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 Jan 23 2005, 01:17 AM
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 brandon demarin  Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512  |
if there was a guy who liked u, how would u want him to ask u out?
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Jan 23 2005, 01:22 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Maybe when we were alone together.....like at a park, or anywhere, I guess. I don't think I would mind if I really liked the guy, but I wouldn't want him doing it in front of all my friends or anything...I would prefer us to be alone.
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Jan 23 2005, 01:42 AM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
if i wanted to ask a guy out. i would run up to him, give him a hug and ask him "do you like me?" but of course i wouldn't ask a guy out. i'm too chicken
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Jan 23 2005, 01:50 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
i wouldnt want him to ask me out if i didnt like him.. otherwise, anywhere would be great.
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Jan 23 2005, 02:10 AM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
How? Um, maybe by pulling me aside & asking me if I wanted to go out sometime?
 I don't know.
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Jan 23 2005, 02:59 AM
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 »»»»»»»»»»» Group: Member Posts: 557 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,261 |
I don't think the guy's asking where, he wants to know how, as in when and what to say... or someting.
I dunno...  there's no universal way that works for everyone, it's just different for every situation. Good luck!  QUOTE(FLIPxADDICTION @ Jan 23 2005, 1:42 AM) if i wanted to ask a guy out. i would run up to him, give him a hug and ask him "do you like me?" but of course i wouldn't ask a guy out. i'm too chicken  Um, you can always ask me out..  (no seriously  )
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Jan 23 2005, 03:07 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
I'll probably wait and wait and wait and wait... I've been waiting for 3 years and still didn't do anything lol. Well...
It would be very sweet if you bring 4 white roses with a 4 leaf clover attached to it. Be creative and tell her that you want to have her as your girlfriend. Lets see what happens then. I think this idea is very cute. It was actually my wish for a guy to do this to me too lol. Actually it's also a lot of girl's wishes too. Oh yeah the 4 leaf clover --- It has to be real, not fake. You have to find them. 4 leaf clover usually means lucky, but to my friends and I --- It means "4 leaf clover is like finding a boyfriend/girlfriend" So to show that to the girl by showing the 4 leaf clover, she'll probably know that you want her as your girlfriend. Oh yeah if you think she will not get what 4 leaf clover means, then get a piece of a small paper and write "4 leaf clover is like finding a girlfriend, will you be my girlfriend?" the reason is 4 roses because it relates to 4 leaf clover.. 4 get it? So yeah it has to be a same number to make your dreams come true. Good luck! |
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Jan 23 2005, 03:10 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Jan 23 2005, 4:07 PM) I'll probably wait and wait and wait and wait... I've been waiting for 3 years and still didn't do anything lol. Well... It would be very sweet if you bring 4 white roses with a 4 leaf clover attached to it. Be creative and tell her that you want to have her as your girlfriend. Lets see what happens then. I think this idea is very cute. It was actually my wish for a guy to do this to me too lol. Actually it's also a lot of girl's wishes too. Oh yeah the 4 leaf clover --- It has to be real, not fake. You have to find them. 4 leaf clover usually means lucky, but to my friends and I --- It means "4 leaf clover is like finding a boyfriend/girlfriend" So to show that to the girl by showing the 4 leaf clover, she'll probably know that you want her as your girlfriend. Oh yeah if you think she will not get what 4 leaf clover means, then get a piece of a small paper and write "4 leaf clover is like finding a girlfriend, will you be my girlfriend?" the reason is 4 roses because it relates to 4 leaf clover.. 4 get it? So yeah it has to be a same number to make your dreams come true. Good luck! that's so cute. i'd like that too.
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Jan 23 2005, 04:47 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ ditto. that is sooooo sweet. i would die right then and there if any guy came up to me and did that.
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Jan 23 2005, 05:08 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Jan 23 2005, 12:07 AM) I'll probably wait and wait and wait and wait... I've been waiting for 3 years and still didn't do anything lol. Well... It would be very sweet if you bring 4 white roses with a 4 leaf clover attached to it. Be creative and tell her that you want to have her as your girlfriend. Lets see what happens then. I think this idea is very cute. It was actually my wish for a guy to do this to me too lol. Actually it's also a lot of girl's wishes too. Oh yeah the 4 leaf clover --- It has to be real, not fake. You have to find them. 4 leaf clover usually means lucky, but to my friends and I --- It means "4 leaf clover is like finding a boyfriend/girlfriend" So to show that to the girl by showing the 4 leaf clover, she'll probably know that you want her as your girlfriend. Oh yeah if you think she will not get what 4 leaf clover means, then get a piece of a small paper and write "4 leaf clover is like finding a girlfriend, will you be my girlfriend?" the reason is 4 roses because it relates to 4 leaf clover.. 4 get it? So yeah it has to be a same number to make your dreams come true. Good luck! aww that's be cute 
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Jan 23 2005, 09:58 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
yes. i dont think i could get the courage to ask him out
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Jan 23 2005, 10:10 AM
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 oh sO GiNi-isH Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,248 |
hmm...well if I really like the guy then it doesnt matter as long as he asks me out
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Jan 23 2005, 10:17 AM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
I'd want him to ask me out.. <:l
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Jan 23 2005, 10:52 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Jan 23 2005, 3:07 AM) I'll probably wait and wait and wait and wait... I've been waiting for 3 years and still didn't do anything lol. Well... It would be very sweet if you bring 4 white roses with a 4 leaf clover attached to it. Be creative and tell her that you want to have her as your girlfriend. Lets see what happens then. I think this idea is very cute. It was actually my wish for a guy to do this to me too lol. Actually it's also a lot of girl's wishes too. Oh yeah the 4 leaf clover --- It has to be real, not fake. You have to find them. 4 leaf clover usually means lucky, but to my friends and I --- It means "4 leaf clover is like finding a boyfriend/girlfriend" So to show that to the girl by showing the 4 leaf clover, she'll probably know that you want her as your girlfriend. Oh yeah if you think she will not get what 4 leaf clover means, then get a piece of a small paper and write "4 leaf clover is like finding a girlfriend, will you be my girlfriend?" the reason is 4 roses because it relates to 4 leaf clover.. 4 get it? So yeah it has to be a same number to make your dreams come true. Good luck! That's so cute i don't think i'll ever have the guts to ask a guy out |
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Jan 23 2005, 01:41 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
omg thats the spiffiest idea i EVER HEARD from ANGEL_ROH omg thats so romantic ahHhhh i wish someone would do that to mee! ohh haha wow...well its hard to say but naturally maybe tell her that youve had feelings for her for quite some time or whenever you have started
 uhh but yeah who knows maybe shes been waiting for you to ask her out.
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Jan 23 2005, 01:47 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I wouldn't mind the place really...as long as I liked the guy then it wouldn't matter.
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Jan 23 2005, 02:17 PM
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OKAY haha the guy I LIKE asked me out by.. wel he just got a new cellphone and he goes.. "can i take a picture of you?" and i was like "..no!" and he was like "why not? than my wallpaper would be blank" and i said "because.. than people would think we are dating..!" and he said "well.. why dont we just go out and it would be okay?" and i was like "sure..." and he goes "YESSS!" ..
haha he's such a cutie pie. ;D |
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Jan 23 2005, 02:53 PM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
LOL! wow, but its like 1 in a million chance that she would say "because.. than people would think we are dating..!" to me
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Jan 23 2005, 03:10 PM
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 need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
hm..if i still remember how he asked me out..
Well this is kinda lame..but I came home from my cousin's house and he sent me like..tons of Ims  but i finally answered them and he was like "where were you? I missed you?" and all that stuff. So when i was about to get off he asked me out..but he didn't say we were offically going out until the next day. I think he asked me out on Dec 23rd..but he wanted it to be Christmas eve..BUT the way I picture it is... He ask me out infront of my friends, their always saying how I'm not a girl friend material thing..and they he just takes me away in his arms.. Silly yes But i like my dream proposal moment. |
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Jan 24 2005, 12:39 AM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
hahahaha :)
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Jan 24 2005, 05:50 PM
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i would want him to ask me out face to face no phone no internet
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Jan 24 2005, 05:51 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
let him come up to me and say "wanna go out" umm simple..
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Jan 24 2005, 05:54 PM
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 Nymphetamine Girl Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 |
Well,
Since I'm the outgoing type I'd find out if he liked me or not. If he did, I'd pretty much just be me because he liked me..for me. So, no faking or anything. Then, since I'm me and guys are sometimes pressured, and half the time a lot more nervous... I'd ask him out, which I've done many times. It takes a lot of the weight off the guys shoulders. That's just me though. |
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Jan 24 2005, 06:50 PM
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 nOW wHY tHE hELL aRE tHEY bLINKIN'!?! Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,739 |
Do's~Be Sweet, Ask me yourself,be confident,dont even think about being rejected,feel good about yourself,smooth words,in front of alot of people and sometimes in front of no one at all...
A REALLY GOOD THING- send me some secret admirer notes.. then in the last not let me kno its you.. then ask me out... its really adorable but dont try to make it stalkerish Dont's~dont get a friend to ask for you,be nervous(we are to if we kno ur gonna ask), dont say i love you UNLES YOU MEAN IT( we kno you dont unless you confess your true and absolute love to her), dont joke..youll feel happy an cool but shell feel like shit-she will tell all of her friends and you wont really have any chance of getting another girlfriend until you graduate and go to college- you will then feel like a moron! |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:57 PM
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 Rock out X3 Group: Member Posts: 319 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,317 |
yeah I really wouldn't care how or where cuz I like him. AS long as you're not rude or anything or do it in front of a million people. There can be a few friends I guess just make sure they're not in the way or anything. I think it might be better if you did it alone, but for you you may feel more comfortable knowing a friend is nearby...idk hope that helped?
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Jan 25 2005, 11:26 PM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
thanks dooyoohthink and all others, but thats not what im lookin for........like what should i say? what should i do? where should i do it?
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Jan 26 2005, 12:58 AM
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need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
just be you, and ask her out?
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Jan 26 2005, 06:54 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
like maybe save me from a ball in PE or something then ask it after?
or at least do something really sweet then start talking about what he's been "thinking about"... then ask
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Jan 26 2005, 08:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
i would just like for him to go up with me and ask me. i mean if we share the same feelings for each other, then that's great enough.
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Jan 27 2005, 12:04 AM
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Hmm...
I know we're good friends...and I really love it this way, but I feel like there could be something more. Wanna go out sometime and see if there really might be something else? Yeah, I get straight to the point. |
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Jan 27 2005, 12:05 AM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
with a rose... =) that's so sweet!
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Jan 27 2005, 12:15 AM
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 wake me up when september ends Group: Member Posts: 281 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,381 |
i would want him to come up to me at school and pull me aside from my friends and ask me out. or on the phone. just simple. i wouldnt want anything special because it would make me feel stupid. but do not ask anyone out on the internet because i wouldnt know if he was serious or not, unless that was your only form of communication in which case it is ok to ask them out via the instant messaging.
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Jan 29 2005, 07:13 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,669 |
yeah I"m a boy how I knwo how to ask a girl that I liek out I"m kinda of shy so. lol yeah thanks lots
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Jan 30 2005, 04:55 AM
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hehe well what i think is a sweet way to ask a girl out is: if you hav any school dances, ask the girl to slowdance w/ you and at the end of the song or w/e whisper in her ear "will you go out with me?" hehe thats what my bf did to me
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Jan 30 2005, 09:14 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,997 |
when a guy gose to ask you out the shouldn't do it on the phone or online.. thats just wrong
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Feb 6 2005, 11:58 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,426 |
haha i dont think the guy needs to make it too formal or anything. but definitely no notes. i hate it when i get notes asking for dates because i never get a clue of how to reply unless they ask first in person. anything besides notes are fine and sweet though. :) and no-notes means the guy is courageous enough to do it.
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Feb 6 2005, 12:09 PM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
cool, i might ask her with the school dance thing :)
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Feb 6 2005, 12:38 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I would like him to ask me casual.
Example #1: So I was thinking about going to a movie , would you like to be my date ? Or if you are "asking her out" as in you want her to be your girlfriend.. Try.. Example #2: Well I really like you and I was kind of sort of wondering if you would like to be my girlfriend ? |
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Feb 6 2005, 06:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 527 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,735 |
Doesnt matter.. but my dream is to have him put a big bunch of flowers on my desk (during 1st period when everyone has thier elective classes) and i come to 2nd period and theres the flowers with a note (not a note-note i hate thoese, but one of thoese cards that comes with flowers, ya know?) and it says something (i dont know something romantic maybe?) And then hes waiting for me in the hall. Is that cheesy?
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Feb 6 2005, 08:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
if you dont wanna be embarrissed.... then jus when's she's with a group of friends you go "hey____ can i talk to you for a sec?" realy casually,...n then jus be like "will you go out with me?"..straight up, no games...and if she likes you BAM!..if not then theres not much you can do
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