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 Feb 6 2005, 03:57 PM
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 My best friend (Whos a guy) has been by my side for almost 3 years now. Hes dated girls in the past. But no one like this.... He claims he "loves" her. But his brother and his friends have talked to me about it and I'm rather concerned. He stopped calling me and makes plans with me and drops out to go out with his girlfriend. It sounds like I'm pathetic but its not like that. Hes completely cut off all communication with me and his family. I respect him and his relationship. but they act like obsessed with each other.... I dont know if its healthy? any opinons?
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Feb 6 2005, 04:00 PM
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Do you know who the girl he is dating is? Maybe you can sorta talk to her?
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Feb 6 2005, 04:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
Yeah, the girl is in my neighborhood... I'm pretty close to her. But I tried.... and my friend told me not to talkto her like that.
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Feb 6 2005, 04:18 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's a new thing that he doesnt know very much about so I guess he's pursuing it to find out more? Give it time and things will most likely go back to normal...
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Feb 6 2005, 06:49 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
this is how a lot of relationships are when they start out, they can't get enough of each other so naturally they want to see and be with each other 24/7...but it will fade out in like a month or a few...and sometimes never like me and my boyfriend, it's been almost 7 months and we still can't get enough of each other
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Feb 6 2005, 11:18 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Feb 6 2005, 11:18 AM) It's a new thing that he doesnt know very much about so I guess he's pursuing it to find out more? Give it time and things will most likely go back to normal...  yup i agree... |
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Feb 6 2005, 11:36 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
It will fade out.. Anything that consists of lying can never end up good.
That's just rude that he make plans with you then breaks them to chill with his GF. He needs a reality check. |
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