i made a total fool out of myself infront of him, >.< now i feel like such a dork. Options

[LittleLulu]

so here goes...

DAY 1-online.. at night.
me n my best friend were jus talking to the guy i like... online.... n i had planned to ask him phone number... soo we talked for a while, then i jus said "hey ____what's ur phone #?" ..n he told me.. but somehow there was a digit i missed...so after he went offline. i told my BFF that i'll ask him tml in out active health class, which is the only class i have with the guy.

DAY 2--at school...

during recess the guy and one of his friends was like... walking towards me n my BFF in the hallway, cuz i was standing at my locker, n the guy's friend's locker is near mine... n so my BBF jus DRAGGED him towards me n was like "hey alice..its ___" n I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO ME BUT I JUSt said "hi" with this ULTRA SOFT VOICE , n i had no idea where it came from. like im ususally really good at controlling myself around the guy i like.. but i just dont know what happened. n i didn't really notice it... untill that night when i was talking on the phone with my BFF n she's like "whoaa alice, i never saw that side of you before...so....inoccent...and...kind..n ....NICE...n LITTLE GIRL LIKE" n im jus thinking ....she also said that just by that, it kinda gave it away that i liked him. but uhh... well......

me n my BFF have been trying to figure out who he likes for a while now..i think its my BFF but my BFF said that she thinks its me....all i knoe is.. that when my other friend asked him what he thought about me.. he said that i was "nice, funny, and likes to strike up random conversations with ppl..and very outgoing."..he's told me once after i told him i knew his whole schedual"i dont care if you know my schedual..i know your not the type of freaky stalker girls who stalk me all the time like *cough ____cough*..." ....he always laughs at my jokes...n we sorta stare at each other alot in class....or maybe im just reading too much into it.. but we definatel make alot of eye contact....

theres just one thing. my friend asked him one if he liked me..n he said "... ".."......"..."no".....but then.. my friend said that he was SORTA avoiding the question..n stalling... but could'nt she just have said that to make me feel better?? after all. she is my BFF.. but she also likes him too.

..P.S- that day.. i had active health after recess..n he still acted the same around me..still laughing at my LOUD jokes..n we still made ALOT of eye contact.
so my question is.. what should i do...do you think he likes me...n i jsut feel like such a DORK>.<

sry that its soo long.

[sweetdreamsx3]

Lol, I read all of it. :P

Anyway, I think he might like you. Get someone OTHER than your BFF to talk to him since you know she likes him too.

[dahding]

awwwww...u went all shy and quiet and said, "...hi." thats adorable. yeah, i think he likes u. get someone else other than ur bff to find out. ask someone else, maybe a close friend of his thats also a close friend of urs to play spy.

[FLIPxADDICTION]

no you didn't make a fool of yourself. he probably does like you.

i have done MUCH worse around my crush. much much worse. i just laugh it off. haha...

[LittleLulu]

^^^ i LOVE ppl like you =) n dont get me wrong, im not lez hahaha

n well.. none of my other friends really ever talk to him.. n btw i've asked him about..3 times weather or not he likes my BFF
me:hey is ___ the girl you like?
him: no
----------other time
me:hey you know it really seems like you like ____..i wouldn't be suprised...alot of guys like her.
him: well i really dont. so dont add me to that list of guys =)

oh n one time...the three of us were talking online..again..n my BFF 's comp was screwed so she kept on going offline..about the third time,
me: ok she was GOTAA stop doing that.
him: yea, its gettin a lil annoyin
(she appears online again)
him: well, do you want me to add her back into the convo now that she's on again?
me: sure...ok.

iono if that'd mean n e thing. but yea....

[dahding]

^^^ i LOVE ppl like you =) n dont get me wrong, im not lez hahaha

n well.. none of my other friends really ever talk to him.. n btw i've asked him about..3 times weather or not he likes my BFF
me:hey is ___ the girl you like?
him: no
----------other time
me:hey you know it really seems like you like ____..i wouldn't be suprised...alot of guys like her.
him: well i really dont. so dont add me to that list of guys =)

oh n one time...the three of us were talking online..again..n my BFF 's comp was screwed so she kept on going offline..about the third time,
me: ok she was GOTAA stop doing that.
him: yea, its gettin a lil annoyin
(she appears online again)
him: well, do you want me to add her back into the convo now that she's on again?
me: sure...ok.

iono if that'd mean n e thing. but yea....

^i'm a dude, so ha! lol

when he said, "don't add me to that list of guys." he seems to be letting u kno that he isn't into girls like ur bff. maybe he's giving u an opening to like him or like, ask him out, or..something..iono.

sounds like he might like u. do something before he likes someone else.

[Skyline Drive]

He may like you , I think you should have someone else talk to him and see what he says. You didn't make a fool out of youself either so don't worry

[LittleLulu]

^i'm a dude, so ha! lol

when he said, "don't add me to that list of guys."  he seems to be letting u kno that he isn't into girls like ur bff. maybe he's giving u an opening to like him or like, ask him out, or..something..iono.

sounds like he might like u. do something before he likes someone else.

lmao ... k then i DO love you =) lol *sigh* you guys are the best .
i have no problem asking other guys about their feelings.. like just a few minuts ago i asked this one guy who i was pretty sure liked my BFF. n he actually told me he did =) lmao n then i ofcourse told my BFF n shes like "holy sh*t" hahahaha

but when it comes to.. HIM....>.< its a while different story.

[blah1234567]

well i think its a 50-50 chance...mabye you should ask him out or something and see what he says..

[LittleLulu]

ohh god...^^^^^ but im too scared........>.<

[kimbutt]

oh geez .. he likes you .. just wait and it's okay if you act like a dork around him, don't you want to feel comfortable around him anyway ?

[LittleLulu]

^^ well smtms i really feel like he likes me.. but the kind of guy he is.. well he's the shy type, but gets hyper once in a while and thats when he really opens up. he's alot "closer" to my BFF than he is to me.. since i admitt im quite loud, i just go up n talk to him.. but then hes always..not so open to me i guess..he talks to my bff way more..n well...its that neglection that makes me doubt weather or not he does like me.

[lovescream]

You must like him a lot considering you're acting different around him.
:\ I think my crush likes my best friend, too. I actually got jealous. . .

he may like you. .. it was kinda tell though. just push yourself and ask him out.

[LittleLulu]

yea... cuz like.. that kinda stuff never happened to me before... EVER...

[LittleLulu]

i know this one i know this one!  i know the answer i know it i know it.

well, its obvious he does like you.  its OBVIOUS.  i was in that guys situation.  ITS OBVIOUS.  hes SHY.  like a dork.  like me.  it sucks i know.  you guys talk a lot and enjoy eachothers company.  hes afraid to ask you out cause hes afraid of a negative response.  and hes afraid of losing your company.

he gets hyper and opens up huh.  (sounds like me)
ok so get em really hyper and really in a good mood.
then...

a.  ask em how he feels about you aka "how do you feel about me and you?
b.  kiss him on the cheek and say "you are so great you know that!? (in a hyper tone.".  he wont know what just happened and his eyes will pop and glow. his heart will bust out his chest.  pick it up and give it back to him.
c. start talking really close to him.  almost nose to nose.  be like "so watcha doin?(in class or something i dont know).  be like right up on his face.  and then... take him down for the count (take that the way you understand it).

just some suggestions.

option a seems really nice.  a little option b wouldnt hurt.

omg reallly?????????????????? cuz like..... k when i started to read ur post i started shaking for some reason.. its just the thought of HIM liking ME is just...
n yea... woo i gotta calm down. ...n honestly, we dont talk that much.. cuz well.. i only have one class with him.. AND HE TALKS TO MY BFF ALOT MORE...she tried asking him...but his response was no...why is that?

[d0rkbaby]

a really cute thing to do if you want to tell him you like him.. is that pretend you need to tell him a secret, and be like psst come here i wanna tell you something... no closer.. cup your hand like your about to whisper something in his ear but actually give him a kiss on the cheek. =)

[LittleLulu]

...okay then if he DOES like me then how come today at recess..he was standing with his backpack-as usual- with that "group" of ppl, some of which i knoe..n me n my friends walked up to their whole group and i started asking everyone "hey are you coming to fine art's night?"...but the whole time basically his BACK was towards me n my friends... ..he was the last person i asked (iono why i always do that...like when i do smthn.. the guy i like always comes last)...n hes jus like "maybe"...really..really...quietely..which is normall for his personality..n the only reason i could "hear" his reply is cuz i read his lips ..his answeres have always been shy n quiete.. whats buggin me is WHY was his back towards us the whole time??he wasn't TALKING to anyone in that other direction...

[xj_liana_tx]

i don't think he would give you his phone number just like that if he doesn't like you at least a little bit.

[Shattered_Hope]

well....he gave you his screenname, he talks to you, he gives you his phone number, he laughs at your LOUD jokes...you two make eye contact...I think he feels something about you.

[royalfreshness]

Lol, that was funny :3. I have stories like this too (and I read the whole thing :P). But at least you talk to the guy, I don't even see my crush on the regular.

[yukichan]

i don't think he would give you his phone number just like that if he doesn't like you at least a little bit.

yup i agree...

[LittleLulu]

uhhh well he DIDN"T give me his screen name>.< i got it from my BFF hahahahaha. cuz she has one more class wif him than i do.

[LittleLulu]

so its NOT cuz..after i sorta gave it away that i like him hes tryin to avoid me cuz he doesn't like me??????hey i aint the prettiest girl in school if ya catch my drift.

[bad_girl]

...okay then if he DOES like me then how come today at recess..he was standing with his backpack-as usual- with that "group" of ppl, some of which i knoe..n me n my friends walked up to their whole group and i started asking everyone "hey are you coming to fine art's night?"...but the whole time basically his BACK was towards me n my friends...   ..he was the last person i asked (iono why i always do that...like when i do smthn.. the guy i like always comes last)...n hes jus like "maybe"...really..really...quietely..which is normall for his personality..n the only reason i could "hear" his reply is cuz i read his lips   ..his answeres have always been shy n quiete.. whats buggin me is WHY was his back towards us the whole time??he wasn't TALKING to anyone in that other direction...

he could still like u.. if he's the shy type.

so its NOT cuz..after i sorta gave it away that i like him hes tryin to avoid me cuz he doesn't like me??????hey i aint the prettiest girl in school if ya catch my drift.

i think he likes u. afterall.. he's not exactly ignoring u! lol. he's still laughing.. isnt he?

[LittleLulu]

he could still like u.. if he's the shy type.

i think he likes u. afterall.. he's not exactly ignoring u! lol. he's still laughing.. isnt he?

...i see your point... maybe i'm just over -reacting...

well since vday is coming up.. n my school is orginizing candy grams.. i'll send him one...=) n ill write..

"dear _______(haha i dont think i should tell you his name )
happy valentine's day=)
p.s-i guess you ARE striaght...or at least...thats what you WANT us to think=D
n um...yea i knoe im loud....i really cant help it. but hey, at least im not a freaky butt stalker like.. *cough* ___*cough*
from-Alice.L-I-U...not L-U-I=)"

[faithin_felix]

the part where he was avoiding the question...hmmm...depends how he was avoiding it, if i see the actual convo, i can tell if he likes u or not,. he has a cooool name..wayyyy cooool

[ichiban]

i read this entire topic .. lol i just thought it was really cute and interesting .. haha ..

so anyways.

i think he likes you and its kind of obvious but sometimes the obvious isnt whats right. so why dont you jus ask that guy who he likes or if he even likes anyone. and then if he says yes, ask him for clues about who the girl is and if it seems like its you then start telling him clues that you like him =) i did that before with .. someone .. ahh it was so cute..

[KissMe2408]

mhmm interesting story. It sounds like he's interested. But i mean just take it one day at a time, what happens..happens. But don't act TOO differently from yourself...i mean you wanna be yourself around him don't yah? lol, but yah take it slow and just be yourself. That's all i can say

[LittleLulu]

okokokokok.....soooo..yesterday me, him, n my best friend were talking online.. again.. and we played truth or dare to try to get the truth out of him.. but he just wudn't say.. no matter what...but HERE is a part of that convo that i thought was really really really well... "good" to my position.its the actual convo. i copy n pasted it. but i just edited the screennames cuz..well HA it was too long n confusing that way.


ME:ark..i never thought i'd say this but

HIM:wut

ME:i

HIM:i suk

ME:think

MY BFF:UR GAY

ME:ur

HIM:yes

ME:...

HIM:lol

MY BFF:ms liu i demand that you stop stallin for time

ME:....nvm..its just too hard for me to say

HIM:wut is it

HIM:just say it

HIM:i dun care

MY BFF:mr angeles here wants to kno BAD

HIM:b as offensive as u want to be

MY BFF:hes expecting somthing

ME:psshhh if you dont care then why the eff should i say it?

MY BFF:ms liu what is it?

HIM:well id rather kno wut u think about me so that i can correct myself from being bad

[audory]

wow. I read that whole thing. It's really interesting.

Try to get you BFF out of the online convos you have w/ him? That's what I'd do, like talk to him myself... but then again, I am one jealous bitch. Be yourself around him, hint that you like him... hint bad!!! [bad as in ... a lot!] Just be like "Are you going to this friday's dance? Who you going to ask?" and stuff.

[faithin_felix]

he likes u. enough said.

or else why would he want to change himself for you?

[LittleLulu]

he likes u. enough said.

or else why would he want to change himself for you?

well ..i was wondering.... would you say smthn like that to a girl you JUST like as a FRIEND?

[turtlekid75]

he likes u. now hurry before he doesnt!!

[faithin_felix]

well ..i was wondering.... would you say smthn like that to a girl you JUST like as a FRIEND?

HIM:well id rather kno wut u think about me so that i can correct myself from being bad

no i wouldn't say it to a friend but what i HAVE said to a friend was this...
but i have said...do you think i'm different from other guys? or...what's the best trait of me?

but thats different from what i bolded...correct?

[LittleLulu]

he likes u. now hurry before he doesnt!!

eeeeek....im soo scared. yikes!!! ahhhhh blah im too much of a wimp. but you know... i think im going to tell him.. soon. AFTER they send out the candygrams on vday=) ...THEN i'll tell him=)


but there was the part of the convo where he kept on saying "i dont like anyone now". or "i dont like her anymore" when we asked who he liked. but you see. in the beggining of the same convo. he just said "..." n wudn't say ne thing..n then he said he didn't like her n e more... n then he started saying he doesnt like anyone. n then he said he never liked n e 1 in the first place. me n my BFF both thought he was LYING so we kept asking. n his answered just kept changing....soo..iono

[faithin_felix]

eeeeek....im soo scared. yikes!!! ahhhhh blah im too much of a wimp. but you know... i think im going to tell him.. soon. AFTER they send out the candygrams on vday=) ...THEN i'll tell him=)
but there was the part of the convo where he kept on saying "i dont like anyone now". or "i dont like her anymore" when we asked who he liked. but you see. in the beggining of the same convo. he just said "..." n wudn't say ne  thing..n then he said he didn't like her n e more... n then he started saying he doesnt like anyone. n then he said he never liked n e 1 in the first place. me n my BFF both thought he was LYING so we kept asking. n his answered just kept changing....soo..iono

now he sounds suspicious, because the line that i quoted earlier.....i've been thinking....a "player" could also say that line, now i'm having doubts...arggh, 50/50...need 2 know him more, i guess

[lilJdawg]

I read it all. I think you should just tell him your feelings or maybe ask him out since he maybe likes you. Or get other people other than your BFF to talk to him. Since she likes him too, she maybe trying to make him not like you.

[shortiiex]

that reading hurt my head...okay so you and your BFF likes the same guy......that causes trouble...you don't want a boy to affect your friendship....what important...a guy or a friend?

[LittleLulu]

but my BFF DOESN"T like him as much as she likes my ex boyfriend. so im already all fussed abt that...(my ex n my BFF getting together)

[x shootingstar x]

aww what good friends.. or could it be? ur bff likes him too and she's willing to let him go because of you? it could be true.. but then.. i mean.. i don't know.. htat's just so sweet.. i don't know. i guess it's valentine and i'm sitting here thinking. =)

[LittleLulu]

aww what good friends.. or could it be? ur bff likes him too and she's willing to let him go because of you? it could be true.. but then.. i mean.. i don't know.. htat's just so sweet.. i don't know. i guess it's valentine and i'm sitting here thinking. =)

well.. she doesn't like him as much now. since he doesn't seem interested in her. ...she doesn't have consistancey in to who she likes....>.<

[LittleLulu]

aww what good friends.. or could it be? ur bff likes him too and she's willing to let him go because of you? it could be true.. but then.. i mean.. i don't know.. htat's just so sweet.. i don't know. i guess it's valentine and i'm sitting here thinking. =)

well.. she doesn't like him as much now. since he doesn't seem interested in her. ...she doesn't have consistancey in to who she likes....>.<

[LittleLulu]

aww what good friends.. or could it be? ur bff likes him too and she's willing to let him go because of you? it could be true.. but then.. i mean.. i don't know.. htat's just so sweet.. i don't know. i guess it's valentine and i'm sitting here thinking. =)

well.. she doesn't like him as much now. since he doesn't seem interested in her. ...she doesn't have consistancey in to who she likes....>.<

[TrueMex3]

forget about it. dont worry. give him some time. he might be having his own personal problems. ::shrugs:: who knows?

[LittleLulu]

forget about who?? my ex or the guy i like now? cuz i already got over my ex