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post Feb 15 2005, 10:45 PM
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i was poking around the boys locker room and someone said that buying condoms was embarassing...

so, have any of you bought condoms and was it embarassing for you?


i've bought them plenty of times...it was really embarassing the first time and it still kind of is but it's not really a big deal anymore. at least i'm being safe and getting some happy.gif

please don't give me one of those "you're too young to be having sex" speeches yawn.gif , i live in new york city, the legal age to have sex is 17, i'll be 17 in a few weeks
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 10:46 PM
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i haven't...but a lot of my firends have before as a "joke"...i can see why it would be though..possibly running into someone you know i guess?
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 10:47 PM
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Should this be in the girls locker room? I've never bought any so I wouldn't know.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 10:48 PM
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yeah..since theres one in the boyus aksing guys if htey were embarrised.

moved to girls lockeroom
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 10:51 PM
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must said it pretty embrassing
it like they know you gonna have sex and tehy will look at u weirdly

but if u buy it for a good purpose and want to have save sex with some one u loove then embrassment won't be a problem.
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 11:21 PM
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i had never experience buying a condom...b/c i am only 13...but i find it embrassing...even if i don't know anybody in the store
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 11:47 PM
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Can you slip on condoms like banana peels??
Sorry... Random. sweating.gif

I haven't bought any condoms yet.. I'm too young to do the nasty... I'm only 13...
 
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post Feb 15 2005, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Feb 16 2005, 4:45 PM)
i was poking around the boys locker room and someone said that buying condoms was embarassing...

so, have any of you bought condoms and was it embarassing for you?
i've bought them plenty of times...it was really embarassing the first time and it still kind of is but it's not really a big deal anymore.  at least i'm being safe and getting some happy.gif

please don't give me one of those "you're too young to be having sex" speeches yawn.gif , i live in new york city, the legal age to have sex is 17, i'll be 17 in a few weeks

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QUOTE(aznhunnie6o1 @ Feb 15 2005, 11:47 PM)
Can you slip on condoms like banana peels??
Sorry... Random.  sweating.gif

I haven't bought any condoms yet.. I'm too young to do the nasty... I'm only 13...
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Haha. I actually did that in my health class. We slipped on a condom on a plastic banana.

But yeh, other than that, I think it would be pretty embarassing. Even if it was just a gag gift for a friend, I'd still be embarrassed about it. I mean, you shouldn't be because it shows people that you're responsible, but still...
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:05 AM
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Im only 13 so i wouldn't know. Plus i think it would be embarassing. Who knows maybe when im older and im actually doing the "nasty" lol i dont think it would be as embarassing.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:06 AM
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i never bought one but yeah, i would be embarrassed.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:07 AM
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hmm no i haven't but i wouldn't find it embarassing i don't think. *shrug*
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 04:05 AM
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I don't think it's embarassing at all.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 04:06 AM
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i don't buy condoms. but i guess it will be embarassing the first time.

// i always thought you were younger. =)
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 04:19 AM
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i never bought condoms before but i dont think it would be embarassing because theres nothing wrong with wanting to protect yourself
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 10:03 AM
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Umm...thats the guys job i think. I wouldnt be embarassed tho..bc what is the cashier going to say to you?
 
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not embrassing for me they give them out free at my school's health clinic
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 12:59 PM
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well, if it's too embarassing you can always order them online.
i don't buy condoms though. i'm a little 12 year old. mellow.gif
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 01:03 PM
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you dont necessarily have to get the from the store, most lub/pub bathrooms have condoms in;... bu ti spose theres the whole 'underage' think to contned with so nevermind... o just invalidated my whole post sigh
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 01:16 PM
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post Feb 16 2005, 01:29 PM
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nah, it isn't that embarrassing. I had a bad moment once though... one of my friends was working that day and he checked us out. GAWD that was horrible. But no, it's not. Just as long as no one sees you ;)
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 02:10 PM
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I havent, and dont plan to in a while. but I know a bunch of guys buy them....and they dont even need them lol
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 02:26 PM
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I have never had to buy one...I think I would be embarressed to!!
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 07:20 PM
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Premarital sex .. enough said.

I think the guys should be the ones carrying `em around. they're the ones putting them on. pinch.gif
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 07:23 PM
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post Feb 16 2005, 07:50 PM
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i'm 14 and never bought condoms... i think its nasty...
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 09:03 PM
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i wouldnt need one
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 11:06 PM
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It shouldn't be embarassing.

It should show pride; like you're showing that you like to be safe while doing it.

Yeah, something like that.

But I've never bought condoms.

Uggh, I'm only in seventh grade.

If I were to buy some I wouldn't feel embarassed.
 
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post Feb 16 2005, 11:35 PM
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well, i've only baught condoms once (and don't plan to again for a long time) but yeah.. it was really emberassing. i just looked like it was something normal and didn't make a big deal out of it. the cashier didn't seem to care. but, it's a plus for me cuz i look older than i really am so it's not like they thought some kid was just buying condoms. they probably thought someone around 16 or 17 was buying them.

i would expect guys to have pride in buying condoms. unless he baught like extra small or something like that. laugh.gif maybe that's why he was embaressed. but i doubt he'd admit that to other guys in the locker room.

but, at least in PA, there's no legal age for having sex. you can have sex at the age of two. i guess. lol. you can't have sex with someone 18 or over if you're under 18 and you (obviously) can't rape anyone. but if it's all fair sex and both people are in agreement, it's not illegal.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 04:02 PM
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I dont buy them, I get them from my friends (I mean I could but I dont use condoms..its because i dont have sex so yah no worries)
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 04:08 PM
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QUOTE(angelshortipnai @ Feb 16 2005, 5:50 PM)
i'm 14 and never bought condoms... i think its nasty...
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You know what's nastier? An STD. Shouldn't be ashamed of buying them, mostly everyone is going to have sex in their life sooner or later.
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 05:26 PM
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Yeah..you're right, I think the thought of an STD would override your embarrassment
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 05:37 PM
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i dont think it is your being safe .. Ya know what i mean !
 
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post Feb 17 2005, 09:09 PM
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a.its not illegal for you to be having sex before 17, it's illegal for someone over the age of 18 to be having sex...thats about it i think

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b. i think its hillllarious buying condoms, i love how embarassed the clerks get
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 07:44 AM
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the first time i had to buy was kinda embarassing. i mean i went to the self-checkout lane so i wouldnt have to give it to the cashier. but, it was embarassing to take it off the rack. =P not only was it embarassing but at the same time i felt shame cuz of that whole stigma or double standards about girls. some guys think that if a girl buys a box of condoms that they're like a whore. thats messed up right? anyways, i had to buy it cuz my ex was too lazy to buy.

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QUOTE(chii @ Feb 15 2005, 10:45 PM)
i was poking around the boys locker room and someone said that buying condoms was embarassing...

so, have any of you bought condoms and was it embarassing for you?
i've bought them plenty of times...it was really embarassing the first time and it still kind of is but it's not really a big deal anymore.  at least i'm being safe and getting some happy.gif

please don't give me one of those "you're too young to be having sex" speeches yawn.gif , i live in new york city, the legal age to have sex is 17, i'll be 17 in a few weeks

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there is an age on having sex?
 
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post Feb 18 2005, 08:46 AM
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never bought any..


but im sure the first time it will be embarassing.
 
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no u should be proud..it's like saying "hey u, i'm gettin laid tonight n ur not MWUHAHAH!" lol sry but tha's how i think
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 06:12 PM
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QUOTE(RandomHero @ Feb 15 2005, 10:47 PM)
Should this be in the girls locker room? I've never bought any so I wouldn't know.
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same
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 07:48 PM
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I haven't yet and I probably never will, but I think I'd be pretty embarrassed.
I say that because I'm even embarrassed when I buy regular things like gum and school supplies and CDs. I get nervous around people, so yeah. I'm just applying that logic to this situation.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 07:52 PM
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i'm only 14. Just 4 years to go.... hmph!
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 01:46 AM
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neither am i a sexually active either. anyways, i would be embarrass cause you might get caught from your friends and they might make fun of you. of course it's embarrassing. once your school hears that you buys condoms...oooo trouble will grow.
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 02:23 AM
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that's not embarrassing...
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that's juz like
buying chewing gums!
juz pay and go!
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post Mar 13 2005, 01:45 PM
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hmm, well i think i'd be embarrassed to buy one my first time (i'm 14 by the way). but ya, i dont think it should be that bad......i do think it's more of a guys' job...haha, but it's safe for the girl to carry one around, just incase.........
 
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I'm only 14 soOo I wouldn't kno nething about buying condoms..but I don't think it's embarassing unless the cash register person is like how much for these large size box of condoms...on the announcer thingy!!... _unsure.gif
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 04:23 PM
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I've never really been embaressed buying condoms.

I think the only weird part, is at certain stores, they have them locked up (this k-mart near where i lived with my parents house did) and you have to find someone to open it, and it ends up being some old man doing it. You feel akward, if anything.

Other than that, it's not so bad. Try buying a pregnancy test with your boyfriend, and not getting embaressed ;\
 
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ugh im tired of all the people replying to this topic with this "omg i've never had sex so no, i have never been embaressed"
-well then get the f**k out!


i make my boyfriend buy them now because as jackie mentioned DOUBLE STANDARDS!
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 06:15 PM
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umm well i shouldnt noe.. but i think it might b embarrassing for like da few first times ur buying dem
 
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i think it's not embarrassing at all. i mean, most people gotta do the nasty once in a while, right? no big problemo.
 
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QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Mar 13 2005, 4:47 PM)
i make my boyfriend buy them now because as jackie mentioned DOUBLE STANDARDS!
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No offense, but why the hell worry about what people think of you when you walk into a store, and quite possibly might never see them again? Screw them, they don't know you, and you don't need to change your lifestyle to please others, or whatever.

So what if you're buying condoms and they think you're a whore, at least in their subconcious, they'll know you're a whore who won't get pregnant or stds (assuming the condoms are used.)
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 07:12 PM
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i haven't had sex yet but if i went to buy one i wud find it embarassing.
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 08:55 AM
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o.O I normally go to these places advertising safe sex once in awhile down town, you get free ones there and ya get flavoured too cool.gif

Me and my friend went there and got a pack of them. We were chewing them on the train home. Blueberry flavoured shifty.gif Yummy.
 
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Me and my friend went there and got a pack of them. We were chewing them on the train home. Blueberry flavoured  shifty.gif Yummy.
Um. Ew. We were talking about this in chat yesterday. mellow.gif How coincidental.
 
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haha, once you start you'll get used to it, at first its embarrassing but oh well. The store i buy mine said i was their favorite member, lmfaoo
 
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Hey i would rather be embarrised then having sum bodys baby... blink.gif
 
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i don't care i buy on a regular basis! give me your money Il do it for you.
 
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post Apr 8 2005, 05:14 PM
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my friend andrew buys them and sells them with this dude jj. the drug store people think he is a 15 yr old sexual pervert
 
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One time me and my buddy were gona buy condoms but they kicked us out. cuz we didnt have a liscence to show our age or something? way to be gay

i think its embrassing to buy tampons at the store. and u have a guy ring it up for you :[
 

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