stupid breakups Options

[Nicolatofu]

Well if you've had a boyfriend/girlfriend, you may've gone through a silly line used by your ex telling why he/she wants to break up with you. I haven't gone through those reasons, but I've always been the one to break up with them...... So, have you ever used/been broken up with a stupid excuse?

I haven't seen another topic like this....if so, my apologies!

[misoshiru]

well, i've never dated but i've heard some stupid ones like this, or situations, at my school, this is what happens....

people break up because we have too much work to do, grades to keep up, and clubs that we're involved in. to get into their dream schools, they therefore sacrifice their relationships.

[Wishful_Dream]

i have never dated =x i mean.. for real dating.. =p but then, the most idiotic excuse i ever heard was, "i'm sorry, but I have to break up with you because none of my friends like you." =/ it was so stupid, i felt so angry for my friend because some idiot said that to her. =/

[Dark_Juliet]

Last year my boyfriend left me the day after Valentines Day-after he got what he wanted from me, if you know what i mean-because his ex-girlfriend, who i found out that he was 'hanging out' behind my back (and lying to me so he could 'hang' with her) was receiving prank phone calls and he thought i was making them. My ex did things solely for other people's approval, and he figured that from his ex at the time's point of view, dumping me for supposedly prank calling her would make him look really good in her eyes, like her knight in shining armor. So, for lack of a better excuse to leave me, he blamed the prank phone calls on me and broke up with me.

[*stephinika*]

hmm not really for a stupid reason but he kinda lied...he said he just wanted to be friends meanwhile he had started a new crush on this other chick.

[*Programmer*]

haha...well let me just say....back in highschool my relationships didn't last for more then 3 weeks.....just the way things are in high school...you think you see somthing in that person that you like..but then you find out...that it wasn't all you thought it was...or there were more annoying things then good things about the person...and most of the time you hear these stupied quotes....so they can get out of it "maybe would should just be friends", "it's not you it's me", "i need some space", "i need time to think about us", "im not sure what i want right now", "my grades are falling i need more time to study", now that im older....and a junior in college my relationships last a long time...it's a "highschool" phase....when you get to college you'll see a major difference...i promise you...oh if you wanna hear the line i did to break up with my gf...just reccently...this is a new one "i really really really like you but until you can trust me i don't think we can keep seeing each other"...so yeah.... currently i am single

[rememberme]

"Guys are complicated, and females are complex... we don't mix"

[Nicolatofu]

Last year my boyfriend left me the day after Valentines Day-after he got what he wanted from me, if you know what i mean-because his ex-girlfriend, who i found out that he was 'hanging out' behind my back (and lying to me so he could 'hang' with her) was receiving prank phone calls and he thought i was making them. My ex did things solely for other people's approval, and he figured that from his ex at the time's point of view, dumping me for supposedly prank calling her would make him look really good in her eyes, like her knight in shining armor. So, for lack of a better excuse to leave me, he blamed the prank phone calls on me and broke up with me.

Oh my god how stupid! I'd be ready to kill him!

[_sarcastic_]

i've never gotten dumped before caz i'm still in my first relationship anyways,

i've heard stuff like this guy told my bestfriend he couldn't go out with her anymore caz 'his mom won't let him' and there was another one that said 'you're too good for me so i'll have to give you up'

[mysticalazxn]

it so common to break up.
but i surely hate to be the one that have to get the break up.

[unfortunatekiwi]

i told my boyfriend 2 days again that i liked him better when we were friends and it feels too awkward to go out.

he was fine with it and all. it was true though

[alienchik]

i havent broken up with anyone, the ones that i have heard were

" Im sorry but I have to much going on right now like grades and stuff"
" You and me were never meant to be but as friends we were meant to be"

my friend uses the second one alot more. I think it is sort of messed because she will be with someone for a while and then dump him because she is tired of him.

[Baku]

ha... alright this was a dumb one ... k my ex wears these dumb cat ear head band like 24/7 iwould be supprised that she gets them stapled to her head, so anyways i went to a play rehersal and i knew a bunch of people in that class and like no one knew her so i hung out with them and was like being stupid and the next day she broke up with me and said i was being immature... i was like mmm ok...

[lovescream]

I broke up with my boyfriend because he was annoying. Is that stupid?.. or no?

[ix3branden]

Well, the summer after 8th grade I was dating this person for like the 7th time.. and he told me he wanted to break up because someone dared him too.. I think that's pretty dumb. Oh well that was like 2 years ago, n' I'm with someone A LOT better now!! <33

[Nicolatofu]

I broke up with my boyfriend because he was annoying. Is that stupid?.. or no?

haha i don't think so....I've done that! It's quite a good reason if you ask me..

[xj_liana_tx]

i've heard one where my friend's bf broke up with her because he said that he was not ready after they went out for 8 months.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I didn't have any stupid breakups....well sorta.

My ex and I have been going out for ALMOST two months. (Three more days) and he said I was too young for him. And that everything sucked in the relationship because my mom didn't allow any guys to talk to me, so he couldn't call. I warned him about how it was going to be, and he's like yeah I know. It doesn't matter. But yeah..he dumped me from that. *shrugs*

[largosama]

"I'm going out with someone else"

oh the pain it caused me

[silver-rain]

Eh, my first boyfriend dumped me because he liked flirting with other girls and even though he liked me, he felt like he didn't want a girlfriend at that moment...

[Chii]

my last ex is such a bastard...he broke up with me because "we don't have anything in common" which really translated to "you don't play handball" because i asked him what we didn't have in common and that's all he came up with younger guys are so immature

i think the real reason he went out with me was because his other close friends really liked me and he probably wanted to see if he was the one who got me...i didn't think of this until after we broke up that c*ck sucker

[LittleLulu]

not personally.... but this guy i knoe... broke up with his gf over the summer to PLAY BASKET BALL... like wtf??? right.?n then when school started they got back together.>.< shoo gay

[bad_girl]

not personally.... but this guy i knoe... broke up with his gf over the summer to PLAY BASKET BALL... like wtf??? right.?n then when school started they got back together.>.< shoo gay

that really sucks. nope, no experience. im the "dumper"

[EmmalieV]

well he said he was going to boston but never did go..

but this was a longg time ago.. my last ex excuse was pretty reasonable.

[BOAmusics]

i alway afraid of break up
or reject!

[lilphoenix]

Uhh... I've stayed single for a while.

1. Break-ups aren't fun.
2. Lack of choice.
3. They lie, they cheat, and they steal.

But I seen enough to know.

[177emories]

i ex said i was too good for him lol

[lilJdawg]

Nahh. i just tell them straight up.

[SimplicityGirl]

My ex broke up with me along the lines of:

"I asked you out not because I liked you, but because I knew how much you liked me so I decided to be nice and asked you out. My friends knew that we couldn't last...so they told me to break it up with you. We're just too different for each other. Sorry. Go find another guy and don't cry over me. Goodbye"

[xSiLLyMex]

I didn't have any stupid breakups....well sorta.

My ex and I have been going out for ALMOST two months. (Three more days) and he said I was too young for him. And that everything sucked in the relationship because my mom didn't allow any guys to talk to me, so he couldn't call. I warned him about how it was going to be, and he's like yeah I know. It doesn't matter. But yeah..he dumped me from that. *shrugs*

Oo..Mines is almost the same as urs. Cept I broke up with my bf cuz I was having a hard time in Math. Nd I never got to c him, since hes in H.S nd my parents never let me go newhere. Also, cuz I realized I didnt like having a bf..nd plus..I felt bad. I wanted him to have a gf dat he could always c nd other stuff. I've never been dumpd.

[to-devastate]

I never had a boyfriend.. but i hear "i think it's better off that we're friends" alot.

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

liek to reject someone i said sonmething liek, "uh your like my brother and going out with my brother is wrong" but i feel retarded cause wen i broke up wiht a guy i told him that i wasn't ready for a bf then i went out wiht someone the next day lol i'm retarded

[ItzOnlySydney]

yea this is what happened. he broke up w/ my fiend for me and he dumped me to take her back and he said "you deserve better" when i knew he just wanted her back. that hurt b\t i never cried one tear.

[*Weird addiction*]

The worst ive used is "i dont like you anymore" which is the truth
The worse someone has said to me is "you are too young" grr he's 30 and im 16

[AngelTears]

well, i've never dated but i've heard some stupid ones like this, or situations, at my school, this is what happens....

people break up because we have too much work to do, grades to keep up, and clubs that we're involved in.  to get into their dream schools, they therefore sacrifice their relationships.

*nod* Yeah I find that a stupid reason as well..

No I've never had a relationship before so I've never gotten a stupid reason to break up.

Im pretty sure (and this is obviouse) that when people say stupid crap to break up that honestly its just an excuse to get AWAY from the other person.

[sammi rules you]

The worst ive used is "i dont like you anymore" which is the truth
The worse someone has said to me is "you are too young" grr he's 30 and im 16 

.....


no stupid ones, just lies.

[illuminessence]

I know one friend of mine who was broken up with. Her ex's excuse was something involving the cops and how he doesn't wanna get her involved. Funny thing is later during that day, he was caught with a new girlfriend. Mmmhmm...

[lilshelil]

i havent broken up with anyone, the ones that i have heard were

" Im sorry but I have to much going on right now like grades and stuff"
" You and me were never meant to be but as friends we were meant to be"

my friend uses the second one alot more. I think it is sort of messed because she will be with someone for a while and then dump him because she is tired of him.

HAHA those are just complete classics the school and friends what about the one where they go " i dont want to ruin the friendship" even tho thay've been going out?
My friend, shes a pretty skinny girl. And her boyfriend broke up w. her bc she was "too skinny" and she wasnt that skinny like she was anorexic nor can u c bones or any thing. they went out for a year! lol

[Eryi]

nope..

[sexii_baobeii]

yes. my ex said "cuz u called me a jerk". wtf?!

[aznhunnie6o1]

One of the ex's that broke up with me said "I think we we're better as friends" and then the next day he like... ignores me. It went on like that for about a month.

My recent ex broke up with me because he didn't like how I liked to send people karma [revenge] and because he was jealous of how I flirted with this one guy. YET he let girls hit on him ALL the time without telling them to stop. Psh. Turd.

[ex_multini]

i broke up with my ex with the most stupid reason (i believe)
we are having long distance relationship. i really love her. just that i think she deserves better so i let go of her. within 1 month, she's already with another guy.

[ex_multini]

i ex said i was too good for him lol

woa, is that u in the pic on ur signiture?
i can understand why

[spacewicket]

Ive heard...Im not in love with you anymore...which means theres another guy around the corner waiting for her to tell me so they can start doing whatever they want to do so they dont feel like they're going behind my back.

[daintyme]

my ex and i never had classes together, but we would pass each other's way when we're getting to our next class, so we'd pass ntoes. the night before he broke up with me, his best friend called me and warned me that my ex was going to break up with me and suggested that i break up with him first. i said i couldn't and i also didn't think he would. so the next day i write this note covered with "i love you"'s and handed it to him and he handed a note to me too. i opened his note in class and it was a break up note saying, "i think we should be friends".

afterwards he called and we talked for a while and when i said i had to go, he said, "i feel bad about this, want me to hook you up with someone else?" i hung up.


i was such an idiot for going out with him. ugh.

[xBEBE]

my ex broke up with me on my first relationship because he thought that we weren't a great couple. =\