Boy problems.., what to do.. |
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 Jan 25 2005, 08:25 PM
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Well, now I have another question for everyone
I have a bf. and my ex just told me he still loves me, and another guy, a friend, told me he also loves me. (except he's 18 and I'm 14) I love my bf, but I get really upset whenever my ex or my friend tells me they love me. It's really upsetting to me. So here is my question: What should I do? Today I took a day for me just to think, so I didn't go to school, which is not a good excuse to stay home. I was just that upset. Because I love my ex as a friend and I think I'm starting to fall for my friend, because he is more romantic then my bf. Another problem though, he lives in New York. So yeah, what should I do? |
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Jan 25 2005, 08:34 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Hm. Well I think you should forget about your ex. If you're obviously with someone right now, you shouldn't go back to your ex; and you only like him as a friend.. so yeah. If you're starting to fall for your friend, i think your boyfriend should break up with you. If you love your boyfriend, how can you even fall for someone else?
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Jan 25 2005, 11:27 PM
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Ignore the ex. Since the guy you're supposingly falling for lives in New York, I would say don't do that...but after reading ^^ her reply. I think your boyfriend should break up with you since you're falling for someone else. That's wrong.
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Jan 26 2005, 12:57 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(xd0rkette @ Jan 25 2005, 3:34 PM) Hm. Well I think you should forget about your ex. If you're obviously with someone right now, you shouldn't go back to your ex; and you only like him as a friend.. so yeah. If you're starting to fall for your friend, i think your boyfriend should break up with you. If you love your boyfriend, how can you even fall for someone else?  yup i agree... |
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Jan 26 2005, 05:29 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
forget about ur ex. u've moved on already.. dont go backwards a step.
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Jan 26 2005, 05:31 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if you only love your ex as a friend then you've basically answered your own question. you dont like him anymore, you've moved on. ignore him.
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Jan 26 2005, 06:31 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
so you clearly have no feelings for your ex, which is good. now for you friend who lives in new york. you better decide who you want to go with before you break someone's heart.
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Jan 26 2005, 06:45 AM
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I'm a sexy beast Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,103 |
I dont think you truely love any of these guys if you cant make up your mind about it.
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Jan 26 2005, 04:42 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Forget about the ex. And if you fall for your friend..that'd be consider kinda cheating? becuz it'll sooner or later it'll lead to something...and I think you should have fidelity in your relationship with your boyfriend..I suggest you tell him how you feel and what's been happening..it's the right thing to do..
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Jan 26 2005, 10:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
forget both of them. concentrate on your current boyfriend right now.
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Jan 26 2005, 10:27 PM
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hey, forget your ex. move on already ... your ex is not worth being your " friend " .. get over him .. i think that is the only way to move on ..
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Jan 27 2005, 08:49 AM
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For you to even bring up your ex. means you still think about him. i think you dunno what you want. drop em all and start over fresh. but hey if you falling for your friend that might be a fresh start. Hint: LONG DISTANCE DOES NOT WORK!
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Jan 27 2005, 11:06 AM
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 dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
If you live far away, and you never met this guy in new york, there is no way in hellt hat you are falling for him. You are making urself do so. You can't do it. You have to know the person if you are.
Other than that, If you do know him and are falling for him, what are the chances of seeing each other again? This boyfriend of yours...Does he love you in return? Why don't you tell him that you want him to be more romantic? |
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