you think you're fat, but you're not |
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you think you're fat, but you're not |
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What is it with GORGEOUS girls thinking they're fat and all ? Is it for attention? Or what-not? Tell me what you chicks think on this.. Cause I know many girls who are not satisfied with their bodies, nor faces.. and they are SO FREAKING PRETTY. You know the ones that are gorgeous but say "*Sigh, I'm so fat. I'm so ugly. I need to stop eating. I need to get plastic surgery." T.T
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![]() <3<3<3<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 ![]() |
Girls don't realize that they are pretty of who they are already and want to change because they think they aren't good enough to impress someone else.
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![]() consistently inconsistent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,128 ![]() |
QUOTE(sharpieaddicteD @ Feb 1 2005, 6:26 PM) Girls don't realize that they are pretty of who they are already and want to change because they think they aren't good enough to impress someone else. ^ totally agree.. if only some girls could see themselves in other people's shoes.. i'm sure that would change a lot |
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![]() Kris is getting bonified. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 ![]() |
yea i have the same thing here...my friend is soo SKINNY and she said i need to lose weight and im like no u dont..im bigger then her!!! and IM the one taht needs to lose it.. =\
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 ![]() |
yeah...my friend is super skinny & she saaid she needs to lose weight...I'm the one who needs to losed weight =( I'm overweight on the BMI scale lol.
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Maybe they're single and they think they're single because they're not pretty enough because they're fat.
My friend thinks she's fat, so she skips lunch. But she's like, not fat! |
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Its for attention and compliments usually.
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![]() kristin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 ![]() |
I know!
=/ I guess nobody feels perfect with themselves, even if they are drop dead gorgous..there's always something they want to change. If your that beautiful, people will be so jelous, they'll talk behind your backs, I guess you start convincing yourself your that bad. Anyway, for other girls who maybe are a bit chubby or something, are most likley seeking for someone to tell them 'your not fat! you dont need to diet! your beautiful!' |
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
they just want compliments. They just stupid girls
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they don't care what other ppl think about her weight, they want themselves to feel good about theirselves so they lose weight
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sometimes girls are really really self-conscious.
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what's your point? i think i'm fat. i think i'm extremely ugly. girls are always going to be unhappy with themselves. your can never have everyone satisfied with the way they look.
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^ I guess that's true. But is it necessary for someone to voice they think they're fat like every 10 seconds?
Sorry, but my friend is so gorgeous, slender & toned. But she compares herself to ME. It is really hard to deal with, because I don't know what to do. |
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depends on the situation but yeah...its usually just fishing for compliments or for attention or something.
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QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Feb 1 2005, 5:54 PM) I know! =/ I guess nobody feels perfect with themselves, even if they are drop dead gorgous..there's always something they want to change. If your that beautiful, people will be so jelous, they'll talk behind your backs, I guess you start convincing yourself your that bad. Anyway, for other girls who maybe are a bit chubby or something, are most likley seeking for someone to tell them 'your not fat! you dont need to diet! your beautiful!' wow! Thats sooo true!!! I agree completely |
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![]() whatever d00de ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 ![]() |
seriously. the most skinniest girls i know say they're fat and i'm like wth? it pisses me off cuz i don't know if they're doing it on purpose or not. some skinny girls even go anorexic cuz they think they're fat.
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it depends how they see themselves. like really really skinny girls, may have a "superficial" mind. so when they see themselves they think fat.
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I sometimes think that. But it's not for attention. I just never feel good enough to be accepted by others. I go to school, and I'm surrounded by all these skinny pretty girls and it makes me feel ugly. But I don't do it fishing for comments....often I don't tell anyone. Instead, I just got a membership to the gym, and have been eating healthier. But it's ridiculous when girls who are perfect do it. I'm far from perfect!
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it's all the medias fault.
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![]() summer whore and nothing more ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,370 ![]() |
i feel this way about myself because not too many guys like me as more than a friend.. and it could be because im shy, but its so much easier to blame it on something i cant help like how i look, than something i can, like my personality.
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I think most of us (including me) talk about how fat they are cuz its nice to hear, "omg what are you talking about! your so skinny!"
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![]() it's our chemistry ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 ![]() |
Yeah, I know what you mean... but then again, I'm one of those ppl who complains about thinking she's fat, so ionno. Sometimes I'm perfectly happy with my body, and other times I just have no self esteem whatsoever. x_X
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![]() Hey People ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,295 ![]() |
but i no i am and people call me that too...
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![]() You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 ![]() |
QUOTE(xbr0kensmil3 @ Feb 1 2005, 7:45 PM) seriously. the most skinniest girls i know say they're fat and i'm like wth? it pisses me off cuz i don't know if they're doing it on purpose or not. some skinny girls even go anorexic cuz they think they're fat. well when you turn anorexic, it's more of the "mind illness" that makes you think/see that you're fat so... yea it doesnt matter if they were fat or not. maybe they think if they have some imperfections they're hideous? i dunno ![]() |
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just beacause you (or someone else) things that that person is pretty and not fat, the person herself may think that she IS fat cause she has seen skinner girls.... we all have different tastes.
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well.. yeah im kind of one of those people. and i def dont do it for attention and what not. everyone tells me im skinny and my weight and bmi says im underweight but when i look in the mirror i just dont see it. i see a little thing on my stomach or somewhere else and its just like i want to lose it and not be self concious about it. no one has ever told me i was overweight or anything.. all ive ever heard is skinny. i dont know why i think this way. i mean i KNOW im not fat i KNOW im not large i just want to be skinner and lose some weight. if that makes any sense. yeahh.
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
I have seen skinnier girls than me I often compare myself to those people. Even though I weight less than 100 lbs., I'm still insecure about my body and yea.. I know I'm not the fattest person, but I view myself as chubby and I feel the need to lose more and more weight. :errm:
Some people might call me crazy, but I just can't stop thinking about my weight and my size.. :T |
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![]() Hi! I'm Dani :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 ![]() |
i find it kinda weird when some girls do that
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girls always think that. people look at them different while themselves call themselves ugly or fat.
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lol. for the people that are pretty they're usually fishing for compliments. i don't know. i don't complain about the way i look. i got what god gave me. *shrugs* some people just need to learn to live with it. as for weight, yeahh, sometimes i tell me friends that i need to loose some weight, but its no biggie.
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![]() mosh. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,841 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,114 ![]() |
QUOTE(mishyerr @ Feb 1 2005, 6:22 PM) What is it with GORGEOUS girls thinking they're fat and all ? Is it for attention? Or what-not? Tell me what you chicks think on this.. Cause I know many girls who are not satisfied with their bodies, nor faces.. and they are SO FREAKING PRETTY. You know the ones that are gorgeous but say "*Sigh, I'm so fat. I'm so ugly. I need to stop eating. I need to get plastic surgery." T.T um.. its obvious. they're fishing for compliments. NO DUH! |
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![]() ferrero rocher<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,255 ![]() |
when i say i think im ugly, im not looking for attention. im fugly. hehe
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they say " oh i'm fat " so that people around them will be lyk " no you're not! you're so pretty and skinny! "
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QUOTE(alone in the world @ Feb 2 2005, 6:33 PM) when i say i think im ugly, im not looking for attention. im fugly. hehe ![]() ...thats fishing for compliments. ![]() |
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It is a girl thing. Harmones... I hate it when they do that, they go like "i'm so fat" and then they are actually skinny. I somehow look different at school. the lights.... i need foundation.
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i think i'm fat.. x_X all my friends say i'm fine.. but ya know.. it's my opinion and i'm sticking with it. >=( i don't really care what others think.. or say =/ it's what "I" think that counts for me =P
not everybody that says that wants compliments alright? just because you see people around the hall doing that doesn't mean they are fishing for compliments. everyone is different. we have a right to express what we are feeling. just because you EAVEDROP and hear it doesn't mean you have to CARE or respond alright? |
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![]() High Voltage!∞ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 ![]() |
QUOTE(sharpieaddicteD @ Feb 1 2005, 3:26 PM) Girls don't realize that they are pretty of who they are already and want to change because they think they aren't good enough to impress someone else. i agree...but really, no girl is truly happy with herself..if you really think about it..there'll probably always be at least one thing they're not happy with.. |
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![]() I like it like that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 ![]() |
I don't really know what I am. I see myself in the mirror and all I see are flaws. My mother thinks I'm beautiful, my friends don't think i'm skinny, mostly because most of them are overweight. Sometimes girls just concentrate one what's bad on their body rather then what's good, ok, most of the time.
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for3ver y0urs ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 ![]() |
I don't think any girl is *completely* satisfied with what thye look like, there's always some part of them that they think they can improve.
but yeah, i think it's party for attention; because as soon as you say that, all your friends will coo, "no, you don't need surgery, you're so beautiful, look at all the guys that like you, etc etc etc." ironic, but i think the prettier girls out there have less self-esteem/confidence. |
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![]() The Eurasian Concert Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 ![]() |
Yea, I hate it when they do that, I wanna slap them.
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![]() cameraman swing the focus! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 ![]() |
they just want more attention and people to tell them they are beautiful.
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