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[xj_liana_tx]

ok, there is this guy and i am not sure what he was thinking but..
i was doing my homework, and he just walked up behind me and threw a paper ball at me.. HARD.. and i was like what the heck, and i stood up and i was going to throw it back at him, and he ran and smiled/smirking and was like "no, throw it at where you are standing." but i was so pissed and i just went up to him and threw it at him... then i went back and sat down and tried to do my homework again, and he tried to throw it at me again. it was so mean. but then sometimes i feel that he is really nice to me too, like after i found out my final grade, he walked away from his group and came up to me since i was waiting for the teacher, and he was like saying softly "so what did you get?" and i was like all pissed and upset and went "A really bad grade." and then i tried to make joke out of it and he smiled. also, in band, i was walking to the storage room, and then he called out my name and was like "hey jay do you play piano?" and i was like "yeah sort of." and he played his scale on that little percussion thing and asked me if its right. but then sometimes he just totally ignores me, and other times he just laugh at all my stupid jokes... i also find him looking at me several times (probably because i was looking at him too).
What the heck is with this guy? does he hate me or does he like me?


please read the below replies:


xj_liana_tx Posted Feb 7 2005, 2:08 PM
OMG NEW UPDATES TODAY, btw, i don't know, i mean he doesn't seem that elementary... and the ball hit me really hard!
ok, today, i was laughing really hard in class and i started coughing, and everyone was really quiet trying to do their homework, after class, he walked up to me and gave me a piece of candy and went "do you want this?" and i was like what is it, and he was like "cough drop, you were coughing.. (something along those lines)" and i was lik ok thanks. it was really unexpected, i mean that was really sweet, but i wasn't really coughing i was just coughing from laughing.. i don't know... was he just making fun of me or something?? but he sounded really serious, and it was at the end of the class...
I AM SO CONFUSED!




xj_liana_tx Posted: Feb 6 2005, 7:54 PM
but after his second attempt to throw ball at me, he threw the ball at his friend, unless he want to flirt with his friend too.... so yeah, i mean i am not used to that, i think it's mean, if i am a guy, i don't think i would throw paper ball at a girl i like, especially throwing the paper ball HARD right on her head.

i am too scared to talk to him... i only talk to him when he talk to me.
also, when there are no seats left, he sit next to me, and it was the MOST AWKWARD MOMENTS IN MY LIFE, we don't really talk, but i was fondling with the lab equipments and when the teacher comes and tells me to stop, we would both giggle/laugh the same nervous sounding way (i am not making any sense am i) like most of the time we talk. also, when we were assigned to work on the computer together, it was SO awkward, neither one of us said a word during the whole 15 minutes or so.

i don't know, i mean, he talks pretty much a lot in class, and we BARELY talk, he doesn't seem like a shy guy, so if he does like me, why doesn't he talk to me more?

Also, in my other class, he was assigned to sit next to me, but then he switched his seat with this other guy and sat with his girl-friend in the same row with his friends.. i thought that was pretty mean too.

so unpredictable..








xj_liana_tx Posted: Feb 6 2005, 7:23 PM
but it was really mean though! and.. if he likes me.. WHY.. WHY does he throw paper ball at me.. HARD! also, he is also too popular and too good for me. he didn't ask me to homecoming. well it's just that.. sometimes he is like really nice, but sometimes he just look at me like i am stupid or something.. guys.. i don't know what they are thinking about.


oh yeah, and last semester, he actually stood up for me once.. sort of.
people were whispering about how they don't think i am smart, and then he was sitting there too, and didn't notice that i was standing by the computer, and he was like "Well, she is smart, she just doesn't show it." and when i turned around, he was totally surprised and was like smiling/smirking in disbelief.

so yeah... well i don't believe that he ever SAID anything mean to me, but... sometimes he acts so cold and ignore me. we BARELY ever talk.




edited 2/9 (i am sorry i have to make this so long)

ok, today i was printing something, and he was sitting next to the printer, and for some reasons the printer won't print, and so i was like trying to see what's wrong, and then he turned to me and started to do stuff with the printer and tried to fix it. Then after a while it started on itself and he went "Oh look, i fixed it." and he smiled, and i smiled too.
yeah...

















Ok, today was valentines day, and he didn't talk to me at all, we just made eye contacts for a few times. it's his birthday also, and .. so.. i would think that he would've made a move but.. he didn't.

This post has been edited by xj_liana_tx: Feb 14 2005, 02:13 PM

[InvisiblePopcorn]

It sounds like he likes you. The thing about him throwing the paper at you, was probably just his way of flirting, or getting your attention. And it did get your attention. I think he likes you.

[xj_liana_tx]

It sounds like he likes you. The thing about him throwing the paper at you, was probably just his way of flirting, or getting your attention. And it did get your attention. I think he likes you.

but it was really mean though! and.. if he likes me.. WHY.. WHY does he throw paper ball at me.. HARD! also, he is also too popular and too good for me. he didn't ask me to homecoming. well it's just that.. sometimes he is like really nice, but sometimes he just look at me like i am stupid or something.. guys.. i don't know what they are thinking about.


oh yeah, and last semester, he actually stood up for me once.. sort of.
people were whispering about how they don't think i am smart, and then he was sitting there too, and didn't notice that i was standing by the computer, and he was like "Well, she is smart, she just doesn't show it." and when i turned around, he was totally surprised and was like smiling/smirking in disbelief.

so yeah... well i don't believe that he ever SAID anything mean to me, but... sometimes he acts so cold and ignore me. we BARELY ever talk.

[demolished]

^
He wants to throw ball at you becuase he want to flirt w/ you and get your attention.

Why dont you get to know him more and interact each other more often. All he does is to get your attention and not knowing both of yoy guys.

[xj_liana_tx]

^
He wants to throw ball at you becuase he want  to flirt w/ you and get your attention.

Why dont you get to know him more and interact each other more often. All he does is to get your attention and not knowing both of yoy guys.

but after his second attempt to throw ball at me, he threw the ball at his friend, unless he want to flirt with his friend too.... so yeah, i mean i am not used to that, i think it's mean, if i am a guy, i don't think i would throw paper ball at a girl i like, especially throwing the paper ball HARD right on her head.

i am too scared to talk to him... i only talk to him when he talk to me.
also, when there are no seats left, he sit next to me, and it was the MOST AWKWARD MOMENTS IN MY LIFE, we don't really talk, but i was fondling with the lab equipments and when the teacher comes and tells me to stop, we would both giggle/laugh the same nervous sounding way (i am not making any sense am i) like most of the time we talk. also, when we were assigned to work on the computer together, it was SO awkward, neither one of us said a word during the whole 15 minutes or so.

i don't know, i mean, he talks pretty much a lot in class, and we BARELY talk, he doesn't seem like a shy guy, so if he does like me, why doesn't he talk to me more?

Also, in my other class, he was assigned to sit next to me, but then he switched his seat with this other guy and sat with his girl-friend in the same row with his friends.. i thought that was pretty mean too.

so unpredictable..

[picaso_smile]

Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants... Like sometimes he like you and other times he thinks you mean or whatever.

[lilJdawg]

Maybe he likes you, him throwing the paperball at you was because he was trying to get your attention and to flirt with you.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I hate it when guys throw stuff at me and it sucks even more because it hurts. Iono how they can throw something like paper and it hurts. -.- *brings bat to school with me*

Anyway, I think he likes you and he's doing an elementary way or telling you his feelings...Something like that. :]

[asiu1990]

he likes you, but he's not doing it the right way

[*instantmusic*]

omg. everyone must be going to the same school or something here at CB cause the SAME EXACT situations be going on and on like its cool.

yeah hes got the hotts for you. and hes doing it the old kindergarden hit and run style.

[jaeman]

Yeah, he could like you.

[*Weird addiction*]

i think he likes u

[xj_liana_tx]

OMG NEW UPDATES TODAY, btw, i don't know, i mean he doesn't seem that elementary... and the ball hit me really hard!
ok, today, i was laughing really hard in class and i started coughing, and everyone was really quiet trying to do their homework, after class, he walked up to me and gave me a piece of candy and went "do you want this?" and i was like what is it, and he was like "cough drop, you were coughing.. (something along those lines)" and i was lik ok thanks. it was really unexpected, i mean that was really sweet, but i wasn't really coughing i was just coughing from laughing.. i don't know... was he just making fun of me or something?? but he sounded really serious, and it was at the end of the class...
I AM SO CONFUSED!

[PrideOfAzia]

hes "hitting" on u in a...speshal way..i guess

[*Programmer*]

think back to the age of the cave man...home girl.....be thankful we don't club and knock out who we like anymore lmao......

[xj_liana_tx]

i am really confused.. this is a very weird situation.. he gave me the cough drop today (read the post), but he doesn't really laugh at my jokes in class anymore.....

[XaZnX07]

hey jay i dont have time to help you now but i will edit this later sorry babe



.:tony:.

[jnukes]

i think he likes you. maybe you should get one of your friends to talk to him .. OR .. talk to him yourself. or something. you'll never get what you want unless you go after it

[LittleLulu]

he likes you

his immaturity is the only reason why hes doing any mean stuff.

its obvious he cares about you... n he just does wacko things to get ur attention.

[iki2aZei]

he lykes u..
.... n u lykin' him....?

[xj_liana_tx]

^ yes, i am very much infatuated
that's why i don't know if i am just thinking too much or what


if he likes me, then why did he ask me to the previous dances?
Also, why doesn't HE talk to me?

[someflipguy]

dude that was way to much reading lol!

but yeah samething as everyone else is saying.

[whywasisostupid]

so basically what ur writing here is all your 'special' moments with him?

...great.

i guess he likes you.

[lilJdawg]

He prolly likes you. But he's just shy & you don't know it. Throwing the paper ball was to flirt/get your attention. i think you should go out with him.

[racoons > you]

yeh he likes u. guys are dumb like that. trust me. im a guy. im dumb. its universal property of men. just roll with it

[x shootingstar x]

ask him!!! just talk to him moreee and just ask himmm if he likes you!!!! =D

*sigh* it reminds me of some things.. guys.. well and girls.. they sometimes send mix signals just for attention.. maybe he doesn't like you and he just want the attention.. but again.. what u said sounds like he likes you or at lesat have a light crush on you. =) don't let it go waste!!! treasure ur chances!!

[xj_liana_tx]

^ i want to but he really intimidates me, i'll start off with some conversations first if i know what i want to say... time is running out... this is so confusing

[brand0n]

he probably has a weird way of getting girls

[hpsm2]

I think he likes you, it's his way of flirting... very strange. Some guy did something like that to me. A few years later, it turned out that he really liked me. He was SO ANNOYING! He took my things, messed up my work.

[xj_liana_tx]

^quote: few years later
well.. it's weird, we barely talk.. i don't know, he seems to be more interested in the other girl (who is like better than me in every way)

[TrueMex3]

he likes u for sure. thats a guy's way to get ur attention and flirt around wif u. this guy seems pretty sweet... :]]]
i think he's embarassed himself- i guess, u should give him time and everything. anyways- goodLUCK

[mistaken_identit...]

I guess he likes you.

I get exactly the same thing from this guy I like and...I'm just like you, confused, but hoping he likes me back.

[yukichan]

i think he likes u...hes just trying to show like he doesnt...hes trying to get ur attention by throwing paper balls at u..

[CUTEBUNNY160]

It sounds like he likes you. The thing about him throwing the paper at you, was probably just his way of flirting, or getting your attention. And it did get your attention. I think he likes you.

yup...i was going to say that.lol

[yuna*]

omg..your situation sounds so much to mine..- -'

[bad_girl]

he likes u x]. otherwise, why bother being nice?

[xj_liana_tx]

Ok, today was valentines day, and he didn't talk to me at all, we just made eye contacts for a few times. it's his birthday also, and .. so.. i would think that he would've made a move but.. he didn't.

[rememberme]

thats one long ass post. But...
Sounds like he is comfortable around u to do those things. So, he like you.


Do something back at him for fun.

[rottencherries]

he likes u. it's obviously. why would he flirt(throwing paper ball) with u then? mayb he's shy or sumthing... all i can say is he has feelings for u