trouble with friend and boyfriend help me, friend trouble Options

[cartoon_queen]

hell this is my first post on this, and i found this area to write about relationships right, well i have a wonderful boyfriend, been goin out for almost a year, well we have a semi long distance relationship, he lives about three hours away from here, well this isnt the problem, the problem is i have a best friend, and a few days ago came out and told me she thought he was hiding somthing from me, and went on to say all these bad things, well i searously dissagree with my friend, because my boyfriend cant hide things from me and he knows it hehe, but she gave this list of peoples names that all thought the same thing she did, well three of these names were my mom dad and sister, well i got mad because i had already talked to them about this, i have been friends with her for alot of years sense gradeschool but right now i cant even talk to her, i miss her being my friend but i dont know how i can be a friend to her when she thinks my boyfriend is pretty much a lier, i dont know what to do about this, there isnt alot more to the story but she says she isnt jealous, she has had realy bad luck with guys, and i havent had bad luck with mine but she just says bad things about him and i dont know if i can take that from her even if we have been through alot to gether, someone plz help me out on how to figure this out, i cant be around her and not get mad i have other friends i dont want to get into this because i dont want them to have to pick sides i just need some advice
thanks
over and out cartoon queen

[xj_liana_tx]

i think your bf is up to something, i don't think he is too innocent, according to the situation, i seems like your best friend is really telling the truth

[cartoon_queen]

well as far as i know he dosnt lie to me, but my friend dosnt knwo him very well she talkes to him somtimes but not often, it just buggs me, she says its a gut feeling about him hiding somthing from me,

thanks for the comment
over and out cartoon queen

[Shattered_Hope]

your friend just might be afraid of you getting hurt so she's trying to warn you. True she may not know your boyfriend but she might know girls that are in your situation and...in the past their relationships might've not ended right and she fears for you? Or, just stop talking to her if you think she's really bothering you and it's affecting your relationship.

[demonslayeriy]

"she thinks my boyfriend is pretty much a liar*"

maybe he is?

^meant in a polite way?

[_sarcastic_]

who knows maybe she saw him do something bad. and just wanted to warn you first before anything gets any worst, she even has a whole list of names to prove to you that she might be right. so the next time you see your bf, look out for signs.

[Chii]

stop being so naive, just because you think that he'll never lie to you and that he's the love of your life and you can always trust him etc etc doesn't mean he's being truthful...i think your best friend is telling the truth, even if she has had horrible luck with men, that doesn't mean she wants to sabotage your relationship

think about it, you live 3 hours away from him, what if he wanted someone or needed someone asap? it would take you 3 hours to get to him and by then, the problem would pass or get worse, since you can't be there for him all the time, he's probably found someone else, when people find fault with something, they either fix it or find a better model

[demonslayeriy]

even if she has had horrible luck with men, that doesn't mean she wants to sabotage your relationship

haha if she did that shed be a biotch < censorship ruins the emotion

[yukichan]

your friend just might be afraid of you getting hurt so she's trying to warn you. True she may not know your boyfriend but she might know girls that are in your situation and...in the past their relationships might've not ended right and she fears for you? Or, just stop talking to her if you think she's really bothering you and it's affecting your relationship.

yup i agree..since he lives far how could u be sure?

[Skyline Drive]

When it comes to situations like these the best friend is usually right. If you have known her for a longer period of time then you should have more trust in her then him.

Maybe you should try some psychology on your boyfriend and make him think you know what he is up too and maybe he will confess ( that is if he is up too something ).

[sweetdreamsx3]

I guess just be on the lookout.

[Wishful_Dream]

if i were you. i wouldn't neglect my best friend over my BOYFRIEND. guys come and go, true friendship DOESN'T. She is just looking out for you, you should be thankful ya know.. =/ or just talk to her about it.. like how you don't like it.. or ask her why.. because maybe she DOES know something you don't.. how are you so sure.. she doesn't talk to him much? are you around him and her 24/7? =/// anyways, just be on the look out for him like everyone said. x_x"

[*Programmer*]

guys = dime a dosen
friends stay around longer the bf's.....
period.

[alienchik]

it sort of sounds like my boyfriend and best friend. She told me she hates him, I told her he was going to be around for a bit. She still cant get over it that we are dating. I just ignore her on what she says about him. I know friends stay for a long time but its nive to have boyfriends.

[lilJdawg]

Maybe, she's trying to tell you something. So, you better talk with your boyfriend about it. Since it's a long distance relationship, you might not know if he's cheating on you or not.

[shortiiex]

this is just like a movie...
listen to your friend even though you trust ur bf..your bf and you have a loong distance relationship...and that is bad...