what do u like in guys? |
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 Jan 25 2005, 07:54 PM
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im a guy and im jus wonderin
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Jan 25 2005, 09:28 PM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
i guess...both??but personality is more important
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Jan 25 2005, 09:36 PM
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QUOTE(cRaZiiXbEauTiFul @ Jan 25 2005, 9:28 PM) i guess...both??but personality is more important  so you would go out with a really ugly guy if he had a good personality? |
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Jan 25 2005, 09:53 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
Things that are off the list.
Humor. :] Tht's one thing. |
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Jan 25 2005, 11:12 PM
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both.
and there are already topics like this...remember, there is a search button! 
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Jan 25 2005, 11:15 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
both..everyone has a diff opinion of ugly!
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Jan 26 2005, 03:59 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Both.
My guy has to have a good personality & good looks :] They have to have both; because shamelessy, if they guy has a good personality, and is not good looking; i wouldn't go for him.. and if the guy has good looks, but a bad personality; i wouldn't go for him either. He must have both or he's off my list. |
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Jan 26 2005, 04:07 PM
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for me both....there is already a topic on this
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Jan 26 2005, 04:07 PM
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Oh, yes. I remember a topic about this exact same thing a while ago! Isn't that wild?? well I go for both personality and looks, and I will admit it! But I won't date a guy just because he's cute. He's gotta have a good personality!
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Jan 26 2005, 04:13 PM
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Uh. Both
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Jan 26 2005, 04:52 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
both...
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Jan 26 2005, 07:43 PM
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i like both personality & looks.
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Jan 26 2005, 08:11 PM
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if he's cute and sweet.
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Jan 26 2005, 09:40 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Mostly personality but some looks
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Jan 26 2005, 11:09 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
god, so many of these topics floating around! eh i'll answer newyz. I lnotice looks first, but personality is very important too
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Jan 27 2005, 05:44 AM
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 Save the drama for yo mama! Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,740 |
ok this will sound so weird but i like their smell! well if they smell good....yah but not like deoderenty smell like natural smell...to much deo is just *
 * also, guys with a great sense of humour are great! and caring guys 2!
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Jan 27 2005, 05:11 PM
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Both. I believe that people must be at least a little bit sexually attracted towards their significant others.
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Jan 27 2005, 06:36 PM
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All the guys I'm attracted to are rejected by my friends. So yeah, it really depends on what looks mean to you. But yeah, I'm pretty sure everyone looks for both. As shallow as it sounds not alot of people would go out with a guy they think is ugly as hell just cause he's "nice." But personality is a must. No matter how good they look, if they don't have the right the personality, chances are you aren't going to be interested.
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Jan 27 2005, 06:51 PM
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uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
QUOTE(behemoth81790 @ Jan 25 2005, 9:36 PM) so you would go out with a really ugly guy if he had a good personality? well it depends on your definition of ugly..probably not though. i guess looks are important..even to those who say they arent important..so yeah...but i also wouldnt go out with a guy whos really cute but a total jerk. |
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Jan 29 2005, 12:26 AM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
i wouldn't fall a guy who had good looks and a bad personality
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Jan 29 2005, 12:27 AM
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i dont wanna sound self absorbed but if hes is ugly then i owuldn't go out wiht them. they have to have both!!
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Jan 29 2005, 10:55 AM
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I'd say.. a way to meet a guy/girl is mostly depended on looks. I mean, come on, you wouldn't go hit on a person that is not appealing to you, right? But I'm sure that people have friends.. and they fall in love because of their personalities.. not just because of how they look. In the end.. it's the heart that falls in love, not the face.
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Jan 29 2005, 11:07 AM
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Yeah i like both but i really like the hair or if a guy wears eyeliner, but only cetain guys can wear eyeliner.[QUOTE]
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Jan 29 2005, 11:42 AM
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personality of a guy really matters.. well to me..
if there cute and caring,hott and all those goodie good stuff hell yeah.. he's good. actually both is aiight...   hehe
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Jan 29 2005, 03:00 PM
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I'd have to say both..cause both count lol..
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Jan 29 2005, 03:52 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Both.. and humor. Ya
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Nov 22 2005, 09:41 PM
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Both for me! He has to have a unique personality and he has to look mild. I mean, he doen't have to be gorgeous, just as long as he has nice facial characteristics. He has to be taller than me!! I'm median height but their are still really short guys out there.
Holy Moly, I ask all lot out of guys. I'm not really that picky, it's just hard to explain. |
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Nov 22 2005, 10:35 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i voted for both...but looks really dont bother me as much...if you're a jerk thats totaly hot you're uglier than my feets...
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Nov 23 2005, 02:56 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
both, of course.
but what i really love is that sexy confidence and the something that just makes him stand out to me. |
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Nov 23 2005, 03:12 PM
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Personality is key, but looks help.
So, I said both. |
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Nov 23 2005, 03:31 PM
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QUOTE(behemoth81790 @ Jan 25 2005, 10:36 PM) so you would go out with a really ugly guy if he had a good personality? It really depends on the personality, I usually don't see guys by their looks, although I guess if someone was obese, I probably wouldn't like them. |
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Nov 23 2005, 07:24 PM
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As shallow as it may sound. I'd take both into consideration. I mean it could be the sweetest guy in the world, with a demented eye and I don't think I'd go out with them. =\
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Nov 23 2005, 09:54 PM
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 with.much.love <3 Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 286,943 |
both...
but if the person only had good personality, the person would be a friend. if the person only had good looks. the person would be a jerk if the person was both... watch out. 
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Nov 23 2005, 10:01 PM
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 -Officially Insane- Group: Member Posts: 870 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,293 |
Personality. I don't care about looks as long as he's got an awesome personality. If he's cute though..that's just an added bonus
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Nov 24 2005, 09:49 PM
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 SAXY kathy Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,550 |
both. i first notice the look and then see if he has a nice personality and some sense of humor :] then i ask if he's a christian :D
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Nov 24 2005, 10:00 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
Both, a good personality and good looks make a great guy
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Nov 26 2005, 02:56 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
It's always important to have both. I thought it could work if i dated a guy with an awesome personality, even though i really wasn't attracted to him physically, yah...doesn't work out either. lol you need to be attracted to both who he is and what he looks like. Both is key :) not one or the other. So that only took me, what...how many years to figure out?
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Nov 26 2005, 03:27 AM
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Both. Basically everything Katie said. ^_^
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Nov 27 2005, 12:51 AM
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i like a great personality more than looks cause they dont have to be hot...they just need to be adorable in their own way :)
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Nov 27 2005, 02:39 AM
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personality is big but looks are needed to an extent also. im sorry that is a bit shallow but honestly if i knew this guy with a fabulous personality but didnt look all to good at all itd be kinda hard to think of him as more than a friend. there has to some kinda physical attraction to keep the relationship romantic? but personality is what it should be founded on for me.
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Nov 27 2005, 03:24 PM
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yea... personality.....
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Nov 27 2005, 07:31 PM
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hi,i'm HUONG.=] Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,739 |
both.
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Nov 27 2005, 07:48 PM
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 when you smile, i melt inside Group: Member Posts: 1,325 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,089 |
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yeah, i'd have to say both, but maybe abit more to the personality side. |
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Nov 27 2005, 07:49 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Personality is the key, but he has to atleast look DECENT.
I wouldn't date a guy I thought was butt ugly.. I'm sorry.. But I have to atleast think he looks ok. He has to have a good personality too, duh. |
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Nov 27 2005, 07:59 PM
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 oanh is awesome *nods* Group: Member Posts: 470 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 190,637 |
personality, Then Height...I love tall guys, I do...
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Dec 16 2005, 09:30 PM
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yeah, looks will always be a factor. it's just to what degree that varies but before i can't be sure i got to take a look at their personalities. i've had too many bad experiences to not consider that.
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Dec 16 2005, 09:31 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Yes, I think looks would be a key factor indeed, but I love my guys to be sweet, like hey baby, and I love yous a once in a while..
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Dec 17 2005, 02:14 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
The looks attract me, the personality keeps me.
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Dec 20 2005, 10:39 AM
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A guy with a confident personality is a big turn on for me; but a nice bum, cute eyes, and sexy legs all help
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Dec 20 2005, 11:59 PM
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 ^ignore. read> Maria. Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,799 |
both. MY guy needs to be PERFECT
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Dec 21 2005, 05:07 AM
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 Oreo Nazi >=) Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,794 |
Gotta be both. No doubt about it. Looks are a MAJOR issue though.
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Dec 22 2005, 09:04 PM
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I guess both, but doesn't everyone say that. I mean, me personally, first I notice looks, and then I find out their personality. But, according to my friends, I'm shallow. But, you know.. I guess I have to change
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Dec 22 2005, 09:25 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
well i say looks, personality, and a since of style.
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Dec 27 2005, 01:24 PM
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well for me, i dont go for the REALLY UGLY guys but dont always go for the drop dead georgus ones. (sometimes i do xD) WELL ANYWAYS i want to get to know them to get to know their personality. thats what i look for the most
but then guys, its the complete opposite. it seems that they go for looks =[ |
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Dec 27 2005, 02:54 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
at the beginning... looks, but the eyes really catch me. and then after talking a little, if there's chemistry. and personality wise, they have to be funny (but can be serious too), have some sort of passion like music or sports, be at least a little cute, somewhat smart, and someone i can talk to about anything like problems, or just have a discussion about something. but there are always exceptions lol
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Dec 27 2005, 03:01 PM
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 ...who created this mess...? Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 |
Both. I mean, the guy could be really good-looking, but his personality is just really mean and unstable or something. So, I guess they both have to be balanced.
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Dec 28 2005, 05:47 PM
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Both silly! Why would I want one and not the other?? unless u like ugly guys, or pretty boys w/ bad personalities...
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Jan 22 2006, 07:48 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
personality is key but looks are a bonus
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Jan 22 2006, 08:06 PM
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Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
things i like in a guy....
-personality -some what attractive -taller than me -nice smile -knows how to dress -good hygeine (sp) -nice body ...but personality is the biggest key. 
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Jan 23 2006, 08:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
I was initially attracted to my boyfriend's looks..... but oddly, I don't find him good looking anymore. I'm in it for his personality now.
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Jan 25 2006, 01:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,746 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,931 |
I like guys who don't make threads like this. :]
The ideal guy would not try to be ideal (e.g. the whole flowers-candy ordeal). He just would be. |
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Feb 4 2006, 11:27 PM
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Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
^tru tru lol
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Feb 4 2006, 11:28 PM
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personality. f**k looks.
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Feb 4 2006, 11:37 PM
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Both.
I know it's shallow, but I first approach someone that's attractive than approaching someone that's not. But if I find out that he's a total a-hole (which has happened), I'm not even going to bother. Which is why it's both. I mean, non-attractive guys are okay, too. It's just that I might not see them as a boyfriend and just as a friend. |
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Feb 14 2006, 12:55 AM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
QUOTE(behemoth81790 @ Jan 25 2005, 7:36 PM) so you would go out with a really ugly guy if he had a good personality? Actually, yeah. I kinda found that out about myself that if a guy is caring enough, he could be the best looking guy ever. Except maybe if he's fat :/. |
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Feb 14 2006, 02:10 AM
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definatley personality -- looks is just a bonus // if you get a guy without a good personality, then what good is it? he'd just be there for pictures. not emotional support or anything... *shrugs* just my opinion from past expirences
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