grudges from 8th grade Options

[sweetdreamsx3]

I'm now a junior. Over the years because of one little incident, I've become really violent, defensive, and mean because of this one girl. The only bad things I've done are stab someone. [[With a pencil]] on accident. Anyway, the point is...

I got findapix today. Just for the hell of it. This girl who changes me in so many ways to a nice, sweet girl to a mean violent b1tch gave me a "shoutout" in my shoutbox. Thing is ...things still aren't settled.

What's the problem to begin with?
Some shit about "You stole my font color" that my friend started on AIM. It was really stupid, but I was in a bad mood, so I just cussed her out. Friend got pissed. Friend went to the girl. Girl wanted to kick my ass. Thing is..she never showed up.

Anyway, so.. 3 years pass by and she found me..somehow? *shrugs* So yeah...And I'm not the type of person that's just going to sit there and let things go the way she wants it to. Most of my friends at my school know her also. They're all friends. We're all friends. It's all this big ass drama shit. And personally..if you know her, she's like a thug. A gangsta. Whatever you want to call it. She hangs out with people who smoke, who drinks, and gangs...so yeah. Iono what to do..

Help cb people? This is some really stupid shit, but I'm..lost. And I'm seriously going to break down and cry soon.

[StephyLayouts]

i just looked up findapix, and it doesn't seem like it gives out too much information. If she doesn't know anything about you really, only like online info, then I think you're fine.

The friend who told the scary girl... Do you still keep contact with that friend? If so, you might want to tell her your situation.

Sorry I'm not much help...

[sweetdreamsx3]

I've know her since middle school..She knows quite a lot about me. And yes, I do keep in contact with her..but we're not exactly like "buddy buddy". And if I tell her my situation, it's going to make it worse because then she'll tell the "scary girl". Who knows what she's going to do next since things haven't been settled yet.

[Skyline Drive]

I think you should just ignore her little shoutout and forget about this 8th grade grudge.

[sweetdreamsx3]

But what if she comes to my school and starts doing shit? I mean, teachers will be there, but if she comes in the morning morning, they aren't exactly there yet.

And if I actually do kick her ass, her friends are going to drop by my house and so some shit.

[demolished]

^
report this situation to the police station and school princible.


yea, i was a nice, quiet, normal, and alot-patient person .. then i turn into a mean, depress, temper, evil, and an abusive person.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Wouldn't that be even worse since she can do a drive-by shooting to my house? I honeslty, don't know what to do. I wish my friend can handle her own shit instead of having to drag other people into it. I swear she just wants me dead.

[Shattered_Hope]

why don't you tell her that you've moved on a long time ago and you don't know what she's talking about? Or just tell them what you told us..it all started becuz of some stupid misunderstanding and that you regret cussing that girl out?

[demolished]

sweetdreamsx3 Posted Feb 13 2005, 8:17 PM
Wouldn't that be even worse since she can do a drive-by shooting to my house? I honeslty, don't know what to do. I wish my friend can handle her own shit instead of having to drag other people into it. I swear she just wants me dead.

how many family members are in your house ? if there is three, then there is a chance that your family will be safe. She will be arrested if she damage your house so ... SHE WILL NEVER EVER SEE YOU EVER AGAIN !

[sweetdreamsx3]

Sorry, but I don't regret it because she started something stupid. And the girl isn't that type of person that just "moves on". She wants drama. So pretty much if I kick her ass, it still won't be over.

We have four members. And in Houston..it literally takes the police about 30 minutes to an 1 hour just to come by.

[demolished]

^
dam, is she that bad ? Your ex-friend realli need help from someone. I think you should contact to your princible to do something about it.

[sweetdreamsx3]

My principal won't do shit. She goes to a different school, but she has a lot of connections. Yes, she's that bad. Her friends are even worse. Yeah, maybe I shouldn't have cussed out my friend, but seriously. Some people need to handle their own shit.

Dustin: sometimes u just gotta grit ur teeth and do things u don't wanna do
Dustin: u don't wanna lose the battle, i can understand
Dustin: but still..
Dustin: i think its better to just bullshit ur way outta this
Dustin: and also talk to her sisters
Dustin: talk to her parents or her sisters or w/e
Dustin: people who can actually control her

God..he just always knows what to say.

[yukichan]

the font thing happened to me before..the girls said im a copy cat and stuff and she still holds the grudge aainst me..
you should get a restraining order against that girl...im not sure what else u can do...

[StephyLayouts]

... Maybe go to school after the teachers get to school??? Or hang out in a group???

EDIT //GAHHHHH! Extremely late post...

Sorry

[pinayprincess]

ahh thaz kool, ive gone thru tha same thing... had a fite ..fite fite w/ a good friend [[now]] nd ever since ive been soo defensive nd bitchy

[bad_girl]

i'd say try not to let her bother u. avoid her. dont go to places u know she'll be at. get a new group to hang out with, not ones that are friends with someone who kinda *bulllies* u.

im having a fight with this "friend" of mine since like september 'cos she accused me of like.. stealing her "xanga song" bitch. we got to a point where i had to go to "guidance" (yeah.. i know, that was stupid) but.. she was bothering me THAT much. yeah, that much. oh god, now i just kinda ignore her and leave her little "gang". ohmygod, i feel so much better away from them.

[love-issosweet]

^ what they all said...
Make new GROUPS of friends and they'll probably defend you, right?

[dahding]

My principal won't do shit. She goes to a different school, but she has a lot of connections. Yes, she's that bad. Her friends are even worse. Yeah, maybe I shouldn't have cussed out my friend, but seriously. Some people need to handle their own shit.
God..he just always knows what to say.

seriously. better bs ur way thru this and live to tell the tale when u kick back and relax than getting shot by some drive by gang or what not. u do what u gotta do sometimes. whether u like or it not. grit ur teeth, fake a smile, and do what u got to do. hope it all works out for u. be careful. don't want u getting hurt.

[whomps]

What'd she say in your shoutout? Damn what an immature little bxtch, FONT color on AIM? Wtfffffffff..

That's stupid. That "friend" that started all that shit.. are you guys still friends?

You know, if you really don't want shit to happen as in.. drive-by shootings at your house and fights that start at the morning of school or something, you should just stop uh.. all contact with her.
As in.. don't reply to her shoutouts. Let her say all she wants, then block anyone on AIM that's not on your buddylist and pretend you never heard/knew that you guys were suppose to fight.

[sweetdreamsx3]

She doesn't go to my school. (Thank God) and I don't really hang out with her crowd. I'm cool with her crowd. They don't bully me. It's just her and her talk. And her gangs. *shrugs*

And yeah, the friend who started all this is still my friend. We're more of acquaintances though...the way I think of it anyway.

Thanks for the advice bad_girl, Eve, Dustin, and everyone else. I'm kinda calm right now because I'm just thinking of someone, but my ex bf is also kind of overprotective of me, so yeah...Nothing has happened today yet and she hasn't said anymore shit.

[*stephinika*]

^^
well thats good...but yeah i agree with what the others said, try not to let it get to you and don't talk to her really because she doesn't sound like such a great person to be around and whatnot.

[maybeso]

Wow.. all that over a font color o.o! Wow... I don't know... Hm.. I'm not sure if it's only online or what.. Maybe you should like stick close to your friends and TALK it out with people.. no violence

[xj_liana_tx]

omg wtf??? report it, why don't your friends call it off?? i mean, you guys are still friends right?? i hate those B*TCHES

[sweetdreamsx3]

omg wtf??? report it, why don't your friends call it off?? i mean, you guys are still friends right?? i hate those B*TCHES

Exactly. Dumbest shit you ever heard in your life huh? People these days. Gosh. And nothing has been done yet. She hasn't came to my school or none of that crap, so I'm not too worried about it...And my friend calling it off..I don't even want to mention it to her because then she'll tell the girl and who knows what's going to happen then. Yeah, we're still friends. It's just ...I don't want anything going wrong. Thanks ALL for commenting though. :D

[sweetdreamsx3]

I don't mean to doublepost... Warn me if you want. Take me off official member if you want. I have more drama to worry about.

but I have to bump this up. New drama again. God damn. Why can't she jsut f**king forget about this shit? It's over.

If anyone wants to read what she put in my shoutbox again, PM me. I don't want to post the link out.

If I ever die, I love you all VERY much.

[dahding]

^if ur on aim, i'm talking to u. NOW.

[lilphoenix]

Ha...

B*tches like that who hang with 'thugs & gangstas' are just sluts.

I swear, I have the same freaking problem.

Thing is... no one stands up to me.
They stand up, then they get knocked down.

[edit]
Lemme restate my reply:
[Radio-edit, get the idea?]

[Litobabygurl88]

I already talked to you on AIM about this, but forget her stupid immature ass. She needs to grow up and you need to quick worrying about stuff like this. She hasn't even said anything to your face yet, so quit worrying.

[dahding]

linda, remember, she's writing cheap generic disses to u through a shoutbox that u just started. o no, i'm really scared now. come on, she doesn't even have the guys to diss u or start some shit in person. and about what? an old grudge about a font that was started a long time ago? come on. she's a douche. who cares about her. she's not gonna do anything. doesn't have the guts or the brains to actually do it. and NO, ur not gonna die. silly girl.

[sammehmyst]

wtf.. if she f*cking threatens you, you tell someone that can help BEFORE she can get to your house. try the police. Don't look afraid because that can hurt you. Just stay away from her FAR AWAY as possible, and report the situation. They'll get her before she can get you.

[lilJdawg]

I guess you gotta' fight her. you aren't going to stand there when she's hitting you, so yeah, get some of your friends to back you up. that's a REALLY stupid reason to be fighing. over a "aim font" what the heck. i say you bitch slap her.

[lilJdawg]

Good Luck & sorry for double posting.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I guess you gotta' fight her. you aren't going to stand there when she's hitting you, so yeah, get some of your friends to back you up. that's a REALLY stupid reason to be fighing. over a "aim font" what the heck. i say you bitch slap her.

...Okay. Like I said. Even if I kicked her ass, it still won't be over. And I'm not going to sit there and let her win.