this chick that likes me, i dont like her |
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 Feb 7 2005, 09:26 PM
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well this chick really likes me...but i really dont like her...uhh we are really close and good friends and i dont want to hurt her cause i dont want to f**k our friendship up...wtf do i do?
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Feb 7 2005, 09:40 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
let her kno. be honest, but not brutal. tell her how u like her, only as a friend, and u don't want to jeopardize ur relationship with her. or something like that.
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Feb 7 2005, 09:51 PM
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 Clawdia/Violette wants ur eyeballs Group: Member Posts: 2,116 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,477 |
just tell her flat out that you like her as a friend. it might hurt at first, but she will get over it. besides, its better than leaving it like this and not teling her because its going to hurt her more later
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 7 2005, 09:54 PM
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^^
i agree. if you want to still be friends, make sure you let her know that but you have to tell her the truth. |
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Feb 7 2005, 10:05 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
break it to her slowly. noone likes a liar. dont lead her on that u like her
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Feb 7 2005, 10:07 PM
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Yeah, never lead on that you like her...And I agree with Dustin. (When do I ever not?)
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Feb 7 2005, 10:17 PM
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just start a random conversation with her online( or in person ...but if i were u i'd do it on line..less embarassing) and just all of a sudden say ' sorry' and she'll ask why and u tell her ' well i knowhow you feel about me but i dont feel the same way about you...so lets just be friends..okay?'
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Feb 7 2005, 10:20 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell her to go away
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Feb 7 2005, 10:29 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
get a gf. =]
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Feb 7 2005, 10:31 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, tell her. Don't do what I did- which was to ignore my friend, which cost us a year of friendship.
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| *Azarel* |
Feb 7 2005, 10:44 PM
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Don't lead her on. Don't make her believe there's something there.
If you must, break her heart in a manner in which she can forgive you. Tell her you don't reciprocate the feeling. She'll cope much better that way than if you were to ignore her. |
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| *instantmusic* |
Feb 7 2005, 11:16 PM
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be careful. a few years from now you might slap yourself upside the head for turning her down. happend to meeeee....
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| *mzkandi* |
Feb 7 2005, 11:23 PM
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just tell her she will get over it trust me
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Feb 7 2005, 11:23 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Be careful with the words you choose to tell her the truth and Be sure to not be cruel/rude and let her know that you would like it if you just stayed friends.
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Feb 8 2005, 12:00 AM
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 FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
Lol, same thing going on here with me buddy! I dunno what to do myself, but if you dont tell her the truth, it's gonna hurt her even more.
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Feb 8 2005, 02:48 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
tell her the truth..its the best thing u can do for her..
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Feb 8 2005, 10:15 AM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Feb 7 2005, 9:40 PM) let her kno. be honest, but not brutal. tell her how u like her, only as a friend, and u don't want to jeopardize ur relationship with her. or something like that.  thats exactly what i did and shet flipped out on me. she was like "well you just lost your friend. just shut up i dont wanna talk to you." wtf? then she kept IMing me saying shit that started to piss me off and i flipped out on her...shes a bitch, what else could i do...i cant stand when ppl gotta be stupid like that |
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Feb 8 2005, 11:07 AM
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none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(greener44 @ Feb 8 2005, 10:15 AM) thats exactly what i did and shet flipped out on me. she was like "well you just lost your friend. just shut up i dont wanna talk to you." wtf? then she kept IMing me saying shit that started to piss me off and i flipped out on her...shes a bitch, what else could i do...i cant stand when ppl gotta be stupid like that Woah.. what a reaction. You can't always get what you want.. she needs to realize that. |
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Feb 8 2005, 05:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
tell her you're already falling for someone else..
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Feb 8 2005, 05:28 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
QUOTE(tungtwista @ Feb 7 2005, 10:29 PM) get a gf. =] wow.. that sounds incredibly harsh but it would work. |
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Feb 9 2005, 04:34 PM
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 november 25th,, <3 Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226 |
aw sounds like my situationnnn
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