what a controversial xanga post..., what do you think? |
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| *stephinika* |
 Jan 29 2005, 05:54 PM
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okay well...let me explain. i posted this thing on xanga and i'll post it here so my story makes sense:
QUOTE i thought i'd start off with this thing i found on royalfreshness's xanga while i was browsing... "choose 15 people that you'd want to say some things to, but would never say it to their face." but...before i begin, just a note: the only reason i'm actually doing this list is cause i don't feel like starting shit with people. or i'm too lazy to actually go out and say this stuff...not so much i'm afraid to, though i will admit some are partly that but not all. or maybe i've already said this stuff hmm? who knows. anyways. on with it. 1 // you think are so f**king hot don't you? seriously. your ego is way too inflated...okay so you are pretty, talented, etc...but you don't need to rub it in everyone's face all the time...doesn't make you that important. so quit it. seriously. 2 // its great that your life is so wonderful right now and all and i am happy for you...but you don't need to constantly tell me how to live. i know you mean well but...its gets to be...discouraging at times. i don't know. 3 // you are beautiful. i just wish you would accept that. i don't say shit to be nice...i hate that. i say it because you truly are if only you could realize it yourself...you're an amazing person. cut yourself some slack. 4 // why did you have to go and ruin it with that one small fact about you? otherwise, i would have seen you as practically perfect before...but now...no. but you seem to have improved but meh. i don't care about you so much anymore but you still tend to catch my eye when i see you pass by... 5 // you disgust me. you're way too cocky for your own good...so what if you're hot? you're still a jackass...i thought you were cool but i soon changed my mind. and what a liar you are...stop attempting to show off. how shallow can you get? you are almost (note: almost) partly why i left. 6 // what a hypocrite you are. and prejudiced. i hate you. 7 // you'll never know just how much i truly do care for you...my god. its unbelievable. i'd give up anything for you...you are an amazing person. i mean that. but i always wonder...do i mean the same to you? i feel like you do sometimes but...i honestly really don't know. 8 // how can i like and dislike you both at the same time so much? i'm oddly comfortable and uncomfortable around you too...i don't understand it but whatever... 9 // hopeless. that's all i can say about you. you're a great person but...hopeless. i suppose you will learn things in time but so far...not much progress has been made. meh. nothing more i can do. *shrug* 10 // you are a wonderful person but still...you seem so immature to me sometimes. that has such a negative connotation, but its the only word i can think of at the moment. but anyways, maybe its just me. or something. because i feel so much older around you sometimes though i shouldn't. maybe its our different experiences. 11 // you annoy me sometimes. some days you are so sweet and others, all you can do is piss me off. quit the double act. two-faced people piss me off a great deal. and i would rather not be constantly upset with you. you can be funny, but you need to grow up a bit still. 12 // quit trying to be cool. its just annoying in general. i didn't mind you too much before...but now its getting really annoying. yes, you want to be popular but...no. not happening. 13 // i love you more and more each day...but at the same time...i don't? that makes no sense but whatever. sigh. life is too confusing. 14 // you are another shallow one. stop going after the so-called 'hotties'...for once, like someone for who they are instead of what they look like. yes, physical attraction is totally fine...but once in awhile...a lot actually...you tend to push it. 15 // why are you like this? why? why must you constantly lie to yourself over and over...? well. a friend of mine who i'm able to be surprisingly honest with most of the time asked what number she was and i told her. then we kind of got into an argument about how i shouldn't have done it anonymously and now i must deal with the 'damage' etc...not that many of my friends read my xanga but people talk as she put it. now. i know all the 'wrongs' of this list thanks to her now but anyways...i'm not going to remove it. its my xanga and my friend also pointed out i'd look like a coward if i did. but anyways... just wondering what people think of the situation. would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga? what would you say to them? would you even say anything? would you have posted a list like this? i dont know... i could just use some opinions. please and thank you. |
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Jan 29 2005, 06:05 PM
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 none of it seems real  Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
Not at all , I respect the way my friends feel and their rights to say it on their own xanga. What would you say to them? would you even say anything? I'd ask my friend if anything on there was about me, but if she didn't want to tell me then it's fine. I can live with it , but I'd like to know her real thoughts about what she is feeling towards me. Would you have posted a list like this? Yes, and I wouldn't take it back if it started problems because If that's how I feel then I'm going to say it. - It's your xanga, it's your opinions. Don't let anyone tell you what to think.. if that's how you feel. |
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Jan 29 2005, 07:34 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
no... What would you say to them? would you even say anything? no. becuz if she was my friend and she had anything to say about me, she'd say it to my face. Would you have posted a list like this? no...it's stupid..the only thing similar that I'd do would be write the current problem or issue that I have. 
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Jan 29 2005, 07:57 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Well you're friend is stupid. Haha.
I mean; it's your xanga. Your free will to write whatever you please. If they don't like it, tell them to go f*ck themselves because it's called freedom of speech. Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga? depends if it's directed towards me. lol. What would you say to them? would you even say anything? I'd say it's my life; my words; go suck a c*ck. Like I care what you think.. it's my xanga- i should feel free to write whatever i please. Would you have posted a list like this? yeah; sure. :] I love anomonyous(sp?) bashing 
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Jan 29 2005, 09:27 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Jan 29 2005, 7:57 PM) Well you're friend is stupid. Haha. I mean; it's your xanga. Your free will to write whatever you please. If they don't like it, tell them to go f*ck themselves because it's called freedom of speech.  actually...you can't just write anything on your xanga this is the first bullet in the terms or use on xanga QUOTE Xanga's Terms of Use is designed primarily to protect our members. To help maintain a safe and fun environment at Xanga, you must agree not to use Xanga's products or services to: upload, post, email or otherwise transmit any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable; ..and freedom of speech doesn't mean that you can say whatever the f*ck you want... Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga? i wouldn't, people are entitled to their opinions What would you say to them? would you even say anything? i might ask which one i am, it depends on the person, but if everything is really bad i wouldn't really want to know...if it's like a good close friend, i'd ask and try to fix the problem he/she has with me Would you have posted a list like this? yeah i would have... it's not such a big deal that you made a list like that, because it's like you're protecting other people's feelings, and plus if they weren't so oblivious when it comes to you, they'd know who they are 
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Jan 29 2005, 09:46 PM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
ooo yeaa i noe that thing.. mah friend did it.. it dont matter wat they wrote bout youu... yea i think it is controversial because ppls get pissed about it and if you noe your gonna get mad then why bother asking? .. feel better.. and xangas are just a form of expressing your thought.. so in a way it is a freedom of speech... it dont mean you cant say watever the f*ck you want but it does mean you can write your opinionss
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Jan 29 2005, 10:07 PM
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I wouldn't be mad if I saw this on my friends xanga.. even if they made it obvious as to which one is directed towards me because well it's anonymous for a reason. I probably wouldn't say anything about it unless there was something written on there that was really offensive or something like that. I would post something like that because you can say how you really feel about people and well if they have a problem with that then thats just it that's THEIR problem
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Jan 29 2005, 10:20 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
not really, i guess everyone is entitled to their own opinion What would you say to them? would you even say anything? well, i'd ask my friend if i was on there or something. i guess i would be curious as to what she/he might think of me Would you have posted a list like this? well, i already did post a list like that, and it caused a big discussion with my boyfriend (but he wasn't my boyfriend at the time i posted it) |
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| *x____duckii* |
Jan 29 2005, 10:38 PM
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would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
If one of them was about me, then yes since my feelings would get seriously hurt. what would you say to them? would you even say anything? I'll tell them why can't they just tell me that instead of posting it in a xanga and I'd tell them how mad I am. would you have posted a list like this? Yes, but I would write down their names. |
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Jan 29 2005, 11:17 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
no, if that's their opinion, then it's their opinion What would you say to them? would you even say anything? i wouldnt say anything about it since its anonymous, and i personally wouldnt care less Would you have posted a list like this? yeah i would. |
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Jan 29 2005, 11:22 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga? no, i wouldn't really care.
what would you say to them?i'd tell them that's pretty much the truth would you have posted a list like this?sure, i brutally honest sometimes myself. |
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Jan 29 2005, 11:24 PM
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would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga? it depends. if i know which number i am...and it's something NICE about me...then i'd be flattered. but, if they're one of my best friends and they put something insulting about me...then i'd confront her.
what would you say to them? I'd ask them what number I was .. and after i read it .. i'd ask them why they wrote that. would you even say anything? would you have posted a list like this? ive posted one before. |
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Jan 29 2005, 11:35 PM
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would you be mad if you found this on your friends xanga?
well it depends how they describe me and what are my problems what would you say to them? if they said something that arent true and took advantage of me, i 'll cuss da shit out of them and tell that person that its not true. would you even say anything? would you have posted a list like this? i would said something but i would not violate any rules in createblog. |
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