sensitive ... hair cut ... mom, long story Options

[OriskybusinessO]

So I have a problem because i am so sensitive about things. And my mom is always so critical of me, its just the way she is, and i went to get my hair cut and i told her i didnt know what i wanted to get it cut like, to ask for her opinion, and she said wll why are we going if you dont know what you want. So I go down to the garage and my mom is talking to my dad and my dads all 'if you dont want to you dont have to.' and he said if theres something else i want to do, and i really wanted to go shopping but my mom thinks i dont have enought clothes, well mom, i only have 2 pairs of jeans that fit me. And then shed get mad if i said that so i didnt say it. And now im really upset and almost crying. Its not no cycle or whatever thats making me feel like this, im just always so sensitive. What should i do about the hair cut and shopping, and what should i do to stop being so sensitive.

[Nicolatofu]

I'm really sensitive too, little things make me upset...I say you do what you want, who cares what your mom thinks? Look at different hair styles..maybe get it layered? You can't relly make yourself less sensitive, but maybe you need to tell your mom that you don't have harld yany clothes and how you don't like how she's so critical of you!

[shortiiex]

jsut tell your parents they make you cry..i am not that senstive...but go shopping with your friends...do everything with your friends instead of your parents

[OriskybusinessO]

They wont let me go anywhere with my friends. They are overprotective.

[xLil SweetnezZx]

my parents are like that too. It sucks. Just tell her what you just said. Explain to her that sometimes she may be a little too critical. Hug and have a mother/daughter moment....then do all the stuff u want. It's worked for me before.

[Shattered_Hope]

Go down there to get your hair cut anyway and when you get there, tell the person that's cutting your hair that you dont know what to get it cut to and they should help you out. For the shopping thing, just tell your mom you want new clothes. And if she still wont go with you then just go with your friends.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Ask the person who's cutting your hair what style he/she would think would look good on you. :] Don't worry. I'm actually very sensitive also..but I punch people when I cry. Haha.

As for shopping, just say you want to look around? If you see something nice, go back with your friends or something and get it..

[Just_Dream]

Tell her how you really feel.. Don't be afraid to. Try to not cry, tell her that it's important that you go shopping because barely any of your jeans fit you any more. Tell her that how she's yelling at you or getting mad at you hurts your feelings.. You just want to go shopping, that's all. Try to get over your sensitivity.. I used to be really senssitive and cry about a lot of things when i was younger because when people yelled at me, it scared me and yea... :/ I got over it though, lol.

[swtchangel]

i am just like you ! i am very sensitive and my parents are frckn` overprotective sooo when i get angry i jst occupy myself with something and tell myself that i dont care about what they think and stuff and you should get your hair layerd? iono in the front though.. if y'know what i mean?

[the_crox]

that sounds exactly like my mom. Err... I dunno anything that'll help. I just don't bother her. sorry.