To love or not to love..., That is the question ::so dramatic:: |
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 Feb 7 2005, 09:12 PM
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 *rawr baby*  Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941  |
Ok everyone.. I have a question:
Would rather never have a boyfriend or girlfriend OR Have a boyfriend or girlfriend and become really attached to them? And when I say attached to them I mean, you would refuse breakups and if they dump you for any reason whatsoever you would do anything by all means to get them back because you love them so much. I'm asking cos I've never had a BF and my friend only had one and she is soooo attached to him and everytime he breaks up with her she insists to get back with him and talks him back into and all. I look at that and just think of how thankful I am to not have to go through somehthing like that although I wouldn't mind sharing my feelings with someone.  EDIT: Never have a someone as in haven't had a relationship yet. This post has been edited by royalfreshness: Feb 7 2005, 09:53 PM |
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Feb 7 2005, 09:21 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
hmmm thats hard...i guess never have a boyfriend...but then i would want someone...lol...can i choose both??
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Feb 7 2005, 09:23 PM
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*rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
QUOTE(nekochan1018 @ Feb 7 2005, 9:21 PM) hmmm thats hard...i guess never have a boyfriend...but then i would want someone...lol...can i choose both??  Lol no cos it's either you've had a BF or not 
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Feb 7 2005, 09:47 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
b/w love and obsession is madness. oh don't worry, it's there. it's hard to tell sometimes. i'd rather go out with a girl, enjoy our relationship, and if some serious problems came up that we couldn't fix over a long period of time, we would be able to break it off nice and easily, while still remaining best friends who can confide in each other. like how i am with my ex. we still talk a lot and we tell each other a bunch of stuff. no need for long term grudges.
and besides. who the hell would never want a bf or a gf? i ain't dying as a virgin. lol. |
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Feb 7 2005, 09:49 PM
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 Clawdia/Violette wants ur eyeballs Group: Member Posts: 2,116 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,477 |
i think getting too attached is plain...stupid especially if you are in high school or something. However, sometimes we cant help how we feel so i dont know...its hard. for now, i would rather not have a bf
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Feb 7 2005, 10:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I rather not have a bf if you're going to put the second question like THAT. Why? I'm not some dependent girl that's going to stalk some guy just to get him back. Uppshh. I'm better than that.
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Feb 7 2005, 11:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Feb 7 2005, 9:47 PM) b/w love and obsession is madness. oh don't worry, it's there. it's hard to tell sometimes. i'd rather go out with a girl, enjoy our relationship, and if some serious problems came up that we couldn't fix over a long period of time, we would be able to break it off nice and easily, while still remaining best friends who can confide in each other. like how i am with my ex. we still talk a lot and we tell each other a bunch of stuff. no need for long term grudges. and besides. who the hell would never want a bf or a gf? i ain't dying as a virgin. lol. hahaha lmao...by the sounds of it... it sounds like you only wanna gf cuz u wanna get bootay hahaha |
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Feb 7 2005, 11:59 PM
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 FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
"Have a boyfriend or girlfriend and become really attached to them!"
It's all about the love! |
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Feb 8 2005, 04:07 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i guess id rather have a bf and be really attached
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Feb 8 2005, 05:07 AM
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QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 7 2005, 10:10 PM) I rather not have a bf if you're going to put the second question like THAT. Why? I'm not some dependent girl that's going to stalk some guy just to get him back. Uppshh. I'm better than that. agreed. |
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