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 Mar 23 2004, 03:04 PM
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guys... girls... whatever....
the guy i am totally in love with (we dated all last year and we're still good friends, and we still like each other) he asked my friend to prom  should i tell him how upset i am or just pretend like i dont care?!?!?!
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Mar 23 2004, 03:17 PM
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when is prom?
like, if its in a few weeks or days then yes, because you can change your mood anytime or something... but if its like really bad, like you lost interest or feelings or w/e.. then id suggest not. just be honest you know? in a relationship, honesty is the best weapon that you have, never lie to your lover... the more you lie, the faster the relationship dies. if u guys really understand each others feelings, telling him no and the reason why... he should understand. i guess it all depends on how far you are in the relationship. |
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Mar 23 2004, 03:27 PM
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thanks... proms not til may 9th... im really scared though... to tell him... its complicated
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Mar 23 2004, 03:29 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(likethestardust @ Mar 23 2004, 3:04 PM) we still like each other are you sure it's mutual? because if you still like each other you would be together again. let him know you're still interested, but if your friend said yes - let them go, dont interfere, because you'll end up losing a friend. |
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Mar 23 2004, 03:51 PM
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talk to him, pretending you dont care is the worst thing ever.
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Mar 24 2004, 03:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,065 |
shes not really my friend... i only see her at church... shes more of an aquitance... but someone i like! and she KNEW i wanted to go with him!!!!! im so mad at her! and yes it is mutual and that was reallly really really mean of you to suggest otherwise.
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Mar 25 2004, 01:35 AM
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since this is for guys... gurls...
moved to relationships. |
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Mar 25 2004, 11:11 AM
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definitely definitely talk to him. there's nothing worse than ignoring the situation. if nothing else, he'll know that you are being honest with him and not playing games.
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Mar 25 2004, 12:36 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
why dont u talk to ur friend, and tell her how u feel about it. ?
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Mar 25 2004, 02:40 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i say tell him u still like him cuz maybe he wants to ask u to the prom but dont know if he'll get rejected or maybe he asked ur friend to get u jealous so u'll confess to him lols i have a weird imagination
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Mar 25 2004, 04:20 PM
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 lovedme_lovesmenot...explain that! Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,423 |
the best way to go is to tell him...you have to be sweet and stuff about it but let him know how hurt you are....guys just dont take hints....even the biggest hint you can think of wont take care of it....you have to just tell him strait out whats going on.
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Mar 25 2004, 04:32 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you should always try to get your feelings out .. holding it back won't do you any good. talk to him about it and see what happens from there.
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Mar 30 2004, 10:58 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u should tell hym
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Mar 31 2004, 02:51 PM
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Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
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Mar 31 2004, 03:00 PM
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QUOTE(dani41790 @ Mar 31 2004, 11:51 AM) ... ummm.... what is this? If u have nothing to say please don't say anything. That was just a waste of space. Anyways... i think u should go talk to him or your friend if it's hurting u. Cause... if your goin to hold that in... it's just goin to hurt u even more. And your just goin to keep on thinkin all these negative stuff... maybe he has a good reason... and it better be good... Welps, Good luck on what u decide. 
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