does it bothers you? -_-;; |
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does it bothers you? -_-;; |
Feb 15 2005, 09:16 AM
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i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Does it bothers/annoys you when people comes up to you and they say "You're so pretty!" or "You're so handsome" or "You look like Britney Spears" or "You look like BoA" or "You're sooooooooo nice!" or "You have a very nice smile"
For me, yes... because then I act differently. I don't like it. I don't like when I act differently that I felt like it's not me at all. I don't know I just feel uncomfortable? But I say that to my friends haha... but when they say that to me, I'm like loud to quiet haha. How about you? . . |
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 15 2005, 09:21 AM
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not really...whenever i get complimented, i find it flattering.
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Feb 15 2005, 02:58 PM
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![]() What the fack. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
If it's someone I know, then I guess I don't mind.
But I am kind of uncomfortable even with my friends sometimes. If it were someone I didn't know.. I'd be all, "Err...double you tee eff??" |
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| *Kathleen* |
Feb 15 2005, 03:02 PM
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I never act fake, so I guess I wouldn't feel that way. Meh. People don't say things like that to me, anyways.
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Feb 15 2005, 03:28 PM
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![]() ferrero rocher<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,255 |
i find it flattering, too. i find it kinda healthy for me because i have a very low-self esteem so it balances myself. not that im cocky about it .. but its nice to know someone thinks your pretty & what not. idk what im talking about ..
* whee, your my 200th post. |
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Feb 15 2005, 03:33 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I just say thanks and take it as a compliment. I won't change the way I act of anything, because whether their opinion is a positive or negative thing about me is their thoughts about me, and if they don't like it...too bad!
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Feb 15 2005, 03:56 PM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
It doesnt bother me. It only bothers me if they are like *wow your hot..Wanna come home with me* and they are like 30 years old...*shivers*
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| *tweeak* |
Feb 15 2005, 04:00 PM
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your grammar (or lack there of) bothers me
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Feb 15 2005, 04:19 PM
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
I find it rather flattering....I like getting complimented...it makes me feel better about myself.
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Feb 15 2005, 04:29 PM
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~*Pretty Girls Make Graves*~ ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 93,989 |
I would get excited if someone complimented me..i love getting compliments!! It makes me feel good about myself! Last night at work some little girl told me I was pretty and I was happy lol!!
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Feb 15 2005, 04:30 PM
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![]() Class of 2005!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
I wish! I never get complimented. I guess it's because I'm not pretty or anything......
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Feb 15 2005, 04:40 PM
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![]() *aSh* =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
I also find it flattering when people compliment me
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Feb 15 2005, 04:51 PM
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FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
Not really, it actually makes me feel good about myself. lol. its a compliment!
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Feb 15 2005, 05:07 PM
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Yeah...
I don't know what to say when poeple give me compliments... I'm just weird like that, haha |
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Feb 15 2005, 07:40 PM
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![]() happy unbirthday to you! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,752 |
No, that would make me happy
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Feb 15 2005, 07:41 PM
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i love it! i wish people would flatter me like that
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Feb 15 2005, 07:47 PM
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depends on the compilment...will if it's good i love it.....if it's like you look like....a cute puuppy then no..
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Feb 15 2005, 08:14 PM
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
ehh.no.
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Feb 15 2005, 08:16 PM
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I'm shy towards compliments. I kind of turn away from the complimentor.. but not in a rude way but in a way shy way.
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Feb 15 2005, 08:16 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I agree with stephinika's comment.
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Feb 15 2005, 08:24 PM
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No.. I'd be like, "Whoa, seriously? Uhm thanks.
Yes, : m e l l o w :. |
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Feb 15 2005, 08:34 PM
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Um. No.. I rarely get complimented like that.
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Feb 15 2005, 08:39 PM
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![]() Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
I don't like getting complimented becuase most of the time it is just people making a joke.
For example, if I am on the bus, and some guy..errr, Jamie, goes up to me. "Hey Ginny. You're lookin hot today" *licks lips*. That is the kinds of compliments I get. And then everyone laughs. Damn you preps. DAMN YOU I SAY! |
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Feb 15 2005, 08:41 PM
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(TreesTurnMeOn @ Feb 15 2005, 8:39 PM) I don't like getting complimented becuase most of the time it is just people making a joke. For example, if I am on the bus, and some guy..errr, Jamie, goes up to me. "Hey Ginny. You're lookin hot today" *licks lips*. That is the kinds of compliments I get. And then everyone laughs. Damn you preps. DAMN YOU I SAY! Oh, that's SOOO true. I remember this one time, this really hot guy came up to me and called me pretty. His friends started laughing. Then I heard them talking about me and that it was a joke... |
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Feb 15 2005, 08:43 PM
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![]() whatever d00de ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
it's annoying for me when i hear it more than 5 times on that same day, but people don't usually compliment me.
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Feb 15 2005, 08:43 PM
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![]() Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Feb 15 2005, 8:41 PM) Oh, that's SOOO true. I remember this one time, this really hot guy came up to me and called me pretty. His friends started laughing. Then I heard them talking about me and that it was a joke... Oh man. That is so irritating. >.< I think you are beautiful! And I no laughy |
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| *salcha* |
Feb 15 2005, 08:53 PM
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it makes me feel better, so no, I don't find it uncomfortable.
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Feb 15 2005, 09:04 PM
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![]() ranDUMB ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 757 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,833 |
It makes me feel special when they give me compliments like that
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Feb 15 2005, 11:50 PM
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I think that it does kinda annoys you sometimes...
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Feb 15 2005, 11:54 PM
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I dont think its annoying but i turn really red from the face
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Feb 16 2005, 12:01 AM
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![]() none of it seems real ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I just say "thank you" and then I move on with my life.. it doesn't bother me.
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Feb 16 2005, 12:10 AM
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Yes, i find that very annoying and irritating but i think they dont mean it in a " rude " way unless they said something unpleasant. Most of the time, people said " your gay " but i'm not. i hardly have people giving me comments about me. When they said something nice, it make me feel different but it's sometime a good feeling " like" i deserve it ... blaHH I DUNNO
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Feb 16 2005, 12:21 AM
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![]() High Voltage!∞ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Actually I've never really gotten complimented....except for my parents' friends...then I smile and say thank you...
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Feb 16 2005, 12:51 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
if i get complemented then ill be happy it wont annoy/brother me really ..
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Feb 16 2005, 01:29 AM
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QUOTE(angel-roh @ Feb 15 2005, 6:16 AM) Does it bothers/annoys you when people comes up to you and they say "You're so pretty!" or "You're so handsome" or "You look like Britney Spears" or "You look like BoA" or "You're sooooooooo nice!" or "You have a very nice smile" For me, yes... because then I act differently. I don't like it. I don't like when I act differently that I felt like it's not me at all. I don't know I just feel uncomfortable? But I say that to my friends haha... but when they say that to me, I'm like loud to quiet haha. How about you? . . i just dislike it when people go, "oh you look like jessica!" cuz i know i don't.. >.> or htey go, "oh your so pretty/cute" ya know. it's pissing. it makes me go all weird.. and just wanna run OUT. far. far. far. AWAY. |
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Feb 16 2005, 01:54 AM
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Yeah, it sorta does.
My friends tell me I'm pretty and then I just reply," Uh..No i'm not." And that leads to an argument. I give in though when my boyfriend tells me I'm pretty. I know he's not lying or just trying to make me feel better. |
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Feb 16 2005, 02:40 AM
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![]() t a c o s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
I KNOWWWW what you mean
haha i kinda disrupts whatever i'm doin when someone pays me a compliment cuz I'm like aww man.. why'd they say that? cuz i don't feel the same way usually but when they compliment my hair i turn all red and go TEEHEEHEE!!! |
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| *Azarel* |
Feb 16 2005, 02:41 AM
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QUOTE(hair products @ Feb 15 2005, 11:40 PM) but when they compliment my hair i turn all red and go TEEHEEHEE!!! Your hair is awesome, Cliff!Are you red and going "TEEHEEHEE!!!" ? Take a picture. |
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Feb 16 2005, 03:08 AM
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![]() Hi! I'm Dani :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
uhh i just find it flattering
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Feb 16 2005, 04:46 AM
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i like compliments (:
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Feb 16 2005, 07:28 AM
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Afflicted: Hurt. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 |
:shrugs: I wouldn't know. I guess it would, if it happened? but, then you know- it would boost up some self-confidence.
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Feb 16 2005, 10:27 AM
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If only... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
no, its a compliment.
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Feb 16 2005, 01:07 PM
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id love it if someone found me attractive...
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Feb 16 2005, 01:37 PM
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It's alright to a certain point. It get's annoying after a while if they keep insisting on it...
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Feb 16 2005, 03:34 PM
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its always nice. I like it, as long as it isn't like "hey sexy" by some guy. I can't think of the word for it but yeah.
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Feb 16 2005, 10:30 PM
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Feb 16 2005, 10:32 PM
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
nah, not really. if they tell me that, i might act a LITTLE differently because i know that someone notices a specific thing about me but i like it!
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Feb 16 2005, 10:47 PM
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well, it matters how they say it, you can tell if there saying it just to be nice and you just feel like hitting them >_>
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Feb 16 2005, 10:49 PM
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![]() cameraman swing the focus! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
yes it does bother me on the outside, but deep inside it makes me feel that i'm not as ugly as i think.
i'd rather be modest than boast about it. |
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Feb 16 2005, 11:45 PM
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I just smile and say thank you and carry on with whatever I was doing.
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Feb 17 2005, 06:13 PM
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i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 15 2005, 12:56 PM) It doesnt bother me. It only bothers me if they are like *wow your hot..Wanna come home with me* and they are like 30 years old...*shivers* LOL that sounds so scary >.<;;;; I would be totally disgusted if I hear that from a old guy like that... especially a 60 year old man *shudders* |
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Feb 18 2005, 02:48 PM
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I also find it flattering, but at the same time I don't know anyone that I personally know that tells me that i look like anyone. I rarely get compliments like that.
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Feb 18 2005, 02:49 PM
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![]() x___aka K0K0 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,266 |
I love getting complimented
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Feb 18 2005, 02:49 PM
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![]() ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
No i love the compliments. mwauuuh
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Feb 18 2005, 03:37 PM
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I actually like being commented...
I am happy whether its good or bad... |
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Feb 18 2005, 03:38 PM
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![]() wouldn't it be rad to be a penguin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,826 |
when someone ever says something nice about me i just stare at them for a second because i'm startled and then i just say thanks and i feel alittle bit better about myself...
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Feb 18 2005, 06:32 PM
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![]() No Nose =[ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,291 |
Hmm it's fine with me, weirds me out sometimes. A lot always say I look like Katie Holmes. >.>
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Feb 18 2005, 06:34 PM
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![]() she doesn't even know ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 501 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,065 |
when they act all sarcastic on me. yes.
but if they're like cool and stuff. why yes. |
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Feb 18 2005, 07:18 PM
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![]() Mrs. Darcy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 459 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,014 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Feb 15 2005, 5:41 PM) Oh, that's SOOO true. I remember this one time, this really hot guy came up to me and called me pretty. His friends started laughing. Then I heard them talking about me and that it was a joke... wow, that's so f*ckin rude! what bastards.. i'd be flattered and probably blush. my cheeks are red 70% of my presence in public. lol. |
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