend buy them now because as jackie mentioned DOUBLE STANDARDS! |
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![]() LiLaZnGurL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 ![]() |
umm well i shouldnt noe.. but i think it might b embarrassing for like da few first times ur buying dem
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![]() HAAAAAAAA. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 ![]() |
i think it's not embarrassing at all. i mean, most people gotta do the nasty once in a while, right? no big problemo.
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![]() when we speak, we breathe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 ![]() |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Mar 13 2005, 4:47 PM) No offense, but why the hell worry about what people think of you when you walk into a store, and quite possibly might never see them again? Screw them, they don't know you, and you don't need to change your lifestyle to please others, or whatever. So what if you're buying condoms and they think you're a whore, at least in their subconcious, they'll know you're a whore who won't get pregnant or stds (assuming the condoms are used.) |
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![]() Yea Yea. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 ![]() |
i haven't had sex yet but if i went to buy one i wud find it embarassing.
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![]() Its hard for me to tell you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 ![]() |
o.O I normally go to these places advertising safe sex once in awhile down town, you get free ones there and ya get flavoured too
![]() Me and my friend went there and got a pack of them. We were chewing them on the train home. Blueberry flavoured ![]() |
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QUOTE(InLove_x @ Apr 8 2005, 6:55 AM) Me and my friend went there and got a pack of them. We were chewing them on the train home. Blueberry flavoured Um. Ew. We were talking about this in chat yesterday. ![]() ![]() |
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haha, once you start you'll get used to it, at first its embarrassing but oh well. The store i buy mine said i was their favorite member, lmfaoo
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![]() theres no i in slut...but there is a u ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 ![]() |
Hey i would rather be embarrised then having sum bodys baby...
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![]() I can't believe its not "Ryan" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 ![]() |
i don't care i buy on a regular basis! give me your money Il do it for you.
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![]() Grrrrrrr ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 ![]() |
my friend andrew buys them and sells them with this dude jj. the drug store people think he is a 15 yr old sexual pervert
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![]() i need an sn change. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 ![]() |
One time me and my buddy were gona buy condoms but they kicked us out. cuz we didnt have a liscence to show our age or something? way to be gay
i think its embrassing to buy tampons at the store. and u have a guy ring it up for you :[ |
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