I think that i like, my best friend |
  |
 Feb 13 2005, 04:18 AM
Post
#1
|
|
|
There will never be a day when I won't think of you  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,522  |
thing is...my best friend is a girl
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 04:57 AM
Post
#2
|
|
 crash and burn. Group: Member Posts: 254 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,791 |
are you a girl?!
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 05:32 AM
Post
#3
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
it's okay. be proud of it. if you are not straight that is. x) who knows? she may like you back. but if i were you, i wouldn't ruin the friendship. lols. do what you want, it's your choice. it could turn out to be a great relationship... or a not-comfortable friendship.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 07:36 AM
Post
#4
|
|
 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
so? live with it.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 11:29 AM
Post
#5
|
|
|
questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
so? i LOVE all my friends.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 12:07 PM
Post
#6
|
|
 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
umm...ok? Good for you?
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 01:15 PM
Post
#7
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Maybe you like her as a friend.
Doesn't nessecarily(sp?) mean you love her. |
|
|
|
| *Weird addiction* |
Feb 13 2005, 01:18 PM
Post
#8
|
|
Guest |
nothing wrong with girls liking girls
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 01:18 PM
Post
#9
|
|
 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
um great, ur a lesbian. tell her and see her reaction
get back to me haha |
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 01:19 PM
Post
#10
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
^^^ No.
There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian...just..don't exactly tell her you like her because she probably is going to freak out. |
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 01:29 PM
Post
#11
|
|
 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
yeah nothing wrong with being a lesbian..
moved to relationships |
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 01:33 PM
Post
#12
|
|
 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
nothing wrong with lesbianism
just think twice before coming out at school... you could be in for a owrld of pain life sucks like that |
|
|
|
|
Feb 13 2005, 02:18 PM
Post
#13
|
|
 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
well, if you like your best friend (in that kinda way) that means that you are gay. obviously. but don't worry, it is alright.
 i guess just tell her how you feel. but if she not gay, she might be a little freaked out!  so be careful! good luck! 
|
|
|
|
| *stephinika* |
Feb 13 2005, 08:42 PM
Post
#14
|
|
Guest |
^^
i agree. don't worry, but make sure of what you feel cause you could be misinterpreting your emotions but yeah i agree with frankie. good luck!! |
|
|
|
|
Feb 14 2005, 03:30 PM
Post
#15
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
well is it just a little crush? if not tell us how you realllly feel about her, like makes her special
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 14 2005, 03:42 PM
Post
#16
|
|
 ferrero rocher<3 Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,255 |
if girls turn you on, hey .. whatever floats your boat missy. maybe its a phase. a lot of people go through these stages wheres its like they feel like they could really connect with someone that its as if they were soul-mates. but really theyre just mixed up & its just been so long since theyre last relationship theyre longing for companionship. blaahh i sound like a friggin psychiatrist(sp). anyway .. like i was saying it could be a phase. think it over really well, dont tell her because it might be just a stage & if you tell her your relationship will go down the drain. thats the worst thing that could happen. but if she was really your friend she wouldnt run away from you .. she might avoid you a bit but it will fade & she probably will accept it .. i didnt say exactly take your relationship to another level but if shes your "friend" she'll try to accept it. have a nice day
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 14 2005, 05:28 PM
Post
#17
|
|
 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
A word of advice....... don't come out in highschool. I have a gay guy friend who did. Not a smart plan.
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 14 2005, 05:38 PM
Post
#18
|
|
 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
i agree with the ^.. lols.. newayss dont worrie.. maybe she'll feel the same? you guys are best friendss...soOo yea...
|
|
|
|
|
Feb 14 2005, 10:52 PM
Post
#19
|
|
 the chick who is the alien Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,327 |
its okay, it will work out one way or another
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 3 2005, 03:00 PM
Post
#20
|
|
|
Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,865 |
i was in a similar situation. i told her. she didnt freak out, she was really supportive about it. she didn't like me back because shes straight, but it was good to know she didn't mind.
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 3 2005, 03:44 PM
Post
#21
|
|
 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
Do you like other girls too? Or like looking at girls, etc?
It could be that you are really getting along well with your friend and possibly mixing up how you feel and stuff. ^^She's right, could be a phase. Just wait. If you're sure that you like girls, then tell her your a lesbian. Don't tell her you like her right away though...wait untill she gets used to the idea and is okay with it, and even find out if she likes girls too. If not, it will be wasted effort and ruin the relationship. |
|
|
|
|
Apr 10 2005, 04:53 PM
Post
#22
|
|
 Dark Saga Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,315 |
haha.. Nice, young lesbians <3... I mean.. yea, that's cool.
|
|
|
|
|
Jun 12 2005, 02:26 PM
Post
#23
|
|
 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
maybe its just a close bond!! like you feel like she is your sister and you love her in that way!! thats how i feel about all of my best friends i think they are my sisters!! hehe
|
|
|
|
|
Jun 12 2005, 02:43 PM
Post
#24
|
|
 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
thats not a bad thing.
ask her if she likes you back. |
|
|
|
|
Jun 12 2005, 02:50 PM
Post
#25
|
|
 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
i guess you should tell her, but not very suddenly cause she might get freaked out. hope it works out
|
|
|
|
|
Jun 15 2005, 06:24 PM
Post
#26
|
|
 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
oh :X
tell her.. are you very sure of yourself? |
|
|
|
|
Jun 15 2005, 06:38 PM
Post
#27
|
|
 Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,916 |
Oh well you can't really help how you feel... you should tell her!!
|
|
|
|
|
Jun 15 2005, 06:49 PM
Post
#28
|
|
 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
yeaaaa so what. i mean if you want to tell her thats ur decision. but you like hoo ya like and yya cant help it.
|
|
|
|
| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 16 2005, 05:51 PM
Post
#29
|
|
Guest |
Try to keep it to yourself until you're sure that you are (bi or lesbian) don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong with being non straight. Be proud.
|
|
|
|
|
Jun 16 2005, 06:38 PM
Post
#30
|
|
 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
This may just be a bump, you may think you like her but you might not be a lesbein.
It's not a bad thing, just don't let it out in highschool. People are retarded. I know a few gay guys in my highschool but people don't usually treat them wrongly (that I know of...) Wait it out, if you still have these feelings, you'll know and you can probably talk to your friend about it subtly. You might be able to ask her like "What if a girl liked you that way? How would you feel?" Make sure she gives you a serious answer. Just my advice, take it or leave it ^_^ |
|
|
|
|
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: