feeling bad...., boy troubles.. Options

[krismiss678]

EDIT.
thanks guys...someone can close this now.

[NgocQuyen]

heyy...yur not a loser...lols...cuz im just like...in yur sich...only im not turning 16...just 15...but thats besides the point..lols...anyways...maybe you really dont need a bf..lols...maybe you just want a bf...so whos knows...aCk...sorrie i didnt answer yur queshun...but for me its highly impossible and thats ok! hehe...you dont need to be in a serious relationship to be happy lols x]

[krismiss678]

yes i do because i want to make someone feel special and i just want someone to love me...ugh. i dont know. this whole thing really sucks. ugghhh i just got reminded that valentines day is coming up. great. i spend every valentines day alone. ughhh...

[xj_liana_tx]

so according to you, i could've committed suicide 2 years ago, i never went out with anyone, you are just feeling insecure, don't worry, have a happy birthday and hopefully the presents will cheer you up, be confident, i heard that confidence is pretty sexy

[crashingg]

^^ it is sexy

and krismiss678 calm down, take some deep breaths and start enjoying life! its beautiful. and right now im in a serious relationship for 1 year and almost three months.. hopefully it'll all go well. good luck!

[krismiss678]

i know i know. and i do enjoy life...its just sad i cant even get a date..

[The 1 and only J...]

i know exactly how you feel cause im gonna turn 16 soon and i don't have a g/f and there is just nothing you can do but wait for that one person. cause you don't want to rush things. trust me i've done that and it didn't work out at all. so just wait and he'll come.

[sarason]

patience is a virtue.
-some wise asian person

just wait.. he'll come........ chances are there probably is someone that has interest in you.... it isnt taht easy for us guys to show that... the only reason i asked my gf out was because i knew she liked me too... and being the over-enthusiastic person she was she just told me straightup.. but hey, its your decision

[Mireh]

13.

it lasted six months, we just broke up

[MeanBastard]

Maybe you don't show attractive attributes to males..

[*stephinika*]

you're only 16, don't worry about it. guys don't have to be such a priority in life...just relax.

[lilJdawg]

Aww, don't feel bad. when god thinks the time is right, he'll send you an angel from above. just be paticent & wait. My first relationship was when i was 12 & my first kiss was when i was 13.

[Ington]

Steph is right. You shouldn't want to revolve yourself around guys. Its better if you don't. Let them come to you. All you need is some confidence in yourself. As a guy, i know confidence is important for any relationship. And when they do come, which im sure they will, have fun with it. Chances are that it won't last forever, and with that in mind, just try to have some fun.

And anyway, Ive only been in a couple of relationships myself. Im fine as i am.

[*tweeak*]

aw kristin

well, at least you had a boyfriend for 2 days. thats more than i can say =/ i have till august to turn 16, and ill probably still get there without being kissed or going out at all. but then i suppose you were already aware of what a pathetic loser i am. and now im pitying myself. sorry. must stop.

but hey, maybe the people who said youre too good for the guys at our school is right, because im certainly not too impressed by them

[Skyline Drive]

you're only 16, don't worry about it. guys don't have to be such a priority in life...just relax.

I agree. I am almost 17 and I haven't ever really been in a serious relationship. Don't be in a rush. Just let it happen on it's own..

[emmalie]

it takes time me for example ive had alot of boyfriends , and ALL of them were a HUGGGEEEEEE dissapointment

SO , let time take its course , and eventually life will push a great guy your way.

[sweetdreamsx3]

The other girls who hook up with guys every single days are like..hos, okay? Just wait..like all the above other people said, he'll come. Don't be desperate just because he hasn't shown up yet. You gotta wait for the right one and it'll feel so great. Sorry about your mom having surgery.

[disneyprincess77]

Hunny, first off let me (hopefully not) be the first to tell you that boys are stupid and 80% of HS relationships are a waste of time. I was in your position, trust me, I was just like you. But you know what? It may take you a while but you'll soon find out that all of your friends ARE right, you are too good for any guy. Any HS guy that is. It really takes time to understand, give it a year. But until then, try finding out who you really are. Get to know and love yourself in and out before you set your mind on getting to know and love someone else. Trust me, it really helps to REALLY know yourself. Maybe turning 16 is a great new beginning for you to start, just try.

[Chii]

they're like "you're too good for any of the guys at our school"

i think they're right, the only guy i dated at my school was a bastard, and most of the guys i dated that don't go to my school were a lot better than that guy

Hunny, first off let me (hopefully not) be the first to tell you that boys are stupid and 80% of HS relationships are a waste of time. 

i really have to disagree with you on that, no relationship is a waste of time, you learn something from each of them and grow


my first serious relationship happened when i was 14, just because you're going to be 16 and not have a boyfriend isn't the end of the world, you have years and years ahead of you to find that special someone, just be who you are and eventually some guy will see what a great person you are and ask become your boyfriend

[LittleLulu]

well...if ya wanna hook up with a guy.. well keep your eye on one guy at a time n try ur luck. your bound to make sm1's heart skip a beat.

so yea... so im 14...n i've only had 1 bf so far... n he turned out to be a total bastard, but i dumped him in the first place so i dont blame him for bein pissed>.< but still i just wish he'd get over it.