how would u handle this situation, ..ma heartbreakin story lol.. |
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 Jan 31 2005, 06:44 PM
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ok this might be long if so im sry..
ok to start off i was with my bf for almost a year ..then one day some gurl texes him and was talkin to him..and i was like who was that..and hes like nobody..so i was like den it must be a gurl..and he was like yea..so i said to him.."do u like her" and he didnt answer me..then he gave me that look like"damn she found me out"..anywasy gettin to the juicy parts..he was tellin me taht he didnt do anytnin wit her b.c he was wit me and he didnt wanna cheat on me and us end on bad terms..so he broke up wit me and ever since then i been real sad cuz i really do love him..but when i was wit him he gave me a ring that was his..and when he broke up wit me he said"the day i stop loving u is the day i will take away that ring which will be neva" so i felt a realief there knowing that he did still love me..but the thing i dont get is..he goes wit some chick that he says he neva met nobody like her b4 and she is sooooo diff from any other gurl..and im not tryna sound rude at all but she is veryyyyyyy ugly...she is the ugliest person i eva seen in my lyfe no joke at alll..but anyways..we still talk and all that but its not then same cuz everytime i call him shes wit him so he dont answer and everytime i wanna see him hes wit her again..so im think that im not gonna call for a while so he gets the point and knows the reason why we never talk..but yea..hwo would ya'll deal wit this situation..do u think hes fake and he really dont love me?...i need some advice..plzz ppl..and o00 yea sry dis is so long |
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| *mishyerr* |
Jan 31 2005, 06:49 PM
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How old are you? I'm 15, and I completely comprehend the fact that the chance of "true love" happening at this age is less than .5%. If you REALLY do love him.. than like all those mushy movies, novels, etc. say, you'd be 'happy' for him. But seriously, I know it's hard to get dumped.. I've felt it before, too. Nobody in Createblog or any of your friends can really fix your heartbreak but yourself. A year is such a long devotion, it must be so hard on you. I really don't know what to say. I know for sure though that this guy definitely does not love you. I'm not sure about how you feel for him though. Good luck. I think you should move on and find someone capable of loving you, a girl probably with a lot of beautiful passion and love.
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Jan 31 2005, 06:55 PM
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yea it is been rough on me but ill get over it sonner or later..thanx for the advice
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Jan 31 2005, 06:56 PM
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and oo yea..im 14 lol
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Jan 31 2005, 07:00 PM
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maybe he forgot about the ring...
and.. i can understand, jealousy, i guess in your situation, you would probably just win him back. |
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Jan 31 2005, 07:02 PM
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He doesn't love you.
He lied about the ring and whatnot. The reason he still didn't get it from you is because he just forgot about the ring. She really IS the girl of his dreams. They'll probably last for a long time. And in case you're wondering, he made out with that girl atleast 5 times while you two were still going out. - Solipsist |
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Jan 31 2005, 07:02 PM
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I can kinda relate to you in some way I know how hard it is right now. Im goin through something similar to what your going through. Ive been inlove with this guy for 4 years n we been dating on and off. Now he has a new gf and it's hard really hard. He told me that the day he stops loving me is the day he dies n that he could never not talk to me. He just got wit this new gurl and he said only cuz right now we cant be together cuz we are in 2 diff states, and that when he comes down here for college then to stay we will be together. The same thing when i call him he dont answer cuz he is with her. Whenever she is around he dont want to talk to me really. I know how you feel, I feel like I dont have a heart that's how hard it is. It's hard to see someone that you are inlove with, love someone else. I know this isnt advice but I can kinda relate to how you feel n thought id say sumthin. hang in there
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| *Azarel* |
Jan 31 2005, 07:03 PM
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QUOTE(Solipsist @ Jan 31 2005, 4:02 PM) He doesn't love you. He lied about the ring and whatnot. The reason he still didn't get it from you is because he just forgot about the ring. She really IS the girl of his dreams. They'll probably last for a long time. And in case you're wondering, he made out with that girl atleast 5 times while you two were still going out. - Solipsist  
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Jan 31 2005, 09:46 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
QUOTE(Solipsist @ Jan 31 2005, 6:02 PM) He doesn't love you. He lied about the ring and whatnot. The reason he still didn't get it from you is because he just forgot about the ring. She really IS the girl of his dreams. They'll probably last for a long time. And in case you're wondering, he made out with that girl atleast 5 times while you two were still going out. - Solipsist  Agreed. |
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Jan 31 2005, 10:48 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
hmMMmm.. very confusing.. but i think he stil has a lil feelings for u. but.. dun suffer for a guy dat was cheatin on u. move on wit ur life gurl !!
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Jan 31 2005, 11:43 PM
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I don't think he loves you, and like said, he probably just forgot about the ring.
You'll just have to get over it. |
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Feb 1 2005, 03:43 AM
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QUOTE(Solipsist @ Feb 1 2005, 8:02 AM) He doesn't love you. He lied about the ring and whatnot. The reason he still didn't get it from you is because he just forgot about the ring. She really IS the girl of his dreams. They'll probably last for a long time. And in case you're wondering, he made out with that girl atleast 5 times while you two were still going out. - Solipsist agreed. you're a bit young, and it wasnt love. go out more and move on. dont double post and spell correctly. |
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Feb 1 2005, 04:06 AM
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QUOTE(ichiban @ Jan 31 2005, 6:43 PM) I don't think he loves you, and like said, he probably just forgot about the ring. You'll just have to get over it. i agree...try not to think about him as much...the only thing u can do is move on...unless u try to win him back...good luck...and hope u feel better... |
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Feb 1 2005, 03:22 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
sorry but i think he fell out of love with you. you should try to move on. theres alot of better guys out there for you
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Feb 1 2005, 05:04 PM
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i think he wnated the relationship to end before you found out about the other girl but didnt want to hurt you? but i guess it didnt really work and you just have to forget about him
there are better guys out there...dont forget that |
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Feb 1 2005, 05:18 PM
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people change. people's feelings change. give him space and move on.
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Feb 1 2005, 10:29 PM
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i agree with the post above me.. ^
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Feb 4 2005, 04:57 PM
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QUOTE(Solipsist @ Jan 31 2005, 8:02 PM) He doesn't love you. He lied about the ring and whatnot. The reason he still didn't get it from you is because he just forgot about the ring. She really IS the girl of his dreams. They'll probably last for a long time. And in case you're wondering, he made out with that girl atleast 5 times while you two were still going out. - Solipsist I second this. 
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Feb 4 2005, 08:53 PM
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He's a fake. He just tells you that so you won't be sad. My advice: move on & find somebody new.
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Feb 5 2005, 02:03 PM
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sorry if this crushes you but you've gotta face the reality and know that he doesn't love you..if he did he wouldn't go off with another girl no matter how much he liked her...
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