the moment, that u feel like separating Options

[x shootingstar x]

you know how most relationship, well at least from what i see, ends around the 3 months time span. most of the couples i know, after 3 months, one or both of them would start losing feeling for each other.. or the excitement is gone. and they will end up separating.

if this happened to you, is it because the excitement in the relationship is gone..
if this ALMOST happened to you, did yall bring the excitement back together? if so, how? if not, what else happened that made yall stay together.


this ALMOST happened to me, =) but that was only because of some mistaken assumption that i made.. hehe.. now, the feeling of missing him is still there.. just like the beginning.. (you know, how the lovely excitement and how you always miss him when yall just started.. sometimes it fades away from you.. but hey.. that feeling is still there for me..) =]

[sarason]

its happened to me at the 1 month span. it happened because she was a b*tch and "lost interest in me" ... in the 2 weeks that followed... she had had 2 other bfs.

[shortiiex]

i never had somebody do....never had teh feeling

[sweetdreamsx3]

Hmm..with my first ex.. sorta. It was a mutual feeling though.

[sheepy]

yeah.. i think i know what you're saying and yes i think i did feel it before... but thats just cus we were having problems.

[lilJdawg]

Nope. never had a relationship that lasted that long.

[*stephinika*]

hasn't happened to me. but its not necessarily the 3 month mark...it depends on the couple. and don't forget, some don't come across that feeling. if they're lucky.

[xquizit]

it's happenning to me now... but we've been together for almost 3 years...

[Just_Dream]

I still miss my boyfriend.. Only because I know it's hard for me to spend time with him outside of school.. well sometimes it's hard to lol.

In my past relationships, yes the excitement is lost.. I tend to lose interest. It wasn't love anyway, it was lust. :/

But anyway, my current boyfriend.. Well, a lot of times I get mad at him, but eventually I get over it, we say our apologies, and make up. :] I guess it's the fact that him and I are able to work through it.

We don't give up, that's what's important. Each time, we try to better ourselves so that we won't make the same mistake again.

[silver-rain]

Hmm, with my first relationship, that was probably the reason we broke up- the feeling was lost. And neither of us tried to work it out... But with my current boyfriend, even though we have fights, we work through it, and the excitement is still there.

[whomps]

Yeah. My longest relationship was almost 3 months.. And I liked that guy for two years. I guess it was just awkward afterwards. We stopped acting like friends and weren't even trying to act like we were together. It was lame.

I broke it off, but after that he started saying all this shit and now he's grown to be one of those people I really despise. Along the lines of my brother (if you know me, you know I really hate my brother), and yeah. He's such a jerk.