Need help with a girl |
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 Feb 13 2005, 08:47 PM
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 mmm....beer....  Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854  |
Okay, so this girl and i were good friends. she kinda liked me, but she had liked this other boy for a longer time, so when he asked her out, she said yes. this girl and i now "love" each other ( i sometimes question whether or not she really does ) but she also loves her current boyfriend. She had told me and her friends that she'd rather be with me. She first told me this "code"..."142243, 5144" It was "I want to be with you, maybe one time soon." I told her to break up with her boyfriend but she said "maybe sometime soon."
Allright that's half of it. The other half is about me and this other girl that i like. we like eachother, but she's really mad at me for calling her a cutter. So, i got two girls who like me, and i like the first girl a lot more than i like the second (i think). What should i do? |
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Feb 13 2005, 09:54 PM
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 Whats wrong with my life? Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,755 |
idk.. if u really like the first girl... wait and see what happens...... but i can tell you... if youre good friends u have to be sure that iyou can stay friends once it ends.. .i've lost a friend that way b4.. it reallyy sucked.
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Feb 13 2005, 09:58 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
stick with the second , come on dont be a rebound.
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Feb 13 2005, 10:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
The second. The first one has a boyfriend already. She'll break up with one "maybe sometime soon". And that number thing is so cute. I get it. :]
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Feb 13 2005, 10:17 PM
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mmm....beer.... Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
hehei sent her one that said 2363245 (if you really love me dump phill)
and another that said 1414321422287 ( i know i want you and i want us to be together forever) |
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Feb 14 2005, 01:34 AM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
The second one's a keeper. :D
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Feb 14 2005, 03:18 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
u guys have to know who u "love". dont b players...
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Feb 14 2005, 09:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
o.O don't go with the first girl for sure.. because well, she's cheating on her boyfriend for YOU. =.=" might as well go with the other girl, you might not like her much now, but maybe later it'll all change =)
anyways, if i were you, i'd go with neither. |
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Feb 14 2005, 09:59 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i agree with wishful_dream. if you dont know which one you really want, then don't go for either.
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Feb 14 2005, 10:08 AM
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 thats HOT! Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,920 |
Yea, Im not sure you know what love is and neither does she. How can you love so many people at the same time? Obviousy she doesnt love you enough if shes not with you.
and wtf is up with all the code nonsense. Why not just effing say it?! |
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Feb 14 2005, 01:55 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
wth?
well, don't get with girls that just broke up with their B/F's... And that code thing? Dang, u guys like 8? |
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Feb 14 2005, 03:33 PM
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 ferrero rocher<3 Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,255 |
i would say the second one. because i dont think its right for you to be the reason of them two breaking up (referring to the first girl&her bf) and you would have guilt. also, if she plays those kinda games with you&her current boyfriend .. saying that she loves you behind her bf's back imagine she might do the same thing if you two hook up. she doesnt seem all that trustworthy. idk, thats what i think.
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Feb 14 2005, 05:39 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
I don't get the code thing..... but go for the girl you really wanna be with.
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Feb 15 2005, 11:34 PM
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mmm....beer.... Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
the code stuff was over AIM, god
 all right well today "the second one" told me our "relationship" was a fling and that's all.  screwed? 
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Feb 16 2005, 09:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Just wait & see what happens to the first girl. if things don't work out, wait a couple weeks to ask the other girl out. I really think that you should talk to the first girl about your relationship, maybe that would make things stronger?
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Feb 16 2005, 09:57 PM
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mmm....beer.... Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Feb 16 2005, 7:14 PM) Just wait & see what happens to the first girl. if things don't work out, wait a couple weeks to ask the other girl out. I really think that you should talk to the first girl about your relationship, maybe that would make things stronger?  ...my relationship? with the second? she knows...and she cried till 3 in the morning when she found out because she was writing in her diary and stuff. Which made me feel really bad, and when i asked her how she felt, she said, "Sad, but mostly disappointed." What was that supposed to mean? .edit// that was about 3 weeks ago. i guess now she...doesn't mind because she knows i'd choose her over the "Second" any day. really dirty, i know.
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Feb 17 2005, 08:40 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
leave the first girl alone...even if you do like her more.....she's already with someone else.....go for the second one...the first girl seems to be stringing you on as a backup or rebound...just in case her relationship ends...
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Feb 17 2005, 10:00 PM
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The n000bie oneee :D Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,327 |
i would choose the second girl if i were u
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Feb 18 2005, 02:15 AM
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mmm....beer.... Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
QUOTE(shatteredhope) leave the first girl alone...even if you do like her more.....she's already with someone else.....go for the second one...the first girl seems to be stringing you on as a backup or rebound...just in case her relationship ends... whistling.gif that makes sense...
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